FabSwingers.com forum: "And just WHAT would you like

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

to do to me?"

It is, unsurprisingly, a FAQ on this site and there is, of course, nothing wrong with asking the question.

I am curious to hear how people respond to it, whether they enjoy "painting" a picture of things to happen during the anticipated meet. Is it more a male or female thing, is fun or boring and how do you respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I draw a blank when I'm asked that question. I need inspiration that is more than a photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people ask me questions like that, i just say its on my profile.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I draw a blank when I'm asked that question. I need inspiration that is more than a photo "
I do, too, to be honest and I always thought that perhaps I lack imagination as it does nothing for me to paint a picture of a scene with somebody I have not met yet. Maybe it is more a male thing ?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"i hate it when people ask me questions like that, i just say its on my profile.

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I have done so in the past - I also feel that my profile says a lot about who I am and the rest is better left to the one to one meet?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"i hate it when people ask me questions like that, i just say its on my profile.

You can't really plan that way. Best just to go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ravishing and mind blowing sensual erotic experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much rather play things by ear and let things happen more or less naturally rather than make a detailed "plan of attack" for a meet, but it's good to know if there are some definite no-nos so that you don't do anything that is not liked in the heat of passion ... because I would be horrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make u laugh whilst we drink copious amounts of coffee as we put the world to rights

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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Absolutely important to find out somehow what somebody's limits and dislikes are - I agree with that.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Make u laugh whilst we drink copious amounts of coffee as we put the world to rights

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Now that is quite possibly the sexiest image I have in mind this afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make u laugh whilst we drink copious amounts of coffee as we put the world to rights

Now that is quite possibly the sexiest image I have in mind this afternoon.

Been too long

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Make u laugh whilst we drink copious amounts of coffee as we put the world to rights

Now that is quite possibly the sexiest image I have in mind this afternoon.

Been too long

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Hasnt it just!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You two!

Get a room

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"You two!

Get a room"

You just want to know what we would be doing to each other, dont you...;-)

Naughty!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You two!

Get a room"

U wish lol ure not forgiven either!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found with my vast experience of men that the ones that talk a good game don't play a good game. With only one exception. After hours of talking about sex I'm done with that man and bored. The occasional flirty/naughty text can be exciting but long,drawn out stories bore me to death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously I want to be in the room with you both

Especially Aphrodite

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

"I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I've found with my vast experience of men that the ones that talk a good game don't play a good game. With only one exception. After hours of talking about sex I'm done with that man and bored. The occasional flirty/naughty text can be exciting but long,drawn out stories bore me to death "

You phrased it so much better than I could. For me it takes away any anticipation and makes it actually less likely that I would want to meet that person.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Obviously I want to be in the room with you both

Especially Aphrodite

Would you wish an upfront "plan of attack" ?;-) Careful how you reply as Minxie and I are both watching

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. """
Cool - so you WOULD NOT ask for the plan of attack beforehand presumably?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. """
your my mirror in the bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously I want to be in the room with you both

Especially Aphrodite

Excuse me - why didn't I get an especially - am gonna flounce now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You phrased it so much better than I could. For me it takes away any anticipation and makes it actually less likely that I would want to meet that person.

no expectations either. Nowadays men want to know exactly what they are getting in case you don't come across with the goods. Those men can whistle for it. The men that turn up and are happy with whatever happens tend to be more spontaneous and exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A plan of attack I don't think so, but agreement and discussion on the things that both turn you and play it by ear when you meet, at least that sets a fire of interest, an expectation of desire. But defining a plan leaves out the most important part of play, that it's supposed to be different and sexy and random. Not a robot like script.. Let the moment take you and be as damn dirty in that moment I say.,

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i feel i am intruding on a private meeting... i'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i feel i am intruding on a private meeting... i'll get me coat"

Could u hold the door for me please

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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So... a bit of a chat about what the general expectations are sounds cool but a detail script is not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That can be the case

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i feel i am intruding on a private meeting... i'll get me coat"
Are you dressed yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expected questions about anal,cum swallowing and tying up etc get answered but doesn't mean I will do everything with everyone. Might not be in the mood for it. On here I'd expect to be asked my interests as I don't list them. I hate it when a man says what would you do to me because I'd tell him and he would run away or say you're not coming anywhere near my arse!!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Expected questions about anal,cum swallowing and tying up etc get answered but doesn't mean I will do everything with everyone. Might not be in the mood for it. On here I'd expect to be asked my interests as I don't list them. I hate it when a man says what would you do to me because I'd tell him and he would run away or say you're not coming anywhere near my arse!!

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I can go along with that - some questions are necessary to manage expectations and avoid an unsuccessful meet. But you would not say exactly what you d do at any given moment, right?

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""Cool - so you WOULD NOT ask for the plan of attack beforehand presumably?

Not at all. Anticipation is key. Would you read the last paragraph of a book first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""Cool - so you WOULD NOT ask for the plan of attack beforehand presumably?

