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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it acceptable to re message couples and single ladies if you have already messaged them. For instance I mailed quite a few people when I first joined and had no verifications and didn't send a pic. Now I send pics and I am verified.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's up to you...as long as you don't come across as you are pestering...I get repeat messages daily in the end I just block them..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to you...as long as you don't come across as you are pestering...I get repeat messages daily in the end I just block them.. "

No I wouldn't pester what's the point I no is no am talking 6 to 7 months from sending the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your messages are tailored to the recipient/s and polite you have nothing to lose and everything to gain - go for it

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

A little hint.... if you`re messaging couples, use the private notes feature to keep tabs on who you contact. We got contacted by the same person 3 times in 6 weeks with the same cut n paste message, he obviously hadn`t read the bit of the profile which said "don`t call us,we`ll call you" so he tasted the block button

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It is after a suitable time has passed and as you are doing, with a different message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little hint.... if you`re messaging couples, use the private notes feature to keep tabs on who you contact. We got contacted by the same person 3 times in 6 weeks with the same cut n paste message, he obviously hadn`t read the bit of the profile which said "don`t call us,we`ll call you" so he tasted the block button "

Lol I try not to message the same person but it is hard to remember I will try and do that in future. But I don't mind if I get blocked saves me being a pain in the arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

They might have missed your message as women and couples do get a lot of messages. I would send them every hour just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They might have missed your message as women and couples do get a lot of messages. I would send them every hour just in case. "

Lol, you could be excused on the grounds you have a gorgeous arse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always worth another try after a sensible period of time. Not two or three times a day though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They might have missed your message as women and couples do get a lot of messages. I would send them every hour just in case. "

I may do that and tell them it was on your great advice am sure they will appreciate that

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Be honest in your opening sentence and explain you have messaged before and why you are messaging again I would say go for it.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"They might have missed your message as women and couples do get a lot of messages. I would send them every hour just in case.

Lol, you could be excused on the grounds you have a gorgeous arse!!!

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Why thank you and right back at you my sweet.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"They might have missed your message as women and couples do get a lot of messages. I would send them every hour just in case.

I may do that and tell them it was on your great advice am sure they will appreciate that "

Yeah just say Funky said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to you...as long as you don't come across as you are pestering...I get repeat messages daily in the end I just block them..

No I wouldn't pester what's the point I no is no am talking 6 to 7 months from sending the first message "

I don't see any harm in that. You've changed your approach and it's hardly pestering them after so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in regards to couples (speaking as a former one on the site) sometimes one half my read the message then leave it on their till the other has had chance to read it so they can make a joint decision on what they want to do so be patient with them x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

OP as you are a site supporter you should be able to see if you have messaged someone before.

But in response to your question if it's been that long and your circumstances have changed then I wouldn't mind receiving a second message x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP as you are a site supporter you should be able to see if you have messaged someone before.

But in response to your question if it's been that long and your circumstances have changed then I wouldn't mind receiving a second message x"

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