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How did you feel on your first meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Be it a one on one through Fab, a meet with a couple or attending a party/club

Where you scared, nervous, anxious, excited

All of the above?

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By *latharerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow CC

Def all of the above.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be it a one on one through Fab, a meet with a couple or attending a party/club

Where you scared, nervous, anxious, excited

All of the above?"

I was literally dead nervous, I felt the need for half a bottle of wine before hand..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pissed off, it was a hotel meet and he bottled it lol

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Really nervous but worth it had a great night

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I was cool on the outside and shaking on the inside.

I think I said something like fuh fuh fuh furrrrrr fur ff ff fffff furhhhh

I was okay after that

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think it's the anticipation and flood of endorphins that make it special, and for me, it could be slightly addictive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find the excitement of meeting new people nealy as fun as the action itself

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Excited mainly. Only once in my life have I been almost sick with nerves, anxious my meet would like me, could hardly breath waiting for him to arrive...he moves in next week!

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a guy from here.

Not scared at all as we'd been exchanging messages and getting to know each other for months.

It was really exciting, exhilarating, passionate and I remember wishing at the time that our encounter would not be over it dawn... Loved it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a guy from here.

Not scared at all as we'd been exchanging messages and getting to know each other for months.

It was really exciting, exhilarating, passionate and I remember wishing at the time that our encounter would not be over it dawn... Loved it!"

Same here, 4 months before we met and we were by that time like friends (very dirty ones).....

However I was totally crapping myself. Shouldn't have worried of course but some of us are just worriers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excited mainly. Only once in my life have I been almost sick with nerves, anxious my meet would like me, could hardly breath waiting for him to arrive...he moves in next week! "

I've been married to my first ever swinging fuck for 14 years.

Congrats and all the best.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the excitement of meeting new people nealy as fun as the action itself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excited mainly. Only once in my life have I been almost sick with nerves, anxious my meet would like me, could hardly breath waiting for him to arrive...he moves in next week! "

All the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sooooo nervous! I was only 18 and it was very spur of the moment, not a great meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was shaking like a leaf. We were meeting in a car park at a local seaside resort for a social and I couldn't get out the car He got in and held my hand till I calmed down, bless him. I obviously didn't put him off though as we met a few times after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as hell. But we want excitement don't we?!

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

both scary and excited, that was when meeting as a couple. now im single finding it very hard to muster the courage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrified! It was on another site, he was much more experienced than me, I don't wanna say what we did but it was great, and we're still friends now, he's the one that introduced me to this site and through here he's found himself a lovely woman (one who can keep up with him!)

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford


"Excited mainly. Only once in my life have I been almost sick with nerves, anxious my meet would like me, could hardly breath waiting for him to arrive...he moves in next week! "

congratulations to u both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"both scary and excited, that was when meeting as a couple. now im single finding it very hard to muster the courage"

You could do with a nice couple so you can meet as a 3 if you like clubs Easier said than done I know but everyone loves a single female.

I was scared to as a solo female at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely horny and ready for sex!!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was fine. He was nervous and although it was ok and we met a few times after he wasn't up to everything I want from sex. I get more nervous going for a drink with a man than just going straight to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only came lose to meeting someone, quite recently too. I made the mistake of telling her I was "bricking it" to which I was instantly ignored...

So yes I was nervous as' but don't ever let them know

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford


"both scary and excited, that was when meeting as a couple. now im single finding it very hard to muster the courage

You could do with a nice couple so you can meet as a 3 if you like clubs Easier said than done I know but everyone loves a single female.

I was scared to as a solo female at first."

ty for advice i think il will try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excited, terrified and ultimately disappointed. I made the mistake of meeting without a prior social and then couldn't say no. It left me feeling cheap , weak and generally despondent. Got over it though !

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

scared I'd let the lady down,excited at the prospect,thrilled by what was presented,overjoyed that all equipment worked as it should, overwhelmed by the ladies sexual expertise and exhausted come breakfast time (good god where did the 12 hours go)(time really does fly when there's unlimited fun fun fun)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slight butterflies but I have them meeting anyone new....the lady in question knew the scene well and was a

Just the ticket for a first meet. Had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was stoned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as hell and horny as fuck

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Terrified. I was on another site that with hindsight was wrong for me but we've all got to start somewhere.

