FabSwingers.com forum: lovely message

By *oulcake OP Man
over a year ago

Gornal

I recently added to a post from a chap asking for some advice. Someone very kind sent me a lovely message telling me it was a nice reply. Have you had any out of the blue messages which didn't relate to sex ?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Loads - some interesting chats with fellers too, which is surprising because a lot seem to think if you chat to men you somehow want to fuck them.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I receive a few messages out of the Blue its always a pleasure receiving them

None of the messages I get relate to sex,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i generally get people agreeing with things i post, that usually lead me to a ban lol.

probably why they pm rather than post in the forums lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never once had a PM in relation to one of my forum posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never once had a PM in relation to one of my forum posts"

scratch that its a bald face lie! lol I forgot I did get one from 'private parts' once when he sneakily got round my age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received a few and really lovely ones too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have had a couple of messages from men saying they agreed with what i had posted on the forums and not to take any notice of what other people said.

that was a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Help with my engineering request. Some very helpful messages

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few and from some lovely peeps, too. Quite often people who I wouldn't message myself, no matter how tempting, as I'd assume them to be too busy with 1000 other messages

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a few

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes we have had several directly relating to what I post, the majority very nice and friendly the odd few nasty and abusive. It's nice and of I thought people didn't mind I would message a lot more but so many have notes on their profile about not being interested in message ping pong.

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"I recently added to a post from a chap asking for some advice. Someone very kind sent me a lovely message telling me it was a nice reply. Have you had any out of the blue messages which didn't relate to sex ? "

Frequently; not just on this site but on the Internet reality news site I write for; definitely NSFW, but it's a self supporting membership that reveals the true nature of human nature in all it's unpleasant forms, from corruption, murder, drug trafficking and, of course, Afghanistan, Syria, Iraq and the treatment of women in Islamic countries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have received and sent some in response to forum posts, have even established new friendships based on sharing thoughts with some when we have gained a "connection" via the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few how I met a great girl off here too :p

Also get a few abusive ones because I tend to avoid dancing around and just he to the point lol. Got accused of being racist a few times which us very strange lol, think it might have been a language barrier mix up though

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Have received and sent some in response to forum posts, have even established new friendships based on sharing thoughts with some when we have gained a "connection" via the forums. "

Definitely new friendships

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Yes, had a chap do a design for our swing fields flag last year after reading our post about it. Never asked for anything for it.

Lovely when things like that happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got one yesterday saying 'good for you! Don't lower your standards for quantity'

Always nice especially as a single male.

Mostly it's mingers that you wouldn't look at twice in a pub, letting you know totally irreverently, that its not gonna happen.

Cheers, only looked at your profile as the avatar pic looks good anyway! And upon closer inspection I'd rather have a wank.

I digress, that's for another thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have had a couple of messages from men saying they agreed with what i had posted on the forums and not to take any notice of what other people said.

that was a surprise.

And they were right Dora, so nice that they gave you some moral support.

xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Got one yesterday saying 'good for you! Don't lower your standards for quantity'

Always nice especially as a single male.

Mostly it's mingers that you wouldn't look at twice in a pub, letting you know totally irreverently, that its not gonna happen.

Cheers, only looked at your profile as the avatar pic looks good anyway! And upon closer inspection I'd rather have a wank.

I digress, that's for another thread! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few asking if it's really me in the costume.

If I see a very beautiful woman - I like to send a message just to tell her I think so - no ulterior motives - just to pay a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a very beautiful woman - I like to send a message just to tell her I think so - no ulterior motives - just to pay a compliment."

Not sure if serious?

The feel like vomiting team America style

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Yes I have received quite a few PM's relating to forum posts ... it's always gratifying when you are seen more than just a sexual object !!!

Ok ... well it's gratifying to be seen as a sexual object too ... but you get my drift !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes:D

Esp driving tips

Or personal stuff.

And I've sent some...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Got one yesterday saying 'good for you! Don't lower your standards for quantity'

Always nice especially as a single male.

Mostly it's mingers that you wouldn't look at twice in a pub, letting you know totally irreverently, that its not gonna happen.

Cheers, only looked at your profile as the avatar pic looks good anyway! And upon closer inspection I'd rather have a wank.

I digress, that's for another thread! "

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

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By *oulcake OP Man
over a year ago

Gornal

Also met a rather wonderful couple on here. I never used to bother with the forum but now love it. The place to be seen people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got one yesterday saying 'good for you! Don't lower your standards for quantity'

Always nice especially as a single male.

Mostly it's mingers that you wouldn't look at twice in a pub, letting you know totally irreverently, that its not gonna happen.

