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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Sell yourself more, it's not the site as many are having fun.

Good luck

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By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

There is a simple way and it's a message to all posts re: difficulty getting meets... Get yourself along to socials and even more socials! Likeminded people can then see the 'whole' you and you can get your true personality across x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site "

Nobody owes you a fuck.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You haven't got much on your profile. No pics, can't accommodate. It might not be fair but that sort of thing can cause people to pass you by when searching.

There's a regular social in York. You just missed one but the next one will be up in the meets forum soon enough. Also, just a FYI, it aint that easy for women to get meets either. Takes effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sense of expectation and entitlement are miles off from the reality of this site.

Your profile and this post both suggest that you thought the site would be an easy source of sex and it's not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pass you by as you have no public pics and your profile text is very poor, nothing about what you like or would like, just here I am come and get me.......you and hundreds of others hun I'm afraid, do something to stand out,

Good luck

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Your profole is a yawn fest and totally non descript. I wouldn't give you any of my time. Thousands on here nake a huge effort and still struggle. No one owes you anything so stop feeling sorry for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who said they did plant pot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site "

Think of it like telesales. You get a snippit of a chance to get a woman's attention before the hangup and that's it you have to make that fist introduction work. Or you could lower the goalpost to a 5 a side height one and hit on the branch bouncers.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site "

kop out....

too easy to blame the site and not the person you are staring at in the mirror...

there is a saying that you get out what you put in..... what honestly have you put in?

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"I would pass you by as you have no public pics and your profile text is very poor, nothing about what you like or would like, just here I am come and get me.......you and hundreds of others hun I'm afraid, do something to stand out,

Good luck"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont make any effort with my profile...no public pictures....i rant on the forums...never been a social...but im doing very well. just keep at it mate...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site

Nobody owes you a fuck."

You owe me one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky"

An argument could be made about the forums being cliquey but the site as a whole isn't. You just need to get known as a reliable chap who meets. Socials are good for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

An argument could be made about the forums being cliquey but the site as a whole isn't. You just need to get known as a reliable chap who meets. Socials are good for that."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What do you think this site is all about..."

What do *you* think the site is about? It seems it isn't meeting your expectations. Have you considered you have the wrong idea?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky"

again... sorry, thats a kop out! looking around at everyone else.... Whilst you are the innocent victim....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky"

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site "

How many hot women gagging for sex with anonymous, faceless, random men did you expect to find here?

Why should anyone choose you? That's a genuine question by the way. That's the key, giving women a reason to choose you over the thousands of other guys here.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

again... sorry, thats a kop out! looking around at everyone else.... Whilst you are the innocent victim....

"

It's all the fault of us horrible women for not falling on his cock. It's incomprehensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't like the word horny in profile text. Not being able to accommodate would be no good for me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any lady tell me why its so hard for me to get some fun on here, you can't tell everything in a few words and if you say too much, its like a begging letter.... Eh what's going on with this site "

Be grateful you even have a veri most don't have any after being on a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third. "

It's not a sex site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky"

not the site. Some forum people hang in the same circles and clubs. As in real life you have to attract women to you. Be nice,be normal and be patient

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As per everyone above, your profile is not helping you any. You get out of this what you put in and you aren't putting enough in to raise your chances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good context, I will take heed and improve my style xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And maybe not refer to it as "fun" even though it is fun. Ladies sometimes need to feel special even if it's just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site..."
I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately. "

What people have sex on here..?? I'm scared for life now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a simple way and it's a message to all posts re: difficulty getting meets... Get yourself along to socials and even more socials! Likeminded people can then see the 'whole' you and you can get your true personality across x"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

What people have sex on here..?? I'm scared for life now... "

Some do some do all sorts of freaky things and some wank like a bastard on cam sadly I've never mastered that.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

What people have sex on here..?? I'm scared for life now...

Some do some do all sorts of freaky things and some wank like a bastard on cam sadly I've never mastered that. "

Well I never had you down as a wanker

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Who said they did plant pot"

I'm surpirsed anyone is offering you advice when this is the sort of response you're giving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey thanks to you all for your comments, I'm sure I will learn from them,the good and what I think maybe bad..... Cheers to everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

What people have sex on here..?? I'm scared for life now...

Some do some do all sorts of freaky things and some wank like a bastard on cam sadly I've never mastered that.

Well I never had you down as a wanker "

You haven't seen me drive I often get called that when behind the wheel.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do you want help or to let off steam? Have you taken on board anything that has been said so far? If not, are people just wasting their time? No one individual woman can speak for all, but we can give our own perspective on things. I dont know how much you use the forums, but there is tons of profile and meets help posted. For now - whats your feedback on getting public photos up, and adding in the type of info into your profile that people say is needed. Plus, do you go to socials and clubs? Are you here to swing or just use this is a site to meet single women?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

What people have sex on here..?? I'm scared for life now...

Some do some do all sorts of freaky things and some wank like a bastard on cam sadly I've never mastered that.

Well I never had you down as a wanker

You haven't seen me drive I often get called that when behind the wheel. "

I like to go fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who said they did plant pot

I'm surpirsed anyone is offering you advice when this is the sort of response you're giving "
it wasn't pointed at you, it was someone being clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately. "

Erm you did! "for most it isn't just a sex site as many think" read your last post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

Erm you did! "for most it isn't just a sex site as many think" read your last post "

You really need to read fully ignorance isn't an excuse i said "for most it isn't just a sex site" which is not indicating its a sex site although for a some it clearly is do you understand what " for most it isn't" means as you don't appear to its also not a bdsm site by the way although by your user name you seem to have missed that if we are going to be pedantic but to clearly enlighten you "for most it isn't just a sex site" means for the majority of fab members the site is not just a sex site although a large proportion of members use it to facilitate sexual encounters of one sort or another. I have tried to simply as you clearly are struggling to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think this site is all about, I have been told by, people who have been herte for sometime it is very clicky

It can be there is no denying that but so is a pub if you walk in there will be groups of friends you wouldn't expect everyone in the pub to speak to you. It doesn't fall in your plate well not for most it isn't just a sex site as many think its communication attraction leading to mutual fun and you need to master the first two to get the third.

It's not a sex site...I didn't say that did I although clearly sex results for many reading many verifications. Quote if you like but quote accurately.

Erm you did! "for most it isn't just a sex site as many think" read your last post

You really need to read fully ignorance isn't an excuse i said "for most it isn't just a sex site" which is not indicating its a sex site although for a some it clearly is do you understand what " for most it isn't" means as you don't appear to its also not a bdsm site by the way although by your user name you seem to have missed that if we are going to be pedantic but to clearly enlighten you "for most it isn't just a sex site" means for the majority of fab members the site is not just a sex site although a large proportion of members use it to facilitate sexual encounters of one sort or another. I have tried to simply as you clearly are struggling to understand. "

No I didn't know what it mean't and I know it's not a bdsm site, that's why I've joined a fetish site, couldn't come up with anything creative so used that instead. I have dyspraxia, which means I do find it difficult to understand some things, so thanks for clearing that up! *tongue firmly in cheek*

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