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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys I have a friend who is into body building. She has a problem getting men to sleep with here she says . Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. I am wondering though are men intimidated by a woman who is more muscular than they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont have a problem with a lady with defined muscles.

it's probably a guy who has taken too many anabolics and his nuts have shrunk and formed labia's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dont have a problem with a lady with defined muscles.

it's probably a guy who has taken too many anabolics and his nuts have shrunk and formed labia's. "

I will send her your way. She has found many men are put off by them since she bulked up last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it attractive at all however a BBW....mmmmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't find it attractive at all however a BBW....mmmmmmmm lol "

Your not the first to say that, but why do men think like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. "

prob the same as the way you thought the above lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You appear very disparaging towards men!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it"

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it" "

SNAP

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Pmsl, damn well hope the men i go with are fussy where they put it. I dont know anyone (thankfully) that believes any hole is a goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find it attractive at all however a BBW....mmmmmmmm lol

Your not the first to say that, but why do men think like that?"

Well i am not going to be with someone i don't wish to be with. I have my preferences.

Am sure you have your preferences of what kind of men you would like to meet??

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it" "

will you just ssssssh!!!! letting women into "man secrets" is bad!!!!

these things normally come in threes so i am waiting to see what she says next...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it" "

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pmsl, damn well hope the men i go with are fussy where they put it. I dont know anyone (thankfully) that believes any hole is a goal."

Try putting a profile up with no pictures, little details and go on meet today and see how many will offer to come round immediately without asking for pictures or anything.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

"

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business! "

Then its simple for you and you don't have to post on the the thread.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business!

Then its simple for you and you don't have to post on the the thread."

But I want to post on this thread and any others that catch my eye and seeing as they are open forums then I can post when I feel I want to

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

[Removed by poster at 17/04/10 17:11:13]

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Maybe your friend isn't telling you all the facts

Women with muscles are sought after just like women with none

My best friend attends exercise classes every day and gets hit on every day despite being happily married and definately not looking

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business!

Then its simple for you and you don't have to post on the the thread.

But I want to post on this thread and any others that catch my eye and seeing as they are open forums then I can post when I feel I want to "

I am not denying you your rite to do that or your preferences in meets. I may be a little frank with what i put but as you say they its an open forum which is a positive thing.

Unfortunately the thread got pulled off topic as i was originally asking why there seems to be a reluctance by men to sleep with muscular women.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"[Removed by poster at 17/04/10 17:11:13]"

oooh... i am do glad you removed that.... because if i said they same thing and reversed it... i'd be flamed to high heaven.....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they? "

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they?

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it??? "

Your right there are some women like that and you might get slated for putting it but that would be unfair as your speaking the truth.

I find it perplexing at times how the "shag or not" switch in peoples heads works.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they?

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it??? "

Absolutely

This isn't a men versus women statement

we all feel like it sometimes and to deny it happens at all is well foolish I think

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business!

Then its simple for you and you don't have to post on the the thread.

But I want to post on this thread and any others that catch my eye and seeing as they are open forums then I can post when I feel I want to

I am not denying you your rite to do that or your preferences in meets. I may be a little frank with what i put but as you say they its an open forum which is a positive thing.

Unfortunately the thread got pulled off topic as i was originally asking why there seems to be a reluctance by men to sleep with muscular women. "

Threads get pulled off topic all the time and it is usually when someone says something that the OP disagrees with within their reply about the original topic.

The OPs (of many threads) then usually comes back with something even further off topic, usually something against the person that has disagreed with them, but that's the nature of the forums and I doubt very much it will ever change seeing as we are all different and are entitled to have our own views!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"[Removed by poster at 17/04/10 17:11:13]

oooh... i am do glad you removed that.... because if i said they same thing and reversed it... i'd be flamed to high heaven....."

Fabio I missed what it was

Am nosey and would love to know what was said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I have a friend who is into body building. She has a problem getting men to sleep with here she says . Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. I am wondering though are men intimidated by a woman who is more muscular than they are?"

I personally adore women with muscles!! From a sexual perspective, I find it incredibly attractive and from a person who also trains perspective, I have a huge amount of respect for them.

