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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it must be tough for single mums & dads but well worth it I am sure.

when it is tough, think to the good times, the laughs, the smiles & the rest of the golden moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its tough without kids when you work full time and commute or have responsibilities....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont know how they do it....

My kids all grown up, there is no way I could have done this when they were young!

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land


"it must be tough for single mums & dads but well worth it I am sure.

when it is tough, think to the good times, the laughs, the smiles & the rest of the golden moments.

"

It is hard ... but I keep a very organised social calendar ... ensure that those meets I do arrange are as far as possible 110% dead certs ... and yes enjoy and appreciate the good times ... children are a gift not a burden after all !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was only a single parent for a short time, but always found motherhood rewarding.

Sure they will appreciate your hard work when they're grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only meet when they are at their dads for the weekend. Sometimes that's two in a month, often less. Can go a loooong time with no meets but the occassionally I wil meet 3 days running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet when they are at their dads that's why I always go to a club as need to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont meet half as much as id like too

:ove life and id have it no other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet when they are at their dads that's why I always go to a club as need to socialise"

Ditto, get to combine a 'night out' and the naughty stuff!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm lucky my folks have my son on a Friday night but it's getting harder now he's older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some split families i find get more free time than those who are together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely meet as i work full time and have a 12 year old, so my me time is very few and far between, but what can you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some split families i find get more free time than those who are together "

Very true, not split but widowed, my in-laws were fantastic having the kids weekends and a lot in school holidays, ended up with more totally plan-able free time than when their mother was with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play when the kids go to their dads for the weekend which is every other ..so I try to play twice a month x and I work full time too ...being a single parent is hard as u have no one else supporting you , which is why I appreciate my child free w/ends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i play during school hours when I'm not in classes at uni. i don't have any other kid free time, so i use what is available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play loads during the daytime. I've a great group of friends who will always help me out at the drop of a hat. That's what friends are for, as well as going out and having lots of girlie d*unken nights out.

I must be lucky to get so much free time at weekends too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets???? "

I work full time, two children and their Dad lives 450 mile away so my me time is limited to when they go away to see him and the odd weekend they visit grandparents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet when they are at their dads that's why I always go to a club as need to socialise

Ditto, get to combine a 'night out' and the naughty stuff!"

Exactly lol

To be fair though I don't even do naughty when I am out lol I just like to get dolled up really !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well its good to know were all on the same boat lol but as long as we rock the boat but dont tip the boat over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

School hours work best for me,now stuck for the holiday,but best things comes to those who wait I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"School hours work best for me,now stuck for the holiday,but best things comes to those who wait I guess"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets???? "

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

i have a disabled daughter so have to arange carers so timewasters not only piss me off but cost me money too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can barely look after myself let alone another being so kudos to parents in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women "

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting it would be the rare days off when they were at school or clubs. Easier when they were younger and god bless nan and grandad for baby sitting but it does get harder as they get older but my first priority will always be my girls my pleasures come way down the list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

But your on as a couple? I'm confused?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets???? "

When kids grow up and move out/go college

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women "

There are no right and wrongs to parenting, as long as 100% is given and a child is loved. I find it hard to swallow that you state men make better single parents..

some men may be better than some single mothers.. but i dont believe your statement to be true

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By *oudnproudWoman
over a year ago

penrith

Just me n my 10yr old son... my time is limited due to being a single mum, working full time, and doing an NVQ.

i use to meet when he was at nannies house or during school hours.

i still do social meets on the odd occasion and i agree it can be hard.

But my son will always come first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

"

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have looked after my 2 daughters for the last 4 years and they stay with me full time.

I wouldn't have changed anything. Not for one second. They are great kids but it's been hard at times

One or 2 things that I feel. sometimes feel rather lonely as a single dad .