Not at all. Anticipation is key. Would you read the last paragraph of a book first ? "
I must confess re the book that I have done this once or twice and then lost interest in reading the entire book. Good analogy actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... a bit of a chat about what the general expectations are sounds cool but a detail script is not?

Yes totally my thoughts

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

"
I am dreaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go along with that - some questions are necessary to manage expectations and avoid an unsuccessful meet. But you would not say exactly what you d do at any given moment, right? "

you have to have common interests I think. I don't just want to lay back and let a man do his thing but to go into every detail would be the end to any attraction for me. I usually ask a man if I'm allowed near his arse because it's very intimate and not all men like that. I don't then give a blow by blow description of what I will do. Better to see what happens on the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

I am dreaming

Have you seen my pics? - It may be more of a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

She's be exhausted before we even had sex if she tried that

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

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I was very pre-dick-table

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Right here goes.

Firstly I'd Like you to open the door to me - I think it always helps.

We'd have a warm embrace and maybe even a kiss or two.

Then I'd pick you up in my arms and take you to somewhere a bit more comfortable (call me old-fashioned) and place you down gently.

I'd explore your body to find what gives you to most pleasure and concentrate on those areas for some time.

Wed make mad passionate love until we collapsed from exhaustion and cuddle whilst looking into each other's eyes after being mutually satisfied.

Then you can kick me out.

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

She's be exhausted before we even had sex if she tried that

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Maybe, but what a lovely way to be exhausted

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. """

good toon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear it's more a want of an erotic dialogue so the guy can knock one off. It's not going to happen because I'm not here for his entertainment.

A discussion of what is off limits on a meet is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

I was very pre-dick-table

I hope sex with you is better than your jokes

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

ask not what you would like to do to me and just think what i would like to do to you..

err..

i think..

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toon"
Dont get side tracked

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"ask not what you would like to do to me and just think what i would like to do to you..

err..

i think..

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You watched Dirty Dancing too often...

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

I was very pre-dick-table

I hope sex with you is better than your jokes

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No it is not, I am afraid. This is the best I can do... downhill ever after...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

"
Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"ask not what you would like to do to me and just think what i would like to do to you..

err..

i think..

You watched Dirty Dancing too often...

how very very dare you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

I was very pre-dick-table

I hope sex with you is better than your jokes

No it is not, I am afraid. This is the best I can do... downhill ever after..."

Oh well - I'd still make love to you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)"

not to big for ones mouth but does need lubrication to achieve the correct sound..

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

she might want to pick you up and carry you to the bed

I was very pre-dick-table

I hope sex with you is better than your jokes

No it is not, I am afraid. This is the best I can do... downhill ever after...

Oh well - I'd still make love to you.

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Thank you for considering

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)

not to big for ones mouth but does need lubrication to achieve the correct sound.."
Trust you to bring in lubrication... this is or rather was a nonsmutty thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our reply to this is nothing at all

we prefer to do things with you rather than to you

doing to you sounds to us like we are going to do all the work erm nope lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"our reply to this is nothing at all

we prefer to do things with you rather than to you

doing to you sounds to us like we are going to do all the work erm nope lol"
Another really good point - the phrase would suggest a rather passive approach!

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By *obbitrsaMan
over a year ago

romford

I like to chat first and see if I can actually enjoy that persons company.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always struggle with the question "so what are you into?".....my mind goes blank

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

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""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)

not to big for ones mouth but does need lubrication to achieve the correct sound..Trust you to bring in lubrication... this is or rather was a nonsmutty thread

its an obvious side effect when ones reed is being blown..

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I like to chat first and see if I can actually enjoy that persons company.......

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Me, too

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I always struggle with the question "so what are you into?".....my mind goes blank

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It is possibly because in the normal process of communication we "court" and flirt with each other, get to know the other person... so that blunt question would easily put somebody on the backfoot I think

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)

not to big for ones mouth but does need lubrication to achieve the correct sound..Trust you to bring in lubrication... this is or rather was a nonsmutty thread

its an obvious side effect when ones reed is being blown..

"
Now I have blushed successfully!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I generally say we'll see when we meet, or I'm into as per what my photos show, as I feel it helps out people getting off on that, rather than serious contenders.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

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""I'd take you to a restaurant thats got glass tables so you can watch yourself while you are eating. ""

good toonDont get side tracked

but it has some great horn and sax input..

Nothing wrong with that I guess... what reed size?;-)

not to big for ones mouth but does need lubrication to achieve the correct sound..Trust you to bring in lubrication... this is or rather was a nonsmutty thread

its an obvious side effect when ones reed is being blown..

Now I have blushed successfully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I have found that having a social meet first helps discuss desires and boundaries. Depending on how the meet goes of course...sometimes shyness makes it a little more difficult. But it is not because I express what I like or desire that it will automatically happen. What really is crucial for me is that, if I meet to play, the person respects what I do not like or do not want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm I tend to freak, when asked this...

