FabSwingers.com forum: Would you meet my husband?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Probably not no...but that's just me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Theoretical question only- not me asking!!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Even if I fancied him I would think there was something strange about that request! I'd have to stick my 'no married men' guns tho. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypothetically, if we were meeting men that is. We'd want to speak to the lady in person about it and make sure all was correct. If that worked out and of course attraction was mutual then yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in alone?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to be part of their bedroom games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't I mean if he had own profile why couldn't he ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?"
I have had mail like this and no I don't meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he look like you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes, if everything was how you said it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if alone, I would wonder why he had not asked on his profile.

If as a couple I would wonder why they both had not asked.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks I'm straight. I'd meet her though if she's got time to kill

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

is it not the opposite of a cuckold couple?? think its called cuckqueen

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No.

As I state in my profile I don't meet attached men with or without their other halfs permission.

I have been caught in dodgy couples dynamics and messy relationship issues before and it's not fun. As a single fem not only am I outnumbered but I'm also outweighed so if it all went tits up guess who'd be coming out of it worst.

Having said that there are a few specific couples where I'd play with the male half, but that's from knowing them and seeing their dynamic not from a random message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't. I just wouldn't feel comfortable in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no if he wants to meet me then he can message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had at times couples mail ask if I will meet the man alone as working this way ..... its a no too no matter if a nice hotel offer . And some times its the lady mailing , lol well they say this but you cant tell can you really . x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no,

I wouldnt let my wife!

She got this guy messaging her to play with his gf.not a chance in hell was she going alone! I reckon he was some dude trying to just get in my gorgeous wifes panties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly opposite, but I get lots of messages from men asking me to meet their wife/girlfriend.

My answer is always the same - "Get her to contact me direct!"..!!!

Despite the guys assurances that she will, I hardly ever get a response, and when I do she always has a totally different agenda, looking for something that doesn't interest me....

So I'd say - if the request doesn't come from the other party directly - then don't even think about it.!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not play alone anyway, but I would not go for this full stop.

I have come across many situations like this on a another site as a single woman, and after much questioning it turned out to be a single man.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Simply no.

I've filtered women men & couples now as im sick of these sorts of pm

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I would meet him for a pint or a game of pool or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not play alone anyway, but I would not go for this full stop.

I have come across many situations like this on a another site as a single woman, and after much questioning it turned out to be a single man.

That was what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?"

If a guy can't ask for himself its a sad situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably not, but only because we tend not to want to meet with half a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as previously said how do you know it was geniune and not a fake single fem Id for him to meet someone.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have had a few messages like this and it's always a no. I don't really meet couples and certainly wouldn't consider just one half of a couple on here. The dynamics just don't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do not play alone anyway, but I would not go for this full stop.

I have come across many situations like this on a another site as a single woman, and after much questioning it turned out to be a single man.

I've had a few 'couples' recently where it was obvious from the start that it was just a man.

In this case, (per my OP) the scenario would be speaking to the female on the phone to confirm she's happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?"

I've had that a few times

I had one women mail me saying she was looking for a fuck buddie for her husband to meet alone so she had more time to play as she was only allowed to meet alone when he did

I kindly refused, i'm sure I don't need to explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have put this on our profile now, you get so far in and its just the male half

Her

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, I would. It would seem a genuine offer and with pics, I'd treat it as any other meet request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I meet his missus whole we are at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not the fact its the male half of a couple that puts me off, its the fact I'd be arranging it with his wife, its ok her asking me and me saying yes but what if he don't like me? if I arrange a meet I want to talk to the monkey not the organ grinder

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?

I've had that a few times

I had one women mail me saying she was looking for a fuck buddie for her husband to meet alone so she had more time to play as she was only allowed to meet alone when he did

I kindly refused, i'm sure I don't need to explain why

Oooh, how flattering....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No not us...we wouldn't meet one half of a couple at all.

Reason being was the one time we did many moons ago the woman didn't seem to happy with it after it had happened and her attitude wasn't very pleasant....so it put us off.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

got a msg like that last week the answer was no,i also got a msg from a squaddie asking if he could use my couch for the night as the barracks was full

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?"
I wouldn't but I would wanna know what's wrong with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if he has a beard, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he buys the first pint and can take a whopping in the pool table, and talk sport...... Why not.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"If you got a mail from a single female profile asking you to meet her husband.... would you?

If the single female profile was well verified, had links to their couple profile & his single man profile, which were also well verified.

Assuming you fancied him of course, would you meet him... or not? If not why not?"

nope, cpls always as cpls

xxx

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