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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi

I am a single male on this site and would like to say there should be strict rules about verifications.As some have been on here for months and have not been photo verified(every one has access to a cam nowadays) or meets which makes me think who are you chatting too.I think there should be a time limit to get photo verified,otherwise be taken off the site until they sort out a pic,as in my mind things spoils the site.

Just thought i would say some thing as it is frustrating for me,so it must really annoying for couples and ladies even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what if a newbie does not want to show themselves because they are new an a bit fearful an if they meet another newbie they cant verify each other etc...

have faith man the glass is half full not half empty

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not photo verified cos I cant be arsed and I cant spell fab swingers to write it on a piece of paper to hold up

Im well verified with meets but choose not to show them.

Anyway I dont think it makes a hoots chuff bit of difference if you are verified or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion this really isn't a problem at all. If certain people haven't been verified and you don't want to communicate with them, then just ignore them and contact those who have. There are alot more serious issues in the world to worry about and being slightly 'frustrated' is the least of anyones problems.

And if the rules for verifications are changed then i suggest allowing single men to be verified via webcam just like couples and single women can be.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

We aren't photo verified and have no intention of doing it either.

Both our profiles are well verified and both have pictures of us (in varying degrees of undress lol). We arrange socials and attend others so why should there be a problem whether we have a little green flag or not?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I dis-agree with the baron and fussier... here's why.

My wife has a job where this sort of thing, should it become public knowledge, would end her career, so we are very carefull about pics, however we have some of her on our profile, and will put some of me on soon. We think having some pics is important, it gives peeps an idea of what to expect. We have loads of verifications, and we show them to prove to people that we are genuine, its a two-way thing, they see we are who and what we claim to be, and we get more meets as a result, quid pro quo. For people who dont put much on their profile I would say this, we do most of our initial browsing through the profiles, if we chat and hit it off, we check the profile, so if your profile doesnt say much, and has no pics or verifications, then we dont bother taking it any further, simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pics and verifications just hidden from pervin eyes

Just not photo-verified nor do i plan to be

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I dis-agree with the baron and fussier... here's why.

My wife has a job where this sort of thing, should it become public knowledge, would end her career, so we are very carefull about pics, however we have some of her on our profile, and will put some of me on soon. We think having some pics is important, it gives peeps an idea of what to expect. We have loads of verifications, and we show them to prove to people that we are genuine, its a two-way thing, they see we are who and what we claim to be, and we get more meets as a result, quid pro quo. For people who dont put much on their profile I would say this, we do most of our initial browsing through the profiles, if we chat and hit it off, we check the profile, so if your profile doesnt say much, and has no pics or verifications, then we dont bother taking it any further, simple.

"

well most people have pics, but for one reason or another only show them when people request and they are clear who they are talking to .the photo verification is useful but so easy to

fool with a basic editing package if you were inclined.

just my tuppence worth

PD

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Use your instincts.

Verifcations are only a starting point...most people will be using their own checks pretty early on.

If you only want to speak with people with certain verifications thats the members choice, but we would have missed out on some great meets if we had done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi

I am a single male on this site and would like to say there should be strict rules about verifications.As some have been on here for months and have not been photo verified(every one has access to a cam nowadays) or meets which makes me think who are you chatting too.I think there should be a time limit to get photo verified,otherwise be taken off the site until they sort out a pic,as in my mind things spoils the site.

Just thought i would say some thing as it is frustrating for me,so it must really annoying for couples and ladies even more."

Really ????

In case you were getting a bit mixed up, this is a website not a Zazi concentration camp.

People are free here to do as they please provided it is in line with the rules

At the end of the day, if people don't get photo verified it's up to them, if that restricts the amount of people who want to meet then - so be it, it's their membership - their call

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By *eanneTVTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Never really seen the point of the photo verification but maybe thats just me because i was verified before the photo verifications were introduced. I think if time limits to photo verify your profile were introduced it would just scare a lot of newcomers away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm! well we are verified by other people we have met, both on here and on another site we use. We also chat using our webcam for all to see. We are private people and keep swinging separate from our everyday lives, but as for being photo verified, we see no point really so if the author of this threads plan is anything to go by we might as well hang up our swinging shoes now ........ not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and there are some of us who don't give a flying fart whether we're verified or not.

We know we're genuine and plenty of people have met us so if someone we don't know doesn't think we're genuine then, in the big scheme of things, - who cares!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"hi

I am a single male on this site and would like to say there should be strict rules about verifications.As some have been on here for months and have not been photo verified(every one has access to a cam nowadays) or meets which makes me think who are you chatting too.I think there should be a time limit to get photo verified,otherwise be taken off the site until they sort out a pic,as in my mind things spoils the site.

Just thought i would say some thing as it is frustrating for me,so it must really annoying for couples and ladies even more.

Really ????

In case you were getting a bit mixed up, this is a website not a Zazi concentration camp.

People are free here to do as they please provided it is in line with the rules

At the end of the day, if people don't get photo verified it's up to them, if that restricts the amount of people who want to meet then - so be it, it's their membership - their call"

I agree - their membership their call, its your page to do with as you wish, and meet and approach "who you wish"!!!

Just enjoy browsing the ones that you DO like.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"hi

I am a single male on this site and would like to say there should be strict rules about verifications.As some have been on here for months and have not been photo verified(every one has access to a cam nowadays) or meets which makes me think who are you chatting too.I think there should be a time limit to get photo verified,otherwise be taken off the site until they sort out a pic,as in my mind things spoils the site.