If she has a profile, PM me, I would love to see her!

Women with muscles are incredibly sexy!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they?

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it???

Absolutely

This isn't a men versus women statement

we all feel like it sometimes and to deny it happens at all is well foolish I think "

well then i must be a fool.....

what can i say, we all have our standards and preferences and to say you would chuck those out of the window i people were "desperate" is stretching it...

so would you do anyone if you were "deseperate" enough... i don't think many people would... male or female

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it

Another sweeping generalisation there then?

I for one am fussy where "i put it"

Well that's commendable if correct. I for one look to see who has been with who on here before i decide to meet.

Yes it is some what of a generalisation. However would you say that the majority of men are fussy or do many take what they can get?

If correct???

Am sorry but, with all due respect, am not into this domme thing you seem to want to push on all us males on the forums and I have my own opinions, standards and answers to questions that I express truthfully!

Every person is different and I for one won't use sweeping generalisations against either sex, so what other males do or "put it" is none of my business!

Then its simple for you and you don't have to post on the the thread.

But I want to post on this thread and any others that catch my eye and seeing as they are open forums then I can post when I feel I want to

I am not denying you your rite to do that or your preferences in meets. I may be a little frank with what i put but as you say they its an open forum which is a positive thing.

Unfortunately the thread got pulled off topic as i was originally asking why there seems to be a reluctance by men to sleep with muscular women.

Threads get pulled off topic all the time and it is usually when someone says something that the OP disagrees with within their reply about the original topic.

The OPs (of many threads) then usually comes back with something even further off topic, usually something against the person that has disagreed with them, but that's the nature of the forums and I doubt very much it will ever change seeing as we are all different and are entitled to have our own views! "

I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints. As for going off topic well it happens on most sights so its not a surprise or a problem. I would rather have a "warm debate" above a wishy washy one any day of the week. Its the only way you understand others real feelings and points of view opposed to ones they perceive are more publicly acceptable.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints."

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they?

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it???

Absolutely

This isn't a men versus women statement

we all feel like it sometimes and to deny it happens at all is well foolish I think

well then i must be a fool.....

what can i say, we all have our standards and preferences and to say you would chuck those out of the window i people were "desperate" is stretching it...

so would you do anyone if you were "deseperate" enough... i don't think many people would... male or female"

I am not saying I am desperate

but when in a club situation, sometimes no one around looked fanciable

so as long as my itch is scratched its ok

Its not a negative thing to admit it, is all I am saying

man or woman

sometimes any hole is a goal

they just dont sing it from the rooftops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot speak for men in general, however, the blokes in the gym where I go (and I do weight training myself but I am not a bodybuilder) more or less state the same thing :They like a woman to be womanly - whatever that means to them individually. They do not appear too keen on extremely muscular woman for they feel they are almost sleeping with another bloke (I am only quoting) xx

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I cannot speak for men in general, however, the blokes in the gym where I go (and I do weight training myself but I am not a bodybuilder) more or less state the same thing :They like a woman to be womanly - whatever that means to them individually. They do not appear too keen on extremely muscular woman for they feel they are almost sleeping with another bloke (I am only quoting) xx"

I concur with this. I go to the gym regularly myself, and I've seen some absolutely stunning women there. For me, however, what defines whether a woman appears 'womanly' or not isn't the size of her biceps and triceps, but it's down to the size of her breasts.

I fully appreciate that this is an incredibly fickle thing to say, but hey-ho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol "

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next. "

Nope I know a lot of "womanly" woman that drink pints, there is nothing wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot speak for men in general, however, the blokes in the gym where I go (and I do weight training myself but I am not a bodybuilder) more or less state the same thing :They like a woman to be womanly - whatever that means to them individually. They do not appear too keen on extremely muscular woman for they feel they are almost sleeping with another bloke (I am only quoting) xx

I concur with this. I go to the gym regularly myself, and I've seen some absolutely stunning women there. For me, however, what defines whether a woman appears 'womanly' or not isn't the size of her biceps and triceps, but it's down to the size of her breasts.

