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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people just stop talking after a few days of messaging back and forth?

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Because it's their choice to do so.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You've bored them, you've said something to put them off, they've had a better offer, life...who knows!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems odd you know when you feel you're getting on well then nothing oh well plenty more fish and all that jazz lol

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Just seems odd you know when you feel you're getting on well then nothing oh well plenty more fish and all that jazz lol"

That's it ! They don't like jazz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just seems odd you know when you feel you're getting on well then nothing oh well plenty more fish and all that jazz lol

That's it ! They don't like jazz "

Dammit what's wrong with jazz its relaxing

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By *exyme1966Woman
over a year ago

north jersey

sometimes I answer to see if the person can caught my attention...if they don't...Why waste my time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply... "

Love this response actually made me chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply...

Love this response actually made me chuckle lol"

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply... "

Or indeed how many brain cells the person who messaged you has. Some of the spelling in messages suggest a lot of loneliness going on in some peoples brain cell* department

*Not a spelling mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply...

Or indeed how many brain cells the person who messaged you has. Some of the spelling in messages suggest a lot of loneliness going on in some peoples brain cell* department

*Not a spelling mistake "

Especially when most phones/browsers have a spell checker built in my biggest issue is punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"You've bored them, you've said something to put them off, they've had a better offer, life...who knows! "

^ this

It can be because I'm bored, or not feeling like chatting, or busy, or something has put me off, or I've been distracted by a pretty butterfly or any number of reasons.

If it happens and I've not told someone I'm not interested or blocked them then I'd consider it reasonable for them to leave it a few days, or a week or two, and then get back in touch to ask if I'm still interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usually bored... To be fair on here I have the attention span of a goldfish, if someone doesn't catch my attention within the first few messages I move on. There is only so many mundane conversations you can have on here before you start to worry how many brain cells died while you typed a reply... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've bored them, you've said something to put them off, they've had a better offer, life...who knows! "

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