But I miss the odd night of passion and the social side to . Being out in some lovely female company would be nice to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

Takes a bow and reiterates the point "

In our experience.......... Men do a better job than women, I agree with cap'in, women have far too many insecurities about themselves to put a child first, maybe it's just us and our experience, (and maybe cap'in could have worded it better he's been told off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

Takes a bow and reiterates the point

In our experience.......... Men do a better job than women, I agree with cap'in, women have far too many insecurities about themselves to put a child first, maybe it's just us and our experience, (and maybe cap'in could have worded it better he's been told off) "

He certainly needs a telling off it's incredibly insulting

If you are his partner he is not doing it alone is he

I will fight to the death here that it does not matter if you are a mum or a dad you are a parent

I am alone with my children no mum to help me no one at all

My dad bought me up alone he was amazing so I kbow both sides

So here Endeth my rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Except I have to add yes I absolutely completely put my kids first !!! Jesus how dare you

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Except I have to add yes I absolutely completely put my kids first !!! Jesus how dare you "

I'm gobsmacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In our experience.......... Men do a better job than women, I agree with cap'in, women have far too many insecurities about themselves to put a child first, maybe it's just us and our experience, (and maybe cap'in could have worded it better he's been told off) "

in 'our' experience?... so what experience does the female half of this couple have?

(my piss is slightly boiling away.. )

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

mine are always first and always will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!"

Not a single parent then are you !!!!!!!

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

some of us work and bring up kids. which doesnt leave a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!"

shouldnt we be getting out there and meeting other fathers if you think they are so awesome?!

your hardly a single parent if there are two of you

frankly you speak a load of crap.. just because we are logged onto a swingers site does not mean we do not 'get out' .. as your also logged onto a website.

my child is my LIFE. I live and breathe for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some split families i find get more free time than those who are together "

agreed. We got out together about 4 times last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

my child is my LIFE. I live and breathe for her. "

AMEN

I gave life to my children and they are my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet when my daughter isn't with me .. which is once every 6 - 8 weeks - sometimes longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Easy folks lol didnt mean to start a war just wondering how yous all do it peace out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy folks lol didnt mean to start a war just wondering how yous all do it peace out "

dont think it was your comments that ruffled a few feathers

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Being a parent fullstop is one of the hardest jobs ever. My social life has ended.. ( for now) but theyre not kids for ever and I'll be back to my naughty Self once more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a parent fullstop is one of the hardest jobs ever. My social life has ended.. ( for now) but theyre not kids for ever and I'll be back to my naughty Self once more! "
sum shape all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some of us work and bring up kids. which doesnt leave a lot of time "

I'm exactly the same - work full time and have my munchkins

Meets I have to forward plan ... Is a juggling game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work full time .. full time mum ... study ...

Meeting people comes down on my list of priorities

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"Being a parent fullstop is one of the hardest jobs ever. My social life has ended.. ( for now) but theyre not kids for ever and I'll be back to my naughty Self once more! sum shape all the same "

Thankyou. X

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

you never stop being a parent. cause you are always there for them.

though i think i have become a better person being a single parent with 2 kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a parent fullstop is one of the hardest jobs ever. My social life has ended.. ( for now) but theyre not kids for ever and I'll be back to my naughty Self once more! sum shape all the same

Thankyou. X"
anytime

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good lord....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sumtimes its just rude not to give a compliment where its duely deserved

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By *exybee7Woman
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman "

Completely agree! Is this guy for real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

Completely agree! Is this guy for real? "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck life is hard being a single da but wudnt change it for the world just dont get enuf time to myself ah well rant over. How do u single parents out there get time to have all these meets????

How old are your kids? How old since you have had them?

Mine were 10 months, and 3 when I split with their mother they're both girls, I have learnt to do plaits, I have spent many hours doing hair playing barbies and still got many many more to go, I honestly haven't met anyone in more of an awkward position as me, although I enjoy every minute, I put my kids first for everything, I am preschool committee member, have attended and do attened every available toddler group..... From what I know abd from what I have learnt ..... Men do it best!!! No insecurities, no 'I'm nit sitting in a room full of strangers' no bull crap, there should be more of us!! Don't care what women will say about that it's true!! Men are better at being single parents than women

Erm excuse me ??? I am an amazing single parent and I am certainly a woman

Completely agree! Is this guy for real?