I fully appreciate that this is an incredibly fickle thing to say, but hey-ho "

And sadly, with the real hard-core" lady bodybuilders they lose most of their attractive breast tissue and become quite masculine looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next.

Nope I know a lot of "womanly" woman that drink pints, there is nothing wrong with it "

luvs ya! pint of... wine?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next.

Nope I know a lot of "womanly" woman that drink pints, there is nothing wrong with it

luvs ya! pint of... wine?"

It's in the fridge here waiting for you

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next.

Nope I know a lot of "womanly" woman that drink pints, there is nothing wrong with it

luvs ya! pint of... wine?

It's in the fridge here waiting for you "

on my way - a man to my liking xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not totally disagreeing wih you as you put some valid pints.

I do feel like a few "valid pints" tonight for some strange reason lol

Well i must have been projecting my evening thoughts on that as it is Saturday night shortly. No doubt i will get the "women shouldn't drink pints " bit next.

Nope I know a lot of "womanly" woman that drink pints, there is nothing wrong with it "

Well that's a relief to know. But no doubt some will cast scorn on a woman with a pint in her hand. I can only assume Scotland is more liberated than down here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies "

But you would like a tight grip in errr the right places?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies "

So what's exactly wrong with a woman with women with muscles. What specifically turns a man off?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Guys I have a friend who is into body building. She has a problem getting men to sleep with here she says . Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. I am wondering though are men intimidated by a woman who is more muscular than they are?"

I personally think it's because some don't see bulked up muscles as feminine.

To me, personally, I hate bulked up muscles on anyone.... they do nothing for me and I personally think they look ugly.

Maybe, some men can't see past the muscles to the feminine person underneath?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and many men (not all) think every hole is a goal, they just don't advertise the fact

otherwise they wouldn't get a fuck now would they?

so would it be right for men to say the same thing about women???? heck... any cock will do then won't it???

Absolutely

This isn't a men versus women statement

we all feel like it sometimes and to deny it happens at all is well foolish I think

well then i must be a fool.....

what can i say, we all have our standards and preferences and to say you would chuck those out of the window i people were "desperate" is stretching it...

so would you do anyone if you were "deseperate" enough... i don't think many people would... male or female"

I wish people would speak for themselves!

If some people have scant regard for themselves and so desperate that any hole is a goal or any cock will do then kudos to them! However, assuming everyone shares their desperation well...I'm speechless!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies "

Thats me of ya list then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I really wanted a woman with muscles, I'd go for a man instead.

It turns me off big style, in fact I'm replused by it.

Nothing wrong with keeping in shape, but muscles on a woman - no thanks.

By the same token though i don't think there's anything wrong with a guy keeping himself in shape, but when he walks like his balls are trailing the ground and he is carring 2 carpets under his arms - sorry, but all I see is a total wanker

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"So what's exactly wrong with a woman with women with muscles"

Nothing wrong with it, just not my preference


"What specifically turns a man off?"

Women with muscles have you seen some of the female contestants on those TV programmes

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

Thats me of ya list then! "

Oi, maybe you just need "tarting" up a bit lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

Thats me of ya list then!

Oi, maybe you just need "tarting" up a bit lol "

Ooohhhh, I'm good at tarting.......it's everything else that goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm men who are ripped and toned I love it. Women with muscles or skinny women i have been told that the guy likes something to get hold of and its not sexy fucking bones and its uncomfortable when they can feel the bones poking out. They like girls to be soft and feminine

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

Thats me of ya list then!

Oi, maybe you just need "tarting" up a bit lol

Ooohhhh, I'm good at tarting......."

6 weeks today

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

Thats me of ya list then!

Oi, maybe you just need "tarting" up a bit lol

Ooohhhh, I'm good at tarting.......

