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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither your miles away

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

why dilema?

when i was meeting i rarely met for socials before play. i was only interested in the sex and i had a blast but its not an approach that suits everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you both feel.. id set up a social with options to go further

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Depends really...I tend to have socials first but sometimes I just get down to business...however I've forgot what a meet is...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No fannying about.....

Go straight for the cock

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My dilemma "

I try but always end up the latter sometimes would like a wee drink or sumat beforehand somewhere nice

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

whatever works the best for you... no right or wrong

some people like to get to know people...

others like to get down to it....

me personally, i like to get to know the people I am having fun with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to meet for a drink first but I don't rule out playing on a first meet if we both get on well.

Mind you, I've not met for such a long time I'd probably be a nervous wreak whatever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot depends on how much rapport has been built up on here.

I prefer a social meet first and if it works out then move on to have fun - either then or another time.

But

Due to limited time, distance involved then if it has felt right then I have just gone for it.

Whichever circumstances you meet under if you don't want to play when face 2 face then just say, and come away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how you both feel.. id set up a social with options to go further

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The best kind of set up x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Have always operated the same way here.

Some time spent messaging back and forwards getting to know the person a bit, a phone call, then a social meet on the understanding that social might be as far as it goes.

One or two haven't gone any further, one or two then progressed to at least a second meet, but most progressed from social to some fun on the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the op

No right or wrong way of doing it, but we like to meet in a pub or coffee place.

The reasons for that is connection and having a laugh.

Could not be nothing worse than having no connection.

At least you can walk away shake hands, no harm done lol

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even if we invite people to ours we like to have a drink and a chat before anything happens.

its kind of not real otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No fannying about.....

Go straight for the cock

Enjoy "

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By *oundGuy83Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Always nice to have a bit of drink and chat before hand if it's the first meet I find.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet for a drink and chat first, if we like each other and get along I prefer we play the same night, I see no point in walking away from someone you want to fuck to arrange to play another night, if your both there and want each other just get on with it but I will always meet in public for a drink first, I have no intentions of booking a room or going to someone's house I have never met to shag , what if you book a room and then don't like each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to meet for a drink and chat first, if we like each other and get along I prefer we play the same night, I see no point in walking away from someone you want to fuck to arrange to play another night, if your both there and want each other just get on with it but I will always meet in public for a drink first, I have no intentions of booking a room or going to someone's house I have never met to shag , what if you book a room and then don't like each other"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to meet for a drink and chat first, if we like each other and get along I prefer we play the same night, I see no point in walking away from someone you want to fuck to arrange to play another night, if your both there and want each other just get on with it"

Personally I find that sure, sometimes its nice to meet having agreed beforehand for nothing more than a social drink, but I think such meets are best for when you find one another attractive and interesting, but perhaps not in a sexual sense. If you think there is a possibility that you may be sexually attracted to each other however, then its much better to have the option of proceeding onto sex on the same meet, rather than arrange to meet up another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight down to business for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My dilemma "

I is aving a wee social first watch this space

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