Indeed "
fs take a chill pill lad wtf was that rant all about u need a tin of redbull lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?? Oh well I can see another riot here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really?? Oh well I can see another riot here "
rite thats Iit im calling fathers for justice

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?? Oh well I can see another riot here rite thats Iit im calling fathers for justice"
Batman or Robin

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I love being a single parent , wouldnt gave it any other way , hes growing up fast , so Im getting a bit of freedom , its all gravy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!

shouldnt we be getting out there and meeting other fathers if you think they are so awesome?!

your hardly a single parent if there are two of you

frankly you speak a load of crap.. just because we are logged onto a swingers site does not mean we do not 'get out' .. as your also logged onto a website.

my child is my LIFE. I live and breathe for her. "

you're an amazing mother and you're daughter has clearly been put first from day one. It's ridiculous to think either sex is better than the other at being a parent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!

shouldnt we be getting out there and meeting other fathers if you think they are so awesome?!

your hardly a single parent if there are two of you

frankly you speak a load of crap.. just because we are logged onto a swingers site does not mean we do not 'get out' .. as your also logged onto a website.

my child is my LIFE. I live and breathe for her.

you're an amazing mother and you're daughter has clearly been put first from day one. It's ridiculous to think either sex is better than the other at being a parent. "
im the best da in the world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really?? Oh well I can see another riot here rite thats Iit im calling fathers for justice Batman or Robin"
superman

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

I was a single parent and know its not easy irrespective of whether you a mum of dad! I'll be honest and say I've been incredible lucky as my daughters dad is amazing with her but the point everyone seams to be missing is there are amazing single parents of both genders out there and some crap awful ones as well whether they are single or in a couple. Life is to short to debate who's better if in fact either is. All that really matters (to me) is that a child is loved, nurtured, encouraged and cared for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single parent is very hard . Have been for the past 2 years now . I personally have to rely on grandma to help . I am quite lucky that I get to play out a few times a week . But as others have already said . They come first . Always !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my daughter and grand daughter with me who always come first. I try and make time as best I can. Not always easy granted but its worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you all need to get out more and meet other mothers.... That's where our experience comes from...... We attend groups, we speak to people we go to clubs we're out the we have both seen how quite a lit of single mothers have put themselves first, have never thought about whats best for their kids, but them we can say we are probably more of an active family than most, we're rarely indoors we have no problems doing stuff with our kids, and if you feel the need to have to defend yourself or slate us for having this opinion then you obviously have a guilty conscience. Everyone has their own experiences and this is ours!!!"

In my opinion, being an amazing parent means giving up things that you'd like to do. Children come first. I certainly don't think inviting strangers into your home for sex, if you have children with you, puts you into the amazing best parent category

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Have my daughter from friday evening till sunday night every week most people only seem to want to play at weekends

Time with my daughter is far more important than what i am missing out on

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I would never invite anybody to my house. With the kids being there.

Wether people believe me or not about my kids. And me being a single dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never invite anybody to my house. With the kids being there.

Wether people believe me or not about my kids. And me being a single dad"

My post was aimed at people posting in the thread professing to be the best of the best single parent, but advertising for a meet at theirs last night and with settings "can accommodate, can't travel". I might be wide of the mark, but it looks as if they meet with kids at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never invite anybody to my house. With the kids being there.

Wether people believe me or not about my kids. And me being a single dad

My post was aimed at people posting in the thread professing to be the best of the best single parent, but advertising for a meet at theirs last night and with settings "can accommodate, can't travel". I might be wide of the mark, but it looks as if they meet with kids at home. "

Says in a certain profile that they do meet at home

Very sensible hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I won't entertain at home, and definitely not while they are in bed, the nosy buggers wanna know who was on the phone at night let alone who was in the house!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tough being a single dad but I'm trying to destress and chill this week as my daughter is at her mums for half term.

Is is useless and doesn't see her daughter for months at a time so sometimes it's really hard to organise any kind of social life, let alone naughtiness but I live in hope

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