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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.

He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.

This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....

Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boys always came into the ladies with ne when they were little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when should i stop going into the Ladies ?

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for safety sake you are right to keep them with you, in my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had a son he'd come into the ladies with me.

not a chance would i let him into the gents on his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a single dad come in the ladies with his daughter. He obviously didn't want to take her in the gents. All the women in the ladies loos gave him admiring glances. No-one gave him a hard time. He was very respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when should i stop going into the Ladies ?

Him"

When ya grow a pair...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a single dad come in the ladies with his daughter. He obviously didn't want to take her in the gents. All the women in the ladies loos gave him admiring glances. No-one gave him a hard time. He was very respectful. "

Good for him

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I was in a public loo, I would feel uncomfortable if there was a young child in there.

if they struggled, I would leave and let the mum know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when should i stop going into the Ladies ?

Him

When ya grow a pair... "

I had a pair but the ex took em with the House

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that at all. I think my son will of been around 8 when I let him go to the gents for the first time on his own and then I hung around the entrance waiting for him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son always come with me, until he got a bit older

I was almost taken from a toilet myself when I was eight by a woman

Never leave them unattended anything can happen as you know. $- )

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Isn't there a toilet for disabled folk which would solve the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It must be difficult for single dads with little girls,wondering what to do. Ive been asked many times to take a little girl in to the loos by a dad with a desperate child.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't there a toilet for disabled folk which would solve the problem?"

Well most public disabled loos are locked , they are in my town anyways,. the disabled have to apply for their own key and have to pay for it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My youngest son is five, enter the gents alone not on your nelly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get keys for disabled loos from Amazon, you do have to pay for them but anyone can get them disabled or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my son does and will continue to go in the ladies with me for as long as possible. i am fine withstanding the misdirected judgement of others for the sake of his safety

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x"

Yes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be difficult for single dads with little girls,wondering what to do. Ive been asked many times to take a little girl in to the loos by a dad with a desperate child. "

I'm a single dad, I take me youngest into the men's, but if she's with her sister they both go to ladies, I'm always waiting outside,

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Isn't there a toilet for disabled folk which would solve the problem?

Well most public disabled loos are locked , they are in my town anyways,. the disabled have to apply for their own key and have to pay for it to. "

There is always someone with a key to let them in....shopping centres....they buy their own so they dont have to ask/wait....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there was a single dad and his daughter id imagine its acceptable for him to pop into the ladies.. just a polite shout through the doors to ask i its ok. doubt anyone would object.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

This arose because a man took his daughter swimming and took her into the female changing rooms cos he didn't want her to see a room full of naked men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always took mine in with me....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

children should go with their mum in the ladies I don't see whats wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when should i stop going into the Ladies ?

Him

When ya grow a pair...

I had a pair but the ex took em with the House "

Mine too...

But I grew some more... Bigger... Better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair most public toilets don't have the correct facilities for boys as the uninals are too high, we see no reason why mums shouldn't take boys into the ladies, they have cubicles who's going to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"children should go with their mum in the ladies I don't see whats wrong with it"

Or their dad's.... There are cubicles for privacy...

I always went into whichever adult I was with... Or a kindly shop assistant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x

Yes.....

"

Exactly...

I'm not offended by kids using the same public loos as I do. After all, they use male cleaners which come in unannounced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"children should go with their mum in the ladies I don't see whats wrong with it

Or their dad's.... There are cubicles for privacy...

I always went into whichever adult I was with... Or a kindly shop assistant... "

Problem is the dirty ass seats, hence bacterial wipes, hand gel and a good dry off with paper before sitting em down, or just holding her mid air hoping it goes down the toilet, problem is with my daughter she puts both hands on the seat ans holds herself up, but I never let her do it in public loos

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x"

There was a 4 year old boy sexually assaulted in my local supermarket about a year ago... He had gone into the gents alone while his mum waited outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.

He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.

This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....

Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ? "

I did exactly the same thing and very rightly so in this twisted world we live in.

Be proud you care that much that you think this way.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

There is no way on this planet any of my children would go unsupervised into any public toilet.....thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.

He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.

This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....

Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ? "

I did this with my son when he was younger. Too risky not to

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