Cheers, only looked at your profile as the avatar pic looks good anyway! And upon closer inspection I'd rather have a wank.

I digress, that's for another thread!

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some too. But one was very unexpected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

How can I express how Much of a fuck I dont give? I have a friends list to get through yet.

Stop 'white knighting'

I stand by my statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must add there are some very special people on the forum. I've only known them since Christmas but they have made a significant impact on me, with both little things and more significant things they have said when I needed it. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

How can I express how Much of a fuck I dont give? I have a friends list to get through yet.

Stop 'white knighting'

I stand by my statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have received and sent some in response to forum posts, have even established new friendships based on sharing thoughts with some when we have gained a "connection" via the forums.

Definitely new friendships

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

How can I express how Much of a fuck I dont give? I have a friends list to get through yet.

Stop 'white knighting'

I stand by my statement!

what a bundle of sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

How can I express how Much of a fuck I dont give? I have a friends list to get through yet.

Stop 'white knighting'

I stand by my statement!

what a bundle of sunshine"

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive had loads mail me in relation to my posts and made some good friends cos of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm welling up, pathos (and dogs with sad faces) get me every time....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I have a feeling you may get a few less today or be on one or two more block lists

How can I express how Much of a fuck I dont give? I have a friends list to get through yet.

Stop 'white knighting'

I stand by my statement!

Excellent a manwith the courage of his convictions,

How much errr Don t know you haven t quantified it, perhaps you d care to divulge you might want to ask One of your friends

White knight interesting as I didnt defend anyone, I offered an opinion that your statement would result in less messages and more block listings well. I ll stand by my statement,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a bundle of sunshine"

You certainly are, what loverly face! I'll ignore your undertones my pretty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it outside fellas or I'll call the fuzz. This was a very positive thread and now we have a cock-fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it outside fellas or I'll call the fuzz. This was a very positive thread and now we have a cock-fight."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent a manwith the courage of his convictions,

How much errr Don t know you haven t quantified it, perhaps you d care to divulge you might want to ask One of your friends

White knight interesting as I didnt defend anyone, I offered an opinion that your statement would result in less messages and more block listings well. I ll stand by my statement,

Well Dora did block me so I guess your on the money haha.

But I'm not getting drawn into this, it's a lose lose for me.

I just don't accept the 'single guys must be grateful' ethos.

I'm a Yorkshire lad, I say what I like, and I like what ah bluddy well say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it outside fellas or I'll call the fuzz. This was a very positive thread and now we have a cock-fight."

No sir. e-fightings not my vibe. Just making a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few. Nice feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few nice messages from agreeing or defending someone's post on here. I have strict filters though so most 'messages' are kept on the Forums only.

There are some outside my filters that I chat to and would meet up for a coffee if I was ever to venture away from my gorgeous seaside resort

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have had a few pm's and sent a few that were definitely not about sex, although it could if been with a little encouragement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it outside fellas or I'll call the fuzz. This was a very positive thread and now we have a cock-fight.

No sir. e-fightings not my vibe. Just making a point "

I'm a madam....well not a madam of course but you know.

And I totally agree abt not being grateful as a single guy as it goes, we/I never lord it over single men and play with as much consensus as possible, if I wanted compliance id have a Labrador . Nobody is that special that peeps should be grateful but sheesh, don't call girls munters.

Allison (lover and a fighter lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had some that have been non-sex related.

Followed a few up and now exchange messages with them every few days or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have received and sent some in response to forum posts, have even established new friendships based on sharing thoughts with some when we have gained a "connection" via the forums. "

So have I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a madam....well not a madam of course but you know.

Allison (lover and a fighter lol)"

Good, then I have no quarrel with you lovely. Thanks for acknowledgment, I'm not being argumentative.

And as you haven't got round to blocking me yet, I've stalked your profile, and can confirm, a non munter.

Bit of a darlin to be sure

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Yes, we get some lovely non sexual messages by pm in regards to forum posts etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, plenty. Still writing with some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who agrees with me has to be a bloody Lunatic n i certainly dont want interaction in case i catch the madness

Rasputin

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

what a bundle of sunshine

You certainly are, what loverly face! I'll ignore your undertones my pretty!"

Aww you are too kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex what is this beautiful word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had lots of lovely messages in my inbox regarding a recent thread about driving lessons. Now I feel bad I haven't answered all yet. But I will. People could have just replied in the thread but chose to inbox me with kind and helpful messages which was lovely.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I often get nice messages not relating to sexytime at all.

I also get some messages that do relate to sex and when I politely decline I'm told they were just after a chat not a meet....

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I've had 3lovely texts from administrators. x x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only gotten nice messages off THX118, whose way above me on the thread

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