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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, Im needing a little advice, its not really the proper use of this forum but im sure there lot of people on here than understand.

I have recently been texting this girl, ill give you a little background. She's a sales person for a company that i deal with, are social circles would also over lap a wee bit as well.

It ll happened last night, we were texting about business stuff, then it moved onto where she studied, (same place as myself) I dropped in a wee line about texting one of her customers on valentines night.

She has since give me her personal mobile number.

What do i do now, how do i go any further without making a tit of myself?? Dont want to come over as desperate

Advice required ASAP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text back...she gave you her number for a reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing....I got email from colleague...she is doing research...I gave her my number to contact me, as well as email..She emailed then texted...wants me to participate in research interview...I left it open as to where to meet...my office, her office or her home..she invited me to her home...meeting next week. How do I play that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

giving advice is easy, bring a condom!!! then post the details on here.

But yeah, you could leave yourself quite redfaced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just text her and see where it goes, don't forget to update us regularly

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If she gave you her personal number she expects you to use it. Don't come on too strong but if you are interested then send her a message or give her a call. Now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it, do it now, lickety is good with these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text her. Say U want to call. Ask.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Business and pleasure should never mix , it always ends in tears

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

keep it light and see where it goes.

Don't text her a pic of your cock next to a remote and say you've been thinking of her.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Funny thing....I got email from colleague...she is doing research...I gave her my number to contact me, as well as email..She emailed then texted...wants me to participate in research interview...I left it open as to where to meet...my office, her office or her home..she invited me to her home...meeting next week. How do I play that?"

This one is more difficult. She may work from home, it may be quieter there for the research interview. Treat it as the research interview but take a small gift if you are interested in here. Nothing extravagant but perhaps something you can share like a box of chocolates.

Then watch for the body language signals. Use open body language and remember it is her home and you are a guest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Business and pleasure should never mix , it always ends in tears "

Oh I don't know...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok i suggested meeting up somenight. Regretting that move already. She sayed yes, but wasnt overly excited. Should i just put it off to next week then happen to forget! or how the hell do i go about this! i cant help but feel she just sayed yes because it would have looked bad other wise, she took a day to respond

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Keep thinking 'Business Only' and that way you should'nt read her signs wrong.

If its going to go down the 'pleasure' route, let her drive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

more advice needed!

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