He was very sweet and and we went to the cinema. He bought me popcorn. I think he must have been nervous too as he kept disappearing during the film. I think he only managed 20 minutes of film watching before having to disappear. We then went for a drink and I just asked him what he expected. When he said to go back to my place for sex I was a bit taken aback and left, thanking him for popcorn and the film and leaving money to cover my share.

The second meet I decided to just go straight for the sex. The whole meet lasted about 20 minutes and the sex was under 30 seconds of that meet.

That was four years ago this month so it didn't put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know. I think my first few meets were purely social meets. We'd been speaking for months so knew each other already. I wasn't really nervous if i'm honest as i wasn't expecting more but just meeting a friend..

My first 'sexual' meet was funny. The meet was meant to be purely social and that's what i was expecting. So, wasn't really nervous but just hoping that she likes me when she sees me, as we spoke on the phone and been texting a while but no cam. Drove to hers, and one thing led to another and i seem to have left the next day.

..not had many meets off here though, so i'm still a beginner.

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

First party next week and am nervous as hell, but also a bit excited!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excited horny and nervous though I really needn't have been......was put at ease straight away and she and I remain friends to this day

My only regret was I turned up in shirt and trousers which frankly isn't me...she spotted that within moments bless her and I turned up in my jeans and t shirt thereafter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was stoned "

Turned up like that a couple of times but only for meets I know well and who also smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was with a single guy who is no longer on site,

How did we feel? Extremely nervous, excited and apprehensive... I chatted to a very good friend of mine in here for a couple of days before the meet and on te meet day... Just to try and put those nerves to rest!

We all met in a pub and had a drink and chat then when back to ours, I think the men were more nervous than me! So I had to start the ball rolling!

6 hours later that single guy left hopefully a happy chap!

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By *ndercover2016Couple
over a year ago

turriff

Remember well our first club visit. Soooo nervous we stopped car on the way and nearly bottled out !! Felt sick with nerves but went in.......was made so welcome and looked after it has changed our lives... thanks jaydees and thank you FAB !!

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

First 3 meets were with the same woman!

The first 2 meets were social and I was very nervous and excited.

The 3rd meet was to be a mid-week tour around a swingers club. It was local to her but she'd never played there. I was even more nervous, wild expectations banging around inside my head! So excited and happy. On the way there she was talking about her ex gf, this got me hard and more excited. The tour at the club got me to bursting point! and on the drive back to the pub she looked so sexy. Neither of us could accommodate at the time so I was just about to suggest a hotel when she pointed to a hotel and said it was there that she usually went with one of the guys she'd been telling me about.

Immediately I said we should go there only to be met with a loud long 'yeah right' and about a minute of raucous laughter! What a moment killer. Nothing happened and we never met again.

From then on I have never been nervous, excited or expectant about a meet. That first encounter taught me a lot. She was a nice person but things don't always turn out right! That said, I have been very pleasantly surprised at meets but I always have that 'yeah right!' in the back of my mind before a meet so I don't get that feeling of anticipation and excitement beforehand. It simply isn't worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First ever many years ago was a disaster. They didn't turn up at the cafe we were meeting. Instead she watched me from her flat window

The next time was a couple and we'd been chatting on Yahoo for a while. We met socially for lunch at a pub first. The second meet we played. I felt very nervous and excited but they were a really laid back couple and I relaxed and had a lot of fun

I still feel nervous meeting someone new but social meets first really help

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

all of what OP listed and 6yrs on we are best friends...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, it was a very long time ago. I think it was a club near Bromsgrove (closed down now, hopefully not related) and I was terrified! I did get into it though. The after club orgy was awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Strange one for my first meet..... As it was first time Eva I dressed too so double nerves.... As felt like Bammy on ice in my 6 inch heels... legs like jelly... Hold up's falling down... No lippy on my teeth! Haha don't get me wrong.... My skill set is impressive... Once a cocks in front of me.... I go into auto pilot ...... But head sweating (with wig) all....... Felt of the above..... but adrenaline and excitement.... What a rush! ..... Since never looked back! Love meeting people and made some great friends

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By *obbyCock36Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

very nervous, not sure what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above but never looked back and wished i did it earlier

Sstill get all of the above now

First meet was 12 years ago

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