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Verifications. Do people look for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people take notice of verifications at all.

Do they discourage/encourage you to meet someone?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Yes. "

i'm with granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes always.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes. Yes.

A

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

yes to both

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my meets have left the site....can only display one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O yes .......... As Churchill would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes but not always

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far we have yes so to follow on,

What do you look for in a verification?

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"All of my meets have left the site....can only display one "

same here ... and they all said I drove them to leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far we have yes so to follow on,

What do you look for in a verification?

"

That they turned up, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to use your judgement really, people have to get their first very somehow, but if they're on here for years without one you may wonder why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Yes always

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have it that I only meet people with verifications, I rarely look beyond the top two, but as I meet in my own home its just a small part of my selection process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I make my mind up by talking to the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take a lot of notice to be honest....seen many where the person is described as 'hot hot hot', 'gorgeous', etc etc. Maybe to the person writing the veri they are but.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely look for and like them to have varies but don't rely on the content I would rather make up my own mind from talking to them

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do read them yes, however it doesn't really give an indication of how that person will be with you, I suppose it might just show that they are punctual, smart, non-pushy all those sort of things but as for the sexual side well I suppose it can be different as chalk and cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont take a lot of notice to be honest....seen many where the person is described as 'hot hot hot', 'gorgeous', etc etc. Maybe to the person writing the veri they are but....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone read mine I would never get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I read them and sometimes they might discourage me but I like to make my own mind up by chatting and getting to know a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i suppose so and sometimes.

I prefer to make my own mind up about people though.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"I do read them yes, however it doesn't really give an indication of how that person will be with you, I suppose it might just show that they are punctual, smart, non-pushy all those sort of things but as for the sexual side well I suppose it can be different as chalk and cheese "

I agree.

After meeting some people I wondered about the accuracy of their verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet people that have been on here for a long time and are unverified but it doesn't always bother us if someone is new and unverified.

We don't look for anything specific in a verification, but on occasions they have been enough to put us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Depends on how long they've been on the site. If it's only a few weeks and they don't have veri's it doesn't bother me at all.

I don't need to use the verification system to babysit who I choose to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i always read them,they are not what makes me meet a person though,i have to find them attractive and click in chatting mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes always check them, then I check out all of the people who have made them.

Too many veris says a lot, its up to you how you choose to interpret those, no veris after a long membership period speaks for itself too

At the end of the day its a personal choice, but to me veris are important in building up a picture. It's information, why not use it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications have to be taken with a pinch of salt.

Just because they've turned up for a meet with someone else, it doesn't mean they'll turn up for you.

I wouldn't meet anyone on the strength of someone elses experience. I'll make my own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing, checking the.meets out, then proceed to the rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do read them yes, however it doesn't really give an indication of how that person will be with you, I suppose it might just show that they are punctual, smart, non-pushy all those sort of things but as for the sexual side well I suppose it can be different as chalk and cheese

I agree.

After meeting some people I wondered about the accuracy of their verifications.

"

Interesting comments so far and quite varied. Sometimes I wonder if people put verifications on because they feel 'obliged' to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes,

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"yes i suppose so and sometimes.

I prefer to make my own mind up about people though."

^ This

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I,like most others I suppose, make judgements on a variety of things, veris, profile text, pics, preferences, length on site and messages, before I make a decision whether I may meet them.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

id rather chat flirt and meet and make up my own mind

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By *ert69Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

No, no one look's at verification's anymore,

If you've got a six pack and a big c--k, you'll do well on this site,

I've removed most of my verification's,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

I prefer to make up my own mind and in the 6 yrs I've been here I've been let down once

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

If a profile has none they can't pm me so yes they are important (met in person only)

Read them. Honestly not so much. Believe or care about what's said nah

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Well if they like the same type of things and people that I like then they`ll have met the more of those people that I`m looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at them to see how that person found them.

Not in a sexual way, just as they were.

I don't take no notice of cam veris, as we can all do that all day if we wanted.

Nette

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I do read them yes, however it doesn't really give an indication of how that person will be with you, I suppose it might just show that they are punctual, smart, non-pushy all those sort of things but as for the sexual side well I suppose it can be different as chalk and cheese

I agree.

After meeting some people I wondered about the accuracy of their verifications.

Interesting comments so far and quite varied. Sometimes I wonder if people put verifications on because they feel 'obliged' to"

Not really, I have met without verifying, not that they were horrible or anything like that. The ones I have left them for are guys I have met and met again and have probably clicked with the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always helps me to see people are genuine friendly are the main two. Then see what or how naughty the person you going to meet sounds for others that have met. Winner everytime for me.

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