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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am glad it's not just me...lol x

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception? "

Same here and we have no time for them. They're often called chancers and when we check their profiles they invariably have no verifications. Can't imagine why....

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception?

Same here and we have no time for them. They're often called chancers and when we check their profiles they invariably have no verifications. Can't imagine why...."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was wondering if anyone ever did say yes? I mean if they send enough messages out, maybe someone will.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few of these messages and if I'm going dogging, or say, to a club, I'll say I'm off to so and so, feel free to pop along. However, none of the ones I've messaged have wanted to do that. It is either go to their hotel room or layby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete messages like that now. I cant even be bothered to tell them to read my profile anymore as then they start a conversation and think they're in with a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception? "

I've got a hard on right now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet. Sex. Now.

You have to read that using a cave man voice.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Swinging is enjoying the company of like minded people and enjoying each other sexually. Isn't it?

The instant meet guys are looking for a free prostitute I think!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception? "

I feel the same way. Fab isn't a service for locating free hookers willing to drop everything to service any man who asks. These messages are written with the small head fully in charge and are the result of wishful thinking, I suspect.

It may happen occasionally and if you don't ask, you don't get but I can't imagine it's a common occurrence.

It can cause a lot of bitterness and resentment when these guys are turned down and ignored though because as far as they are concerned "we are all here for the same thing". That means women are supposed to be desperate and willing to shag anyone who asks and will be constantly horny and waiting for an invitation to a lay by or wherever.

It used to insult me. Now I just roll my eyes and laugh. And hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet. Sex. Now.

You have to read that using a cave man voice. "

Don't forget to band on your chest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got it spot on. I get it a lot here as there is a big oil and gas industry. I politely tell them they have the wrong website as it's not an escort site.

I have met a traveling men here on business, one contacted me 3 days before and we chatted on the phone etc and the other mailed me first thing in the morning and just wanted company in the pub for the evening.

I think some men believe I walk round ready to drop my knickers instantly and don't realise I need to prepare for a meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception? "

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

We get this a lot living in a holiday resort. Don't mind instant meets from friends that we know but that has got to suite us. Did have one character who lived 25 miles away and wanted to meet us after he had finished working localy for two hours. Not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how people feel about these.

I joined Fab because the lifestyle intrigued me and the liberation it gives meeting with like minded people is amazing.

However I do get lots of messages from people wanting an instant meet, the person being in a hotel nearby, or in his truck in a layby, or just happens to be in the area.

Personally I find these not to be swinging but people who are treating fab like dial a professional service.....or is that my misperception?

I've got a hard on right now..."

Only interested if you are in your truck in a car park in a hotel in my area right now lol x

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