FabSwingers.com forum: shyness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good morning just wondering what peoples thoughts are! I have a real shyness about my penis size, I get lots of attention when I'm out from both male/female but then shy away when I'm invited back with them. Should I not worry and just go with the flow and use the skills I have! Any feed back would be appreciated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're shy you're shy and nothing I can say will change that. I haven't looked but I would say that if you have managed to overcome your shyness enough to post pictures of your penis here that you're on the road to recovery .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and yes just go with the flow. Good luck.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If it's something you can't change, forget about it.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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"Good morning just wondering what peoples thoughts are! I have a real shyness about my penis size, I get lots of attention when I'm out from both male/female but then shy away when I'm invited back with them. Should I not worry and just go with the flow and use the skills I have! Any feed back would be appreciated."

The feedback so far is "We asked 100 people to name something small" the top answer with 99 was "Your Knob"

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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"If it's something you can't change, forget about it. "

Well I dont think he can change his Knob size do you ?? Durrr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks fine to me, big cocks are overrated in my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The feedback so far is "We asked 100 people to name something small" the top answer with 99 was "Your Knob"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think it's a penis to be shy about. It might not be that long but it is quite fat looking. A lot of girls enjoy that feeling more.

However being a terrible worrier myself (female) words probably won't help, you'll just worry anyway.

Just try to remember that the women you meet are probably just as likely to be worrying about what you think of their personal appearance.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it.

Well I dont think he can change his Knob size do you ?? Durrr lol

That is exactly my point. Durrrrr back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it.

Well I dont think he can change his Knob size do you ?? Durrr lol

That is exactly my point. Durrrrr back at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think it's a penis to be shy about. It might not be that long but it is quite fat looking. A lot of girls enjoy that feeling more.

However being a terrible worrier myself (female) words probably won't help, you'll just worry anyway.

Just try to remember that the women you meet are probably just as likely to be worrying about what you think of their personal appearance."
thank you your words will help any feedback is good the more I read your reply the more it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It looks fine to me, big cocks are overrated in my opinion anyway

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thanks have a fun day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it. "
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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Everything must change.

Shyness goes with confidence.

Confidence grows with experience.

Take the offers. Get the experience. Stop wondering. Start knowing.

Repeat the bits you enjoy. Don't fret about the bits you didn't enjoy just don't repeat them.

All experience is good experience. Soon you will be making decisions and calling shots.

Try to make them kind ones and remember everyone has hang ups.

Fear stops everything in life.

Stop worrying start fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm painfully shy

Her

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it. .

The only saving grace word in this post is IF .....

there are NO if's in this situation NO one has cut your cock off at the balls.

Stop worrying and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everything must change.

Shyness goes with confidence.

Confidence grows with experience.

Take the offers. Get the experience. Stop wondering. Start knowing.

Repeat the bits you enjoy. Don't fret about the bits you didn't enjoy just don't repeat them.

All experience is good experience. Soon you will be making decisions and calling shots.

Try to make them kind ones and remember everyone has hang ups.

Fear stops everything in life.

Stop worrying start fucking. "
thanks straight to the point and I like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm painfully shy

Her"
I'm real shy also but upon reading some of the comments on here makes real sense to me, maybe I need to bang my head a few times! I'm sure you can overcome your shyness the same as I'm going to try and not let silly things worry me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm painfully shy

Her I'm real shy also but upon reading some of the comments on here makes real sense to me, maybe I need to bang my head a few times! I'm sure you can overcome your shyness the same as I'm going to try and not let silly things worry me.

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I was kidding sunshine, you will be fine, don't let no one knock your confidence, and all will be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm painfully shy

I was kidding sunshine, you will be fine, don't let no one knock your confidence, and all will be good

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oh you fooled me! Ha and thanks I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm painfully shy

I don't think you have anything to worry about in that department. Just get out there and have fun

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it. .

The only saving grace word in this post is IF .....

there are NO if's in this situation NO one has cut your cock off at the balls.

Stop worrying and get on with it."

Absolutely.

To clarify, this post was intended to encompass all hang ups about things that can't be changed.

If you can change it, and want to, get on with it but don't obsess over it. If you can't change it, don't worry about it at all. There's no point.

We are none of us perfect, (especially the ones who think they are).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it. .

The only saving grace word in this post is IF .....

there are NO if's in this situation NO one has cut your cock off at the balls.

Stop worrying and get on with it.

Absolutely.

To clarify, this post was intended to encompass all hang ups about things that can't be changed.

If you can change it, and want to, get on with it but don't obsess over it. If you can't change it, don't worry about it at all. There's no point.

We are none of us perfect, (especially the ones who think they are)."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No you don't: this is just a look at me thread. Face pic, dozen pics of your knob, shy? Yeah...right...ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to me but It's not all about the size as I keep reading. I have body issues with myself think we all have something going on with issues

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No you don't: this is just a look at me thread. Face pic, dozen pics of your knob, shy? Yeah...right...ok!

Half a dozen pics! I've told you a MILLION times about exaggerating.

I suspected a 'look at me thread' when the cocks weren't from the thimble box but im in a benevolent frame of mind this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it.

Well I dont think he can change his Knob size do you ?? Durrr lol

That is exactly my point. Durrrrr back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's something you can't change, forget about it.

Well I dont think he can change his Knob size do you ?? Durrr lol

That is exactly my point. Durrrrr back at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks fine to me but It's not all about the size as I keep reading. I have body issues with myself think we all have something going on with issues "
, Thanks and yeah we all do but its silly things it'd be boring if we didn't have issues to try and overcome and better ourselfs that little more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm painfully shy

I don't think you have anything to worry about in that department. Just get out there and have fun

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No you don't: this is just a look at me thread. Face pic, dozen pics of your knob, shy? Yeah...right...ok!

In that case, fail. I didn't look. Based on the fact he has what he has, I didn't bother to look to see if there were photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you get into a romantic mood and overcome your shyness im sure you will rise to the occation,me,i dont have to worry as i only have an inch and a wrinkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothnig wrong with being shy but to be honest I wouldn't worry there are bigger ones and smaller ones on here if it works and you can give pleasure with it thats all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is that generally people are too worried about their own imperfections to notice others.

Chances are the girls you're taking home are more concerned about the size of their nipples etc

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"My view is that generally people are too worried about their own imperfections to notice others.

Chances are the girls you're taking home are more concerned about the size of their nipples etc"
This is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything must change.

Shyness goes with confidence.

Confidence grows with experience.

Take the offers. Get the experience. Stop wondering. Start knowing.

Repeat the bits you enjoy. Don't fret about the bits you didn't enjoy just don't repeat them.

All experience is good experience. Soon you will be making decisions and calling shots.

Try to make them kind ones and remember everyone has hang ups.

Fear stops everything in life.

Stop worrying start fucking. "

Has worked for me so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're getting the attention when you're out because of your personality. If you're getting on well enough with them to accept an invite back then I wouldn't worry about your 'member'.

They're not coming back with you because they instantly think you must have a big dick, its because they wanna spend more time with you and because they wanna have their way with you, big dick or no...!

Just do it, invite them back, you might have a great time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're getting the attention when you're out because of your personality. If you're getting on well enough with them to accept an invite back then I wouldn't worry about your 'member'.

Just do it, invite them back, you might have a great time!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size shouldnt matter there are lots of ways to have sexy time.go with the flow relax and enjoy what comes your way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Size shouldnt matter there are lots of ways to have sexy time.go with the flow relax and enjoy what comes your way

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thank you and I will

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