Just thought i would say some thing as it is frustrating for me,so it must really annoying for couples and ladies even more."

dont agree at all.....

all that photo varification does is someone put up "fab swingers" in a pic.... it doesn't tell me if you will turn up for meet..... or how much of an arse a person may be....

I don't see the point of it.... I've been in the scene for 5 yeas... been going to clubs and to socials and quite frankly would rather be varified by my friends and the people that i have met, than by some random half-arsed pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said _abio x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be it is a child out there, then what happens for what ever resin the computer is checked by the police, were do you stand showing photos to a miner,.

Photo you use for verification is only for the sit owner to see can that be so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly not bothered with verifications... means nothing really.

We'd seriously rather make up our own minds on people, just cause someones great to one doesn't mean to all eh..

We only added ours as someone was slagging us off about not having any lol.. We don't show cause we respect those we meet.. even if they are mingers pmsl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with the majority on this one.

im not "photo verified" as i

CHOOSE not to be, simple as that.

Those who know me personally, be it clubs or one on one can vouch im an "ok gal"

Why would a photo with a name on it make any difference. ?

Its those i meet or intend to meet that im bothered with, not people intent to add yet more rules to what is ready well policed

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I have one of the most recognisable swinging names in the Midlands, and I've been swinging for 9 years......

But I'm not photo verified cus I really can't be arsed to fiddle with a camera/phone, get it wrong, break the appliance, get Mr Mads wrath and have a nervous breakdown!

It don't make one iota of difference if someone is verified.

If they have a face like a bag of spanners and a fanny like the mersey tunnel or a cock as thin as a pencil, or the size of a cocktain chipolata, then they ain't gonna get many decent meets if they show these bits in a photo or on cam, are they?

Get real....... if your instinct is telling you summat ain't right.... it probably ain't.....

**Did everyone like the way I spoke in Chav speak? I'm emulating Kitty this weekend**

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no intension to get photo verified , we have been verified enough long before the photo crap came about, so why should we bother.. If people don't want to meet us cause there isn't a flag to say that we are verified I really don't give a dam .....Our friends know we are real ...and slightly insane lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"We have no intension to get photo verified , we have been verified enough long before the photo crap came about, so why should we bother.. If people don't want to meet us cause there isn't a flag to say that we are verified I really don't give a dam .....Our friends know we are real ...and slightly insane lol"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

very real...........

And totally insane ..........

But we lurrveee you two mmmwwaahhh

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"We have no intension to get photo verified , we have been verified enough long before the photo crap came about, so why should we bother.. If people don't want to meet us cause there isn't a flag to say that we are verified I really don't give a dam .....Our friends know we are real ...and slightly insane lol"

pmfsl@slightly insane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as nuts as you two lol ..

are you coming to my birthday party hun , check out events on the 29th of may.

I will be expecting to see Mr Mad in a pimp daddy outfit lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no intension to get photo verified , we have been verified enough long before the photo crap came about, so why should we bother.. If people don't want to meet us cause there isn't a flag to say that we are verified I really don't give a dam .....Our friends know we are real ...and slightly insane lol

pmfsl@slightly insane"

Hey compaired to you I am only slighty lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Not as nuts as you two lol ..

are you coming to my birthday party hun , check out events on the 29th of may.

I will be expecting to see Mr Mad in a pimp daddy outfit lol xxx"

We'll be there.........

Jase wants to know if ya want choccie cake or champagne fountain......

Or both????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as nuts as you two lol ..

are you coming to my birthday party hun , check out events on the 29th of may.

I will be expecting to see Mr Mad in a pimp daddy outfit lol xxx

We'll be there.........

Jase wants to know if ya want choccie cake or champagne fountain......

Or both????"

ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm thats hard to choose between .. can I have both lol but he has to eat his slice from where he usually likes to put his fist lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Not as nuts as you two lol ..

are you coming to my birthday party hun , check out events on the 29th of may.

I will be expecting to see Mr Mad in a pimp daddy outfit lol xxx

We'll be there.........

Jase wants to know if ya want choccie cake or champagne fountain......

Or both????

ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm thats hard to choose between .. can I have both lol but he has to eat his slice from where he usually likes to put his fist lol"

Oohhhhh fa fecks sake girl.......

Champers first or soggy cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Champers first of course lol how greedy do you think I am ... on secounds thought he can have his cake from a plate lol to messy

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Champers first of course lol how greedy do you think I am ... on secounds thought he can have his cake from a plate lol to messy"

You sitting on a plate......!

OOhhh, now thats worth a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bring your camera then lol

you should see Tony's out fit lol Three of the guys coming have even bought platflorms lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Best bring your camera then lol

you should see Tony's out fit lol Three of the guys coming have even bought platflorms lol "

DO NOT tell Jason that..........

Otherwise you will have pimp daddy from hell coming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to tell him lol Tony has a red and leopard print pimp daddy outfit and an afro wig lol I got a retro dress

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"You have to tell him lol Tony has a red and leopard print pimp daddy outfit and an afro wig lol I got a retro dress "

Is this 70's swingers or just 70's bad taste?

and NO NO NO, I ain't telling him cus he'll turn up as fecking 50cent with the silver cane and all that shite given half a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tony sitting here wanting to know what I am laughing at ..... told him it was something to do with you ...... I never had to say another word .. he understood the word Madchick lol

And yes for the men it is ba taste 70;s lol and I have your number so if you don't tell Mr Mad I will

hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maddy hun you do make me laff lol xxx

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