FabSwingers.com forum: Opposites attract?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your opinion on this old saying? Do you find you're typically drawn to those different to yourself, or them drawn to you, or you more of the opinion that like attracts like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im usually driven towards someone with a fiery temper like mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, i seem to get my boxers in a sweat when i see taller women lol

...not sure if it's just pure coincidence that everyone i've got along with has been taller than me lol

I think i need to carry out an experiment with someone shorter than me.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Of the opposite sex, definitley....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, i seem to get my boxers in a sweat when i see taller women lol

...not sure if it's just pure coincidence that everyone i've got along with has been taller than me lol

I think i need to carry out an experiment with someone shorter than me.

Good luck with that Popeye!

As for the 'opposites attract' theory? I'm undecided!

Every partner I've had has been quite different. Ok the majority have had a wazza pair of jugs - but personality wise they've all been individuals, some sharing similar traits to me, others completely different.

Guess we're all just different - not necessarily opposite.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

similar for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how i wish that were true, the woman at No 15 is gorgeous.

Opposites may attract in the very short term but it doesn't last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was my complete opposite. The bit where I liked sex and he didn't, became less of a endearing quirk after 15 years.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol"

Oh you do make I laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour and intelligence I am attracted to similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mans man ... and Im a woman

Yes so thats ok

I like Angelina Jolie - Im the total opposite so on this theory opposites then

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

You don't have below average IQ so you're in

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my hubby and I don't have much in common but we have been together 27 yrs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

You don't have below average IQ so you're in

Gee thanks I'm just getting my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

I have a shorter than me,shaved headed,extremely intelligent, black man I'm very attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish...

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

You don't have below average IQ so you're in

Gee thanks I'm just getting my coat

I've got the lube, let's go......

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

I have a shorter than me,shaved headed,extremely intelligent, black man I'm very attracted to

No-one here matching that description, move along........

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish..."

Revision of selection criteria required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

Oh you do make I laugh

ya bastid!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

Oh you do make I laugh

ya bastid!

Lol no, I mean it in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

Oh you do make I laugh

ya bastid!

Lol no, I mean it in a good way!"

i know

lol

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

Oh you do make I laugh

ya bastid!

Lol no, I mean it in a good way!

i know

lol"

ya bastid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, opposites really do attract.

cuz im gorgeous, and V is a little ropey lol

Oh you do make I laugh

ya bastid!

Lol no, I mean it in a good way!

i know

lol

ya bastid!

lol

serves ya right

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

You don't have below average IQ so you're in

Gee thanks I'm just getting my coat

I've got the lube, let's go......

Woo hoo I feel special I've got the condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being my total opposite doesn't work for me nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

Damn thought I was in there

You don't have below average IQ so you're in

Gee thanks I'm just getting my coat

I've got the lube, let's go......

Woo hoo I feel special I've got the condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish...

Revision of selection criteria required"

If I get any more picky I will get less meets than I do now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, i seem to get my boxers in a sweat when i see taller women lol

...not sure if it's just pure coincidence that everyone i've got along with has been taller than me lol

I think i need to carry out an experiment with someone shorter than me.

Good luck with that Popeye!

As for the 'opposites attract' theory? I'm undecided!

Guess we're all just different - not necessarily opposite."

I bloody need it. Even the Argos catalogue don't give me much of a boost lol

..but, on a serious note. Maybe opposites do attract. But, only initially. That may be what causes a relationship to start gritting away. All the differences and so forth would begin to become apparent the more deep the relationship goes.

I don't know. That makes sense in my head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither and both. I tend to go for women that have some similarities and some significant differences to me. I do tend to go for bigger women who can challenge my mind as well as turn me on physically. Soulful eyes and a lovable kind nature draw me in.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish...

Revision of selection criteria required

If I get any more picky I will get less meets than I do now x"

What I should have said is look at the type you go for. If you keep going for the same sort of bloke then results won't differ.

Not trying to have a pop at you btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't say I'm particularly drawn to excessively tall women with extremely long hair, very pale skin and below average IQ

I have a shorter than me,shaved headed,extremely intelligent, black man I'm very attracted to

No-one here matching that description, move along........

He's already mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish...

Revision of selection criteria required

If I get any more picky I will get less meets than I do now x"

ah but at least they won't be assholes who take the piss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kind hearted but end up with arseholes that take the piss.

Make of that as you wish...

Revision of selection criteria required

If I get any more picky I will get less meets than I do now x

ah but at least they won't be assholes who take the piss!

I do try to avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest I tend to be attracted to male versions of myself

As for who's attracted to me, god knows, I get men of all kinds of looks, from dog ugly to drop dead gorgeous, I don't seem to have a particular type that goes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be honest I tend to be attracted to male versions of myself

As for who's attracted to me, god knows, I get men of all kinds of looks, from dog ugly to drop dead gorgeous, I don't seem to have a particular type that goes for me "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally I think a certain amount of difference in two peoples personalities can be a good thing, as it expands and opens up opportunities and ideas within the relationship, but you need to ultimately have the same core values in order to make the whole thing work for the pair of you.

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