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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Consider this a plea for help or a guide to using the website for dummies .... I haven't had much luck on here/around these parts (hants) though I am quite keen.

Is it something with my profile or pictures?! I would welcome objective comments, I'm uncertain it's just me as I am new to the area.

Thanks in advance

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

What profile?? You've barely got one.

Try actually writing on, what are you looking for/into? What don't you like? What can you offer a meet? What are you good at? Regular meets/one offs/club visits???? Etc etc

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

And what pictures come to think of it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2years since ur last verification?..what have u been doing in the meantime...surely u know there are socials and clubs in areas nearish to U.I think u have to get off ur arse mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider putting more detail into your profile. Maybe yours isn't giving enough information to tempt a response to your messages. Think a little bit about the profiles you write to and ask yourself why those profiles appeal.

Don't become a clone of anyone else but if you are currently frustrated by it then don't be afraid to clear your current profile and do a complete revamp.

Good luck fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is more focused on verification than anything else. There is absolutely no information about you. Its unlikely that someone will want to meet for sex when the only thing they know about you is that your a man. Or did you think thats all women who swing would need to know.

If you want to give yourself a better chance write out an informative profile, describe yourself, likes/dislikes, let the reader form an idea of your personality etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps broaden your age range. Nothing wrong with a narrow one providing you don't moan about having no success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better than it was, don't be afraid to keep tweaking it.

Maybe reconsider whether the warning in your last paragraph reads the way you want it to?

Hope it works for you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Profile reads much better.

Although I expect the last paragraph is as pointless as the Sydney Uni one you see on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live fairly close and there is a pitiful amount of women locally so...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your messages, as you may have noticed I have been 'upping my profile game'. Your comments have been very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to see pictures!!!

That wasn't necessarily in reference to your profile OP, although I think it would help. ...I just want to see pictures because I'm nosy!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Excellent improvements OP. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have obviously made significant changes to your profile judging by earlier posts but who you are looking for is still a little confusing I think. Your profile text says couples (with possible bi options) and women but in the "looking for" list you specify women only and your age groups between the two differ slightly too - just an observation but worth tidying up maybe.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

Consider this a plea for help or a guide to using the website for dummies .... I haven't had much luck on here/around these parts (hants) though I am quite keen.

Is it something with my profile or pictures?! I would welcome objective comments, I'm uncertain it's just me as I am new to the area.

Thanks in advance

"

There is a lot of competition for guys so more pictures and read profiles carefully and see what people are after and make sure your message stands out. It does take time though as many guys will tell you.

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