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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This new word keeps popping up all over the forum recently. I went online and took a test and I'm 89% sapiosexual.

Do you find the cut and thrust of debating with someone a turn on? Even when you don't agree with the other person?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Only if they agree with me.

Oh and they have to be slim.

And have a huge cock.

And be attractive to me.

Oh.. let's face it. I'm a shallow bitch.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Only if they agree with me.

Oh and they have to be slim.

And have a huge cock.

And be attractive to me.

Oh.. let's face it. I'm a shallow bitch. "

I'm 11% shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This new word keeps popping up all over the forum recently. I went online and took a test and I'm 89% sapiosexual.

Do you find the cut and thrust of debating with someone a turn on? Even when you don't agree with the other person?

"

A new word for me also. I am 68%.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This new word keeps popping up all over the forum recently. I went online and took a test and I'm 89% sapiosexual.

Do you find the cut and thrust of debating with someone a turn on? Even when you don't agree with the other person?

A new word for me also. I am 68%."

I wonder if there is a gender difference when people take the test?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to look it up later.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

78%

I find intelligent conversation, lively debate, and a compatible sense of humour very important in people I plan on having a relationship with, but if I am having a quicky at a swinger club I won't be insisting on an IQ test beforehand.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"78%

I find intelligent conversation, lively debate, and a compatible sense of humour very important in people I plan on having a relationship with, but if I am having a quicky at a swinger club I won't be insisting on an IQ test beforehand. "

I thought that was what accounted for my 11%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the opposite of this?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What's the opposite of this?"

Horny and any hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% There is no doubt I find witty, intelligent conversation really attractive. However I also find emotional depth and capacity to feel deeply erotic so could not prioritise thinking over feeling. I like subtle flirtatious banter but when the moment is oppotune to shift to depth of sharing openly. I would get bored if conversation was too intellectual. After I think that life is about living, loving, learning, laughing and leaving a legacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After all*

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"80% There is no doubt I find witty, intelligent conversation really attractive. However I also find emotional depth and capacity to feel deeply erotic so could not prioritise thinking over feeling. I like subtle flirtatious banter but when the moment is oppotune to shift to depth of sharing openly. I would get bored if conversation was too intellectual. After I think that life is about living, loving, learning, laughing and leaving a legacy. "

A good balance.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"80% There is no doubt I find witty, intelligent conversation really attractive. However I also find emotional depth and capacity to feel deeply erotic so could not prioritise thinking over feeling. I like subtle flirtatious banter but when the moment is oppotune to shift to depth of sharing openly. I would get bored if conversation was too intellectual. After I think that life is about living, loving, learning, laughing and leaving a legacy.

A good balance.

"
,a 2p coin is the exact same as 7g . x X X

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Which test are you running? I found one... and it has me at 92%

Should I be worried?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70...by the skin of my teeth I bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"78%

I find intelligent conversation, lively debate, and a compatible sense of humour very important in people I plan on having a relationship with, but if I am having a quicky at a swinger club I won't be insisting on an IQ test beforehand. "

Phew...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am very much sapiosexual. Its one of the things that attracts me to MrWho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did the solitarius lupus one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did the solitarius lupus one "

Need some more tissues...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80% There is no doubt I find witty, intelligent conversation really attractive. However I also find emotional depth and capacity to feel deeply erotic so could not prioritise thinking over feeling. I like subtle flirtatious banter but when the moment is oppotune to shift to depth of sharing openly. I would get bored if conversation was too intellectual. After I think that life is about living, loving, learning, laughing and leaving a legacy.

A good balance.

"

There's a lot of power in balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did the solitarius lupus one

Need some more tissues...??? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New word for me too and I'm 73% apparently.....so 27% shallow and led by my eyeballs

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I may enjoy sitting next to a guy in the pub, who can happily converse about the pro's and con's of EU membership, whilst quoting Oscar Fingal O'Flahertie Wills Wilde and philosophising whether numbers are real or just well-defined constructions of abstract thought based on math.

However, I cannot agree that a philosophical debate is a worthwhile and sustainable alternative to great physical foreplay.

In bed I prefer a man who knows his way around 3 holes and a cleavage, to knowing his way around a 3 ledger bookkeeping system and a tax break loophole - though the latter is useful when filling out your tax returns.