6 weeks today "

And you need to send me a music list oh maestro....... otherwise it will be Maddies take on camp, 80's and revoltingly cheesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but when he walks like his balls are trailing the ground and he is carring 2 carpets under his arms - sorry, but all I see is a total wanker"

Thats the trouble, men who go to a gym once and suddenly feel they cant put their arms flat against their sides as they are now too huuuuge!! Its referred to as ILS (invisible lats syndrome) - they walk like they have huge muscles, whereas everyone else is looking at the gap under their arm wondering where the carpet is!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what's exactly wrong with a woman with women with muscles

Nothing wrong with it, just not my preference

What specifically turns a man off?

Women with muscles have you seen some of the female contestants on those TV programmes "

Granted some go to extremes when they reduce body fat but they don't look ripped like that all the time, far from it. Is it an intimidation thing or what? As a bi couple it would be interesting to see things from your point of view as i am assuming you like muscular men?? sorry if i am wrong on that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say generally I don't find women like that attractive (but not a total turn off)... but I'm always game for new experiences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Granted some go to extremes when they reduce body fat but they don't look ripped like that all the time, far from it. "

Thats a REALLY good point!! The public generally see bodybuilders when they are competition mode - all fat stripped off and incredibly lean. That isnt how the majority of them spend the rest of the year - and obviously when a female bodybuilder isnt stripped of her fat she will still have breasts!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Women with muscles ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww no thank you!

I prefer ladies to be ladies

Thats me of ya list then!

Oi, maybe you just need "tarting" up a bit lol

Ooohhhh, I'm good at tarting.......

6 weeks today

And you need to send me a music list oh maestro....... otherwise it will be Maddies take on camp, 80's and revoltingly cheesy "

Got any ABBA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about some Boney M to compliment your ABBA selection ?

Brown girl in da ring tra la la la la ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a former British and European competitor in Body Building and Strong Woman contests I found,when I was muscular,two main reactions from men.

For the most part the reactions often depended on how the men looked or perceived themselves.

Many muscular men like the way muscular,toned women look,whereas guys who are either skinny or in bad shape usually don't.

There are exceptions such as the thin "y" type who like to be dominated of course.

On the other hand you have the d*unken slobby type who think we'd be interested in their opinions but still feel they have to give them,even though we're not.

Most of them are intimidated by such women because they have the physical and mental fortitude to get themselves into that condition, these guys don't and that's what pisses them off.

It shows up their shortcomings,even more so when its a woman doing something they can't.

As for it being lady like or not,I've known many "muscle" women who are feminine and lady like.

I've also met lots of women who haven't lifted a weight or been in a gym but are as feminine or lady like as Brian Blessed.

As with many human characteristics,its all down to the individual. T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its because men have a secret fear that a woman with muscles would whoop their ass and strip them of any masculinity they may have!!

cant win really chicks!! u got muscles you scary you got bingo wings your fat its a hard bloody world!!!

luckily i dont really care take me as you find me but face it if i sit on you you aint movin far!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a former British and European competitor in Body Building and Strong Woman contests I found,when I was muscular,two main reactions from men.

For the most part the reactions often depended on how the men looked or perceived themselves.

Many muscular men like the way muscular,toned women look,whereas guys who are either skinny or in bad shape usually don't.

There are exceptions such as the thin "y" type who like to be dominated of course.

On the other hand you have the d*unken slobby type who think we'd be interested in their opinions but still feel they have to give them,even though we're not.

Most of them are intimidated by such women because they have the physical and mental fortitude to get themselves into that condition, these guys don't and that's what pisses them off.

It shows up their shortcomings,even more so when its a woman doing something they can't.

As for it being lady like or not,I've known many "muscle" women who are feminine and lady like.

I've also met lots of women who haven't lifted a weight or been in a gym but are as feminine or lady like as Brian Blessed.

As with many human characteristics,its all down to the individual. T

XXX"

I'm neither - I'm a more middle of the road kind of guy, but I still find muscular woman repugnant .....

Not because of any kind of inferiority complex despite what you intimate, in fact quite the contrary, I have nothing to prove, however in my opinion, men and woman who have to bulk themselves up in an unatural way, must feel inferior and downtroddan and have a point to make or someone to impress. You all seem to have something to prove, something lacking in childhood days ? I'm no Phsycologist ..

Be who you are, what you are but dont try to be something you're not.