I honestly don't know until I have met you in the flesh.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have found that having a social meet first helps discuss desires and boundaries. Depending on how the meet goes of course...sometimes shyness makes it a little more difficult. But it is not because I express what I like or desire that it will automatically happen. What really is crucial for me is that, if I meet to play, the person respects what I do not like or do not want to do. "

I agree with the idea of a social meet - it helps in more than one way identify if there is genuine chemistry

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd rather be asked what someone would like to do with me.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich "

Not sure about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich

Not sure about that

ask me

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich

Not sure about that

ask me

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In public?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich

Not sure about that

ask me

In public?

better still put door on latch im on my way round

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"besides if i tell you what i want to do it will put you off lol

rich

Not sure about that

ask me

In public?

better still put door on latch im on my way round

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I will resist the temptation to ask what you would like me to do to you ...;-)

Just because I d be contradicting myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hate it when I'm asked that, my reply is normally make you cook me tea then let you do my dishes and then my washing. It sometimes works lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I do hate it when I'm asked that, my reply is normally make you cook me tea then let you do my dishes and then my washing. It sometimes works lol "
So what you are saying is that women ask that question, too? I was under the impression it was more of a male thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha but i do have you thinking now

ive found the nights that are planned are never a good a the ones where we go with the flow

although we like to know boundries as theres nothing worse than doing the one thing that you find the biggest turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive found its more a woman thing to be honest

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

although we like to know boundries as theres nothing worse than doing the one thing that you find the biggest turn off "
Very true as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so what are YOUR boundries

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Undressing someone mind is sometimes the real start of foreplay, be it by laughter or a sudden meeting of minds. You can talk on here forever with someone but it is only when you meet do you understand what boundaries there are

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries "
Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Undressing someone mind is sometimes the real start of foreplay, be it by laughter or a sudden meeting of minds. You can talk on here forever with someone but it is only when you meet do you understand what boundaries there are

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I think you have a good point there as well.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense? "

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes perfect sense to me

must remember to look at the words on profiles not just the pics he he

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

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Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"makes perfect sense to me

must remember to look at the words on profiles not just the pics he he

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Again, that makes complete sense. I look at the write up of a profile as much as at the pics. I am not looking for grammar or spelling as such but eg a text speak profile does nothing for me so there would not be a spark.

In my experience on here profiles cand what is between the lines can be very much part of a bigger picture.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

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That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair i do read the profiles as we hate wasting our time on people who dont match us

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"makes perfect sense to me

must remember to look at the words on profiles not just the pics he he

Again, that makes complete sense. I look at the write up of a profile as much as at the pics. I am not looking for grammar or spelling as such but eg a text speak profile does nothing for me so there would not be a spark.

In my experience on here profiles cand what is between the lines can be very much part of a bigger picture."

As in life what is not said is sometimes louder than what is said

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)"

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"to be fair i do read the profiles as we hate wasting our time on people who dont match us "
Exactly - it does give you a reasonably good idea whether somebody is remotely compatible.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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In my experience on here profiles cand what is between the lines can be very much part of a bigger picture.

As in life what is not said is sometimes louder than what is said

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Totally agree

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

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I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Ask for the lost and found, while you are there see if my marballs have turned up

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Ask for the lost and found, while you are there see if my marballs have turned up"
That was how I lost it you see.. I stood on your marbles and slipped, knocking mysef out and losing my ego alongside my dignity...;-)

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Ask for the lost and found, while you are there see if my marballs have turned upThat was how I lost it you see.. I stood on your marbles and slipped, knocking mysef out and losing my ego alongside my dignity...;-) "

Can just image you on the floor dress up around you waist showing all your wares

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over a year ago

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Why oh why can I see this going along some other lines ....

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Why oh why can I see this going along some other lines ....

At least not your fault this time

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

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"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Why oh why can I see this going along some other lines ....

At least not your fault this time

"
Nothing can ever NOT be Minxie's fault. She was probably in the same store at the same time causing me to trip on your marbles, losing my ego and dignity and dress...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"so what are YOUR boundries Most of them are in my profile really and as I always meet socially first I kind of know whether the next meet will be on or off. Does that make sense?

You are looking for a spark before a second meet then

Absolutely - could not have phrased it better myself. But then, you knew that anyway

I understand that if someone wants to undress your body they need to connect with your mind first and at least attempt to make you laugh

That is if they do not start laughing as they undress me...;-)

Stop trying to get me to polish your ego, you know it is shiny enough

I lost it at Waitrose last week and have been trying to get it back...

Why oh why can I see this going along some other lines ....

At least not your fault this time

Nothing can ever NOT be Minxie's fault. She was probably in the same store at the same time causing me to trip on your marbles, losing my ego and dignity and dress...

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oh the dress went too, well done minixe

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

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would rather just find out than be told what tbh...a meeting of minds is the key to what lays ahead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would rather just find out than be told what tbh...a meeting of minds is the key to what lays ahead...

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