For me, the important debates in the bedroom are not relating to global warming or where should the line be draw between insanity and creativity.... it should be about how long the ice-cream needs to be out of the freezer to be at the optimum consistency for coating your playmates genitals.

And if he can crack a funny or two.... bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at the questions on one test and thought I was doing a Jackie questionnaire from the 70s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship wise I have always been sapiosexual

I would always choose an Intelligent woman

If we are talking purely on a sexual tip it doesn't matter as much. As long they have an endearing personality.

I have never really entertained "badness" fucks

Unless they really deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question : does an intelligent mind mean better sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I looked at the questions on one test and thought I was doing a Jackie questionnaire from the 70s "

You were.

Did it ask any questions about David Cassidy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the opposite of this?

Horny and any hole.

"

That must be me then. 61%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

67%... I am not a title...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

66%

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What's the opposite of this?

Horny and any hole.

That must be me then. 61% "

I think you have to score much lower than that.

Badnana, yes it was just like a Jackie test. I only came across the word on the forum this week so looked it up and there was a test. Ta da!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I may enjoy sitting next to a guy in the pub, who can happily converse about the pro's and con's of EU membership, whilst quoting Oscar Fingal O'Flahertie Wills Wilde and philosophising whether numbers are real or just well-defined constructions of abstract thought based on math.

However, I cannot agree that a philosophical debate is a worthwhile and sustainable alternative to great physical foreplay.

In bed I prefer a man who knows his way around 3 holes and a cleavage, to knowing his way around a 3 ledger bookkeeping system and a tax break loophole - though the latter is useful when filling out your tax returns.

For me, the important debates in the bedroom are not relating to global warming or where should the line be draw between insanity and creativity.... it should be about how long the ice-cream needs to be out of the freezer to be at the optimum consistency for coating your playmates genitals.

And if he can crack a funny or two.... bonus!"

What flavour ice cream?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm 3% sapiosexual;

intelligent conversation,

is far from necessary,

If shagging is our goal.

It's good to talk,it's nice to debate,but a good shag,requires neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

85%... Shagging without imagination and creativity is never as good. Even very physical and "need it now" sex stems from the brain....

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

80% can't say I'm surprised expected it to be higher if anything. Love someone who can discuss, debate, stimulate ... Ooh getting all hot just thinking about it. Most of my crushes are to do with how someone thinks/expresses themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just got 93% on my test, I can't say im shocked I like to be stimulated in conversation so make a night of it on a meet with a strong social aspect to the night istead of the quickie that all about the shagging

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"80% can't say I'm surprised expected it to be higher if anything. Love someone who can discuss, debate, stimulate ... Ooh getting all hot just thinking about it. Most of my crushes are to do with how someone thinks/expresses themselves"

I keep getting the nice surprise that they turn out to be gorgeous too. Of course that might be that I am already predisposed to think of them as gorgeous but it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it me that used the sapiosexual word?

When you are as dumb as I am, everyone is sapiosexual

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Was it me that used the sapiosexual word?

When you are as dumb as I am, everyone is sapiosexual"

Paddy used it the first time I saw it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used it on that thread, don't remember who used it first, I have used it several times

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I used it on that thread, don't remember who used it first, I have used it several times"

So what's your score?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't take the test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't take the test"

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Didn't take the test

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off. "

You want him to remove his doughnut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nibble gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't take the test

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off.

You want him to remove his doughnut?"

shocking behavior

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Didn't take the test

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off.

You want him to remove his doughnut?

shocking behavior "

It is disgusting what some folk get up to on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you expect from a sapiosexual site?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i didnt take the test .. i like the thrust ..but not necessarily the cut of sexy debate ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bored saying shut up and fuck me will you

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

66%

'sabout right.....

David

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'm pondering .... if I was bent over the bed, with someone balls deep clutching my arse cheeks, when I look over my shoulder do I want to see:

a) Someone who looks like Gerard Butler, wearing a facial expression that can only be interpreted as "I'm gonna give you the best fuck of your life"

b) Jeremy Paxman

Hmmmm.... now let be think about that for a while.