Muscles aint the be all and end all of life

Despite what the 'body beautiful' may think - we don't all love you and the sooner the better you get it through your musclebound heads, the better and maybe you can move on and try to impress us lesser mortals with something more original

And also don't forget - when the training all comes to an end - the muscle turns to fat and saggy flab just like the rest of us ..

Then who's impressed with a 'has been' .... ?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

We have beenb reading this thread and having a bit of a giggle.

My friend here says that he wouldnt particualy go for a muscle woman, but does like them fir or slim or slightly podgy like me, hehehehe

I asked him why - he said its just nt his cuppa tea. Not something that attracts.

And if she was so obsessed with keeping herself in shape she prob wouldnt go for him anyway (he has a little beer belly thats lovely to bounce on ).

I dont got for bulked up men - but men with defined muscles is very sexy...phwarrrgh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason I started body building was because I come from a family with the propensity to be fat.

We only have to walk past Greggs to put on a stone.

So,as I didn't want to go down that road I became bulimic.

Ric used to train a lot at that time and told me the only way to be the way I wanted was to train,which I began doing.

I was happier with the way I started to look and one thing led to another.

Contrary to popular belief,body builders do not consider themselves "Body Beautiful", which is a media term,and are constantly seeking to improve themselves.

Its a type of dysmorphia.

It always amazes me that people feel free to call us "repugnant" and unnatural etc.

Yet it is no more unnatural to be muscular than to be fat,all be it a lot harder to achieve.

However we'd never dream of calling fat people repugnant,even though its not our thing.T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see as long as your happy sod everyone else!!

i couldnt do it too much regime for me and i admire anyone with that dedication!

like everythin else in life, it can become an obsession to some people and the strive for perfection, the pressure is there for the "ideal" figure and whats one persons ideal may be another person nightmare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and muscle turning to fat is a physical impossibility,much the same way as bone can't turn to fat.

Its another myth,along with us trying to impress so called lesser mortals......like we care what they think!

What causes some ex body builders to become overweight is that they keep eating the same amount that they did when they trained without using the calories up.T

XXX

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Well Trace - we can honestly say you are NOT repugnant!!!!

Again its general terminology for the heavy muscular bound women on the contests on the telly.

Big beefy muscles with veins popping out all over the shop is even to me, never mind my friend, not something we personally find attractive.

I have seen many women at the gym who do have muscles - but not over the top- and that is very sexy

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I agree

Tracey looks amazin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. Women with muscles are just as sexy & lovely ! XG

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"I agree

Tracey looks amazin"

i just had to have another perve at her pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Trace - we can honestly say you are NOT repugnant!!!!

Again its general terminology for the heavy muscular bound women on the contests on the telly.

Big beefy muscles with veins popping out all over the shop is even to me, never mind my friend, not something we personally find attractive.

I have seen many women at the gym who do have muscles - but not over the top- and that is very sexy "

Awww thanks Debz,I would have loved to have been bigger than I was when competing but was always on the border between the Physique class and Trained Figure (which I competed in)but still got grief for that.

Now I'm just what you'd call toned but at least I can say "Been there done that!". T

XXX

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Well i suppose like in any type of comp- that you wanna be bigger and better than the next person - thats why its called competing

But as you are hunny - toned is GOOD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have nothing to prove, however in my opinion, men and woman who have to bulk themselves up in an unatural way, must feel inferior and downtroddan and have a point to make or someone to impress. You all seem to have something to prove, something lacking in childhood days ? I'm no Phsycologist ..

"

No you definitely dont come across as a a psychologist, but you do come across as an ignorant person who happily jumps to conclusions! How about people maybe just enjoy training and the positive feeling it gives them?


"

Be who you are, what you are but dont try to be something you're not.

"

Um, how about it is being who they are - just because you arent interested in muscles, doesnt in any way mean that someone who is happens to be false!!


"

Despite what the 'body beautiful' may think - we don't all love you and the sooner the better you get it through your musclebound heads, the better and maybe you can move on and try to impress us lesser mortals with something more original

"

Actually, the more you post the more you come across as someone who has issues rather than people who train in order to get muscles. You really seem to be hung up on anyone with muscles.. do you have an inferiority complex by any chance??


