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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is no 1 definition of a swinger, which is why if i see someone state anyone else is not a swinger, i always challenge them to tell me what one is.
that said, by the original version of it, you have to be a couple to be swingers, as they were originally wife swappers, but there are huge swathes of people looking for singles, whether male or female, so to say singles cant be swingers, is wrong.
also, saying those that dont organise meets over the internet arent
those that wont fuck anything with a pulse
and yet these 2 groups seem to be singled out moreso than many others.
so, sorry, cant give you a definition of what one is, however, can tell you what one isnt, and thats someone that picks people up in a club at the end of the night for a d*unken one nighter.
not labelling anyone, just, for me personally, they dont qualify.
swinging is more of a lifestyle than a drink and a poke, if you can manage it. |