Actually, I might just head off to the toy drawer and think about option 'a' for a good 30 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got 94%... I already knew that however. I know i need intelligence and to be mentally stimulated to be attracted to anyone. I very very very rarely get any form of physical attraction, and base pretty much everything off the brain and personality.

At least i have a name now and not just odd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once read a woman's profile on here claiming to be a Sapiophile, unfortunately she'd spelled it as 'Saphiophile'... the irony made me laugh for days.

Also 86%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sex? Not a necessity although it obviously can help bring more of a connection.

In a partner? Essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pondering .... if I was bent over the bed, with someone balls deep clutching my arse cheeks, when I look over my shoulder do I want to see:

a) Someone who looks like Gerard Butler, wearing a facial expression that can only be interpreted as "I'm gonna give you the best fuck of your life"

b) Jeremy Paxman

Hmmmm.... now let be think about that for a while.

Actually, I might just head off to the toy drawer and think about option 'a' for a good 30 minutes."
gerard butler doesn't really appeal to me

Maybe it's the accent

Or the beard

Or the fact that he's male probably

Same goes for paxman

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I once read a woman's profile on here claiming to be a Sapiophile, unfortunately she'd spelled it as 'Saphiophile'... the irony made me laugh for days.

Also 86% "

Whilst it may have been a typo, this does bring into question the subjectivity of it all.... after all, if you're a thick twat then Spud (from Trainspotting) suddenly becomes Plato.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

58%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once read a woman's profile on here claiming to be a Sapiophile, unfortunately she'd spelled it as 'Saphiophile'... the irony made me laugh for days.

Also 86%

Whilst it may have been a typo, this does bring into question the subjectivity of it all.... after all, if you're a thick twat then Spud (from Trainspotting) suddenly becomes Plato."

I agree with you, it's purely subjective. Though the way I see it is that if someone feels like they need to shout to the world that they're a sapiophile and will only meet intelligent people, they would at least read and check their profile first.

Being a sapiophile is well and good (I get extremely turned on by a good debate, especially if I lose) but when it's used as a way of showing off (which it was in this case) it's redundant when the simple spelling of the word is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't take the test

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off.

You want him to remove his doughnut?"

I want him to take his trousers off. While he's fumbling I'm gonna nick the doughnut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't take the test

Gerroff the thread then.

I'm apparently not a sapiowotsit. Get yer kit off.

You want him to remove his doughnut?

I want him to take his trousers off. While he's fumbling I'm gonna nick the doughnut. "

Ambidextrous

I never fumble

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Read an interesting article on this, it seems that those who are,feel those who are not, are idiots, thick etc...... and consider those who are not not worthy.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

shut up and fuck me

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"For sex? Not a necessity although it obviously can help bring more of a connection.

In a partner? Essential."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't heard of this term before I just took the quiz I scored 64%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read an interesting article on this, it seems that those who are,feel those who are not, are idiots, thick etc...... and consider those who are not not worthy. "

Sapiosexual feelings would be one symptom for somebody with That feeling of arrogance towards others.

I believe everyone is equal but I know what my preferences are (preferences are that, not absolutes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got 68%, which is about what I expected. I like intelligence, but like it wrapped up in someone I'm physically attracted to too. I do think some of the questions made assumptions though. Just because someone is a runway model it doesn't mean they are unintelligent, and a scientist may have a high IQ but the common sense of a 3yr old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got 68%, which is about what I expected. I like intelligence, but like it wrapped up in someone I'm physically attracted to too. I do think some of the questions made assumptions though. Just because someone is a runway model it doesn't mean they are unintelligent, and a scientist may have a high IQ but the common sense of a 3yr old"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I find intelligence and ability to communicate a turn on. I find stupidity and text speak a turn off.

There's a sliding scale between the two.

Intelligence is only one aspect of attraction though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have clearly referred to myself as a sapiosexual on my profile for quite some time now and I don't subscribe to the arrogance/superiority reference.

But hey - each to their own...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"For sex? Not a necessity although it obviously can help bring more of a connection.

In a partner? Essential."

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney

73% but it's all a load of rubbish

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Mine was 45% but then again I don't have time to debate anything as 55% of the time, my mouth is chewing on something tasty.

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