FabSwingers.com forum: first date help

By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? ive made suggestions but her answers give the impression of she wants me to decide everything...and im clueless haha help please haha all ideas welcome but any that are local...ish to rochdale are extra welcome :D

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Out for a meal? Or out for the day somewhere??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A walk around local parks, beauty spots, country parks followed by a Sunday Lunch somewhere nice and warm?

Will give the two of you time and space to talk to each other.

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

i did suggest a meal but the question would be where to go...but another problem i personally have for this kinda thing is also the what to wear issue haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternative idea :

Internet Cafe, sign her up for Fabs.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Take her to your nearest swingers club. McDonald's first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i did suggest a meal but the question would be where to go...but another problem i personally have for this kinda thing is also the what to wear issue haha"

Buy a dog, less decisions to make and they're simpler to please.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ask her what food she likes then youve got some sort of idea which restaurant or pub to go to

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Jeans smart shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take her to your nearest swingers club. McDonald's first though. "

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

funny you should mention signing her up here...showed a pic of her to the only actual friend i met off here and she thinks shes seen her on here before...i doubt it but who knows. oh and wouldnt want a dog for my love life thanks :P

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

glad you said that :D thats about all i have decentish haha

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

button up shirt with nice trousers or jeans and tasty jacket . not trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her dogging

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

i did also suggest going to see a film but that may also cause more problems (due to a personal issue with films) ahaha

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

looks like i have my dress code sorted...werent sure if jeans would be right for a meal but if so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? "

Mcdonalds ftw

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

well it would appear that a meal is on the cards then...next to find out where to take her and hopefully something romantic to do nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't say ha ha at the end of every sentence, you'll scare her off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a meal !!

Drinks in a nice pub so you can eat if you wish

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"looks like i have my dress code sorted...werent sure if jeans would be right for a meal but if so..."

Yes of course jeans and a nice shirt....

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Shes already decided that drinking isnt really gonna happen on first date...that was my first idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How boring lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What to wear part II

If yer lucky, a condom or two.

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Oh and nice pubs = non existent around here...or as far as I can see

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Nope no condoms as that aint gonna happen...not even sure I will go as far as a kiss on first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How boring lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shes already decided that drinking isnt really gonna happen on first date...that was my first idea"

well why don't you go somewhere that's a combination of the two, somewhere that's nice to eat but also has a good bar scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope no condoms as that aint gonna happen...not even sure I will go as far as a kiss on first date"
your a true gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's yer nearest church?

I hear they can be quite exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not keen on being asked where to go for a date... Surprise the girl with a nice meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small restaurant where you can talk and be left alone. This weather doesn't give you many options really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basket weaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope no condoms as that aint gonna happen...not even sure I will go as far as a kiss on first date"

You judge the mood and if it's right have a kiss, doesn't have to be full on tongues lol

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

some really great suggestions :D thanks :D you have no idea how much this is helping

i just need to find a decent place thats local enough. after this it should become at least a lil easier as its not just my first date with her...in reality its my first date...ever

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Fallen angels if it's still open, lovely resturant in Rochdale years ago x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Is it really that hard to arrange a date?

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

for me yes haha is it that hard...and fallen angels thanks will look to see if its still there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans smart shirt

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"some really great suggestions :D thanks :D you have no idea how much this is helping

i just need to find a decent place thats local enough. after this it should become at least a lil easier as its not just my first date with her...in reality its my first date...ever"
awww . best of luck mate .. just ve yourself and it will go fine .. ask your date what she wants .. be attentive . keep the conversation simple and listen . then listen some more

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

grr ... be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends when the date is, if it's an evening date then you don't really have many options really but pictures or a bite to eat, if it's a day time meet a nice walk round hollingworth lake and they into the fish for a bit of pub grub and a nice chat

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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There's a really nice Italian (restaurant that is you lot) on the lake too.... Very romantic area actually.....

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Thanks x her fav foods italian as well

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

ok i found a place on the lake but its not italian...it seems nice but they recommended a different place not to far away from them that is italian and owned by the same company...it also seems like the better quality and more romantic place as well but it lacks the romanticness of the lake. not sure which of the 2 to go for now

romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok i found a place on the lake but its not italian...it seems nice but they recommended a different place not to far away from them that is italian and owned by the same company...it also seems like the better quality and more romantic place as well but it lacks the romanticness of the lake. not sure which of the 2 to go for now

romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant."

Splash out and take her for a long weekend to Lake Como. It will be worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a zoo near you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant."

Go with the fave food

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

food

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

how about the bowling alley ?

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

long weekend = not an option...yet

bowling alley doesnt seem right for a first date...or a date (to me)

zoo...you being genuine or sarcastic haha?

but fave food it is then :D thank you :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious. They make for fantastic dates.

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

really? i never thought of a zoo as a prime date location before...it always seemed more like a place to take kids to stop them being brats for a day...as far as i can tell...but as far as i know no there isnt one nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a cultural visit over the hill to Yorkshire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"really? i never thought of a zoo as a prime date location before...it always seemed more like a place to take kids to stop them being brats for a day...as far as i can tell...but as far as i know no there isnt one nearby"

They're often, but not always, a Primate location.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that your asking! You need to be able to talk- laugh as well if possible! Believe it or not the zoo is a great day time date. It gives you something to talk about if nothing else.

If its evening then let her decide between the lake (more romantic) or the Italian (fav food) it shows her you've thought about it & what she would like. Offer your preference- shows you're decisive but care about her opinion.

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By *eamgbukCouple (MM)
over a year ago

sunny york

"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? "

Up the arse!

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

thanks

just a shame the lake one isnt italian as well...should be as its all owned by the same people and all their other places are italian haha

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

and what can i say? im asking because i want it to go perfect :D so any and all input is welcome...just a shame i know that there are always some people that dont take it seriously and give annoying answers...but easy enough to ignore them

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

shopping.... every woman loves shopping (nearly every woman)

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

shopping will come after first date :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shopping will come after first date :P"

aw, you romantic sole.

platinum or gold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? ive made suggestions but her answers give the impression of she wants me to decide everything...and im clueless haha help please haha all ideas welcome but any that are local...ish to rochdale are extra welcome :D"

I like to take a girl to a comedy club for first date. Enough breaks to chat have drinks etc but it also takes a huge pressure off me to bring my A game.

After it always gives us topics to talk about and generally are both in a good mood!

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

didnt think about that lol and not platinum or gold...white gold :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to Paris and you'll probably get a shot on the swings as well... You'd be well in..... Skint but we'll in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take her to Paris and you'll probably get a shot on the swings as well... You'd be well in..... Skint but we'll in! "

*well *even doh.

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By *r not quite virgin OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Id love to...but even with the ridiculous hours I work I cant afford to haha

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