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By *ickedW OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chester

I try to be nice

'Thanks but NO thanks'

Can a guy just not accept NO means NO

ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

Havn't you realised yet that us single blokes are like kids........we need it beaten into us that no means no and that if we can't get our own way then we throw a tantrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block n move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice

'Thanks but NO thanks'

Can a guy just not accept NO means NO

ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

Hence why we ignore messages from people we don't fancy.

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By *igerMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Lol try a NO in capitals it might get through!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice

'Thanks but NO thanks'

Can a guy just not accept NO means NO

ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice

'Thanks but NO thanks'

Can a guy just not accept NO means NO

ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Hence why we ignore messages from people we don't fancy. "

We only reply to meesages we are interested in for the same reason..

Cant be doing with the insults ect when you try to be nice and reply saying thanks but no thanks.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I reply with a 'No' but then I dont get into any further negotiation or correspondence about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always confused with this word "no" hmmm off to find a dictionary

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By *ickedW OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chester

Gonna have to toughen up I think...

Dont mess with me attitude maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a NO means a possible maybe?

;-)

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We just repeat the no thanks until they get bored or we do but we don't let it bother us.

You can use the block button for anyone who does bother you though, and then you don't have to get wound up.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"We just repeat the no thanks until they get bored or we do ."

hmmm your version sounds much more entertaining than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I simply delete without reading, saves the hastle. Decided that the first day on this site.

Sent a nice message saying he wasn't what I was looking for, wished him well blah, blah only to get a message back saying I was mighty picky for a fat bird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does my head in when people dispute your decision after you've said no.

I gave up replying a long time ago. Especially to those who are obviously (from my profile) not what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice

'Thanks but NO thanks'

Can a guy just not accept NO means NO

ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

My friend has the same problem,as i'm sure a lot of ladies do, and also with guys understanding these as well.

No I cannot accommodate,

Not tonight,

No I won't come out at 12.30 am to meet you,

No I won't shag you in your car,

No I don't do anal,

No I won't meet you and your mate for a first meet,

And numerous other,sometimes I am ashamed to be a guy.

Admittedly there are some nice guys out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I replied a polite thanks but no thanks to someone who was miles away from me. I then got a response to say he was only messaging me because he thought i needed a shag because i was fat and needed to loose weight. Repported, blocked and moved on. There is no reason to be rude to anyone.

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By *ickedW OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chester


"I replied a polite thanks but no thanks to someone who was miles away from me. I then got a response to say he was only messaging me because he thought i needed a shag because i was fat and needed to loose weight. Repported, blocked and moved on. There is no reason to be rude to anyone."

Good for you..

Gonna take a much firmer approach in future, tryin to be nice dont work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Admittedly there are some nice guys out there."

There really are. Ones who don't mind having to be patient so that we can le out the bad ones and ascertain which ones are really genuine and worth meeting. I've met some gems since I've been back on here.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Admittedly there are some nice guys out there.

There really are. Ones who don't mind having to be patient so that we can le out the bad ones and ascertain which ones are really genuine and worth meeting. I've met some gems since I've been back on here. "

Ditto

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