FabSwingers.com forum: Ipswich Saturday night

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always had a open book policy on here, basically I'm married. I'm looking for an amount of sexual fun which does not in anyway exist in my marriage.By fun I mean I am willing to try everything twice to make sure I didn't like it.

Saturday night in Ipswich I stick around in the pub to chat with one person who knows I'm interested and has told me that she is also interested. The evening progress's and a couple come in who are without a doubt hedonists- they told me in the first minutes. We quickly pass the vanila or not vanila code word and the conversation becomes more sexual.This couple seemed very nice, we had the same sort of job experience adn a willingness to be direct and not shy in our views.

Half an hour in the lady who was interested in me suddenly turns ice cold says " you're married" and blanks me. Leaves me alone and in the end I bid them good night and leave.

Just what could I possibly have done?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly it went wrong as your "married" and the prospect of being involved with you commiting adultery didn't appeal to them as it could get messy if your wife was to ever find out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The lady in question was not part of the couple and I did not hide the fact I was married. I had no interest in teh couple nor did they in me.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same here, I'm honestly hopping they notice the post, the couple that is, and explain what they said.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here, I'm honestly hopping they notice the post, the couple that is, and explain what they said. "

I personally can not believe you have got past your 40th and are married and have not realised women are mental and unpredictable, and just because they want something one minute does not mean they want it tomorrow or even in four seconds time,