"

And also don't forget - when the training all comes to an end - the muscle turns to fat and saggy flab just like the rest of us ..

"

And here you perfectly highlight how ignorant you are - maybe if you even had 1% knowledge of the subject you are being critical about, then you would be fully aware that muscle and fat are two completely different things and one can NEVER turn into the other. My god, I would have thought that in modern life people would have at least a rudimentary understanding of this.. but then again, if you understood the facts you wouldnt be able to use your argument!


"

Then who's impressed with a 'has been' .... ?"

Personally, I would rather look back and be a 'has been' than look back and realise that (as in your case) I had always been a 'never ever will be'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an ex boxer and MMA cage fighter I find toned women a turn on.

Check I said the word toned.

Respect to anyone who has the motivation to put themselves through the strict regime to train that hard.

I am approaching 50 and no longer train 6 days a week, I've got it down to 3.

Not so keen in the hard core body builder body of either male of female but thats just the mentality I have as a fighter as bulk slows you down.

A well toned physique in either sex is extremely hot, and the regime to get there is hard and the Op's friend has my respect.

Trace checked out your profile pics, and I am impressed, you do not need to improve on that.

My thoughts........

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

I'm looking for a girl with muscles but I've not seen anyone on here

would love to meet a female bodybuilder

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm looking for a girl with muscles but I've not seen anyone on here

would love to meet a female bodybuilder "

Here here. Must admit I'd love to.

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

any female bodybuilders on here drop me a line

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Mmm. Not sexy

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Definitely sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman who lift are hot as fuck , you can't beat some sexy strong thighs yum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, like them toned and defined but not a she hulk build

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Someone sent me a meme on Facebook last week "If your first reaction is 'she's too muscular for me', then you need to lift more Bro."

Kind of summed it up for me, although I haven't trained for a couple of months due to injury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone sent me a meme on Facebook last week "If your first reaction is 'she's too muscular for me', then you need to lift more Bro.""

Well defined muscles on a woman can be gorgeous IF she's able to do it whilst maintaining the feminine look of her overall figure. When you get women bodybuilders who add so much muscle that their bodies heave under the mass of it and their faces start to look male then no.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I gots muscles. I protect them with a hefty layer of fat.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I gots muscles. I protect them with a hefty layer of fat. "

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By *hatuwant11Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Guys I have a friend who is into body building. She has a problem getting men to sleep with here she says . Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. I am wondering though are men intimidated by a woman who is more muscular than they are?"

Personally I find it hot, I do like something about a strong dominant women, and it shows by the effort that they put in, soo sexy.

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

any female bodybuilders on here feel free to drop me a line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I have a friend who is into body building. She has a problem getting men to sleep with here she says . Now this surprised me a little as I have always thought men are not that fussy with where they put it. I am wondering though are men intimidated by a woman who is more muscular than they are?"

Rachel Mclish female bodybuilder of the 1980's

google her and tell me she don't turn you on

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I know I am here as a CD.

Toned women look amazing, bulked up women sadly lose their feminine looks that is what puts some men off.

Also heard rumours that depending what supplements she has used, her clitoris could be bigger than some men's cocks. That could scare a man for life lol.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Any oiled toned fit sexy muscle-bound women interested in a podgy pasty older white bloke contact me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think if a woman can pull off having muscles and still look feminine then it's all good with me. And hey who knows, maybe I could find a lass able to restrain me when I say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feminine with muscles here.

Seems a popular combination going by my inbox

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

I'm still looking for a girl with muscles

tried to get in touch with OP and his lady friend but no joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still looking for a girl with muscles

tried to get in touch with OP and his lady friend but no joy "

Seriously

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I'm still looking for a girl with muscles

tried to get in touch with OP and his lady friend but no joy "

Dude the OP posted that a year ago and that profile isn't on site anymore.

You've just missed bodypower there would have bound to be some there try next year. Try your local bodybuilding gyms also.

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Yes I tried to get in touch with OP when he first posted but got no response

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