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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Meet?? I've been sitting thinking I've not had a meet in ages and really need to do something to change that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day at the moment...same guy though!!!!x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm out every week.

At present my diary/availability looks like this: 22nd Feb Fab Social in Wakefield, 28th Feb or 1st March, not sure yet, possibly The Attic in Derby, 6th of March, Leeds for LFF.

A lot of these are socials or nights out rather a swinging meet, but that will change next month when my shift pattern reverts back to 4 on 4 off, rather than 4 on 3 off, with every weekend off.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Normally I aim for once a week, but due to the cold weather and the fact heating is expensive, it's on hold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once every 6-8 weeks

Occasionally I can do a social in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met anyone new off here for a while but looking to do so this week.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Not often at all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really difficult to find someone I would like to meet. Days turn into weeks which turn into months and then the tumble arrives lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Averages twice a week probably. It varies, I have little flurries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since being back on the wagon, maybe once or twice a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet more than once a week unless hubby and I get a rare weekend without kids. I took a break for a couple of months over christmas, and now have a backlog!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well I've decided to dip my toes in the water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've decided to dip my toes in the water "

Try it.....it's lovely once you get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go girl!!!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Well I've decided to dip my toes in the water

Try it.....it's lovely once you get in "

Very true

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Well I've decided to dip my toes in the water "

Splash, splash and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most weekends together but can meet seperately too sometimes x

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Erm..

I've only ever had 2 meets and they were both Aug/Sept. I haven't found anyone that has excited me enough to make the effort or those that have are too far away plus the demands of life etc,

I'm starting to feel very boring, doing my first club visit this Friday if I can break away from reality for a bit though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love to play more, but work/life dictates!

Sometimes though its the quality, not the quantity xx

And when we are together, and don't meet others - we are on a win-win anyway! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so often as I would want to....but its not for the want of trying!

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last meet off here was boxing day. My fb stays quite regularly tho. Doesn't leave me any time for anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when ever i can....lol.

but as a single bloke who cannot travel the meets tend to be rare. I would be happy with once a week, but just glad to get something now and then.

still its always fun to dive on the forums and in the chat rooms to moan about not getting enough...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont meet that often due to work commitments now. Im never one for just window shopping either, I see little point in flirting with people if im not likely to meet. We may just go to clubs a few times a year.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would like to meet three or four times a week with a regular partner in am ideal world, unfortunately it's not an ideal world so I meet whenever I can arrange it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meets have been fairly spread out over my time on here but i'm not going to complain as I have enjoyed them all and may I have many more to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet about once a month, sometimes more often. Got our next few planned already. No time for anything else. Too many plans and not enough time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still hibernating, call me when the sun is out more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies...I can go without for weeks and then have 3/4 meets within a week. Depends on what's happening in real life, what my 'regulars' are up to and who I'm chatting to that's new as sometimes it's hard to find convenient time for all and others it all falls into place in a quiet week. My ideal would be my fb at least once a week with the odd other meet maybe once a fortnight but doesn't work like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet?? I've been sitting thinking I've not had a meet in ages and really need to do something to change that... "

Looking back, it works out at about twice a year for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparodically ..........

Though its all down to me and my mobility at the mo and having the bloody flu since xmas.

But after my new surgery on the 4th of march and recovery time....

watch out fellas, im comming to get ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get to meet. Have realised that people tend to mess me around even if they are on my friends list. So, i don't have any set pattern.

...although i do have a meet planned in a few weeks and maybe some more if i'm brave enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hardly ever, I only had two meets last year, went to a few clubs but only 2 private meets, I just find it really hard to find private meets, not met anyone this year yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardly ever, I only had two meets last year, went to a few clubs but only 2 private meets, I just find it really hard to find private meets, not met anyone this year yet"

actually i'll rephrase that, I only met two people last year, that's slightly different to only having two meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not met anyone for months..........five months actually I need to try harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still hibernating, call me when the sun is out more often. "

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Meet?? I've been sitting thinking I've not had a meet in ages and really need to do something to change that... "

Not nearly enough unfortunately

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Often it's either a glut or a famine with me...can go weeks with not much (and I start to worry that my lady garden's gonna heal up) then I can have 2 or 3 a week for a coupla weeks

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It's a tough life, but someone's gotta do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment it's once a week ..but it has been 2 or 3 times a week in the past..depends really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every blue moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never !! They always cancel on me at the last min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few meets in Jan

Just the 1 in Feb.

But my FWB is back from his extended Xmas break so doubt will be meeting from here for a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least once a week .

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Never !! They always cancel on me at the last min "

I find that hard to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a meet on thursday if all goes well ,i had 2 meets cancel in the same week a wile back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet?? I've been sitting thinking I've not had a meet in ages and really need to do something to change that... "

I've not yet off Fab but off it I date and socialise as usual. My time will come, no point rushing it for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to try to meet every 4 - 6 weeks.

Our last meet was nearly 3yrs ago.

Kate's 50 soon, so might arrange a night out

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