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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could potentially be a daft question (wouldnt be the first time from me lol)

Does anyone struggle to relate to people or understand their posts/threads because you have never seen their face?

People i've warmed too most i can visualize them, but the ones i feel distant from its because they are anonymous. Not saying everyone should expose their faces just wondering if i'm alone in this?

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

yes... often talked in posts and had a laugh and wondered what their like..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No though I do sometimes get a different perspective once I have met someone.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am glad I don't relate to some posts or poster, I am truly bewildered at times.

Then there are the people I do relate to and the ones that I have watched grow as adults over the years.

The posters I recently met were exactly as I thought.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No not really, its more some personalities I struggle with understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I take people's posts at face value. I neither try to relate or understand them as most people think differently to me anyway. It wouldn't make any difference if I know what they look like.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I am glad I don't relate to some posts or poster, I am truly bewildered at times.

Then there are the people I do relate to and the ones that I have watched grow as adults over the years.

The posters I recently met were exactly as I thought. "

the posters you met recently were exactly what you thought...

was that in a good way ?...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I am glad I don't relate to some posts or poster, I am truly bewildered at times.

Then there are the people I do relate to and the ones that I have watched grow as adults over the years.

The posters I recently met were exactly as I thought. "

Even me?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"No not really, its more some personalities I struggle with understanding

"

I struggle to make sense of the actual words sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good question.

I think we can only go by peoples personalities through written work.

I try to work out personalities through different threads, moods ect.

I think because we don't know each other, we don't see the laughing frowns, body language, it is very hard to understand, I'm the worlds worst.

I often write straight away without thinking often getting the wrong end of the stick

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the fantasy of what they might look like is sometimes better lol x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I imagine some people might think 'there's that twat from Brighton' when I post and when they meet me, think 'yup, he's a twat from Brighton'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I imagine some people might think 'there's that twat from Brighton' when I post and when they meet me, think 'yup, he's a twat from Brighton' "
yep

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I imagine some people might think 'there's that twat from Brighton' when I post and when they meet me, think 'yup, he's a twat from Brighton' yep

"

Self aware, you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I relate more to those I have had correspondence with or met. It makes it easier to understand that context of their posts most of the time.

Sometimes I still sit and shake my head in disbelief though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sometimes feels like I kind of 'know' people from reading their posts for so long. You get to know people's sense of humour. I'm pretty crap at remembering too many people though. And if they change avatars I'm totally lost. So a lot of times I just read posts and don't really think about who posted it, just the content of the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I know what my brother, sis and nieces look like.

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