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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How have you come to this conclusion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only if you allow it, I don't need validation of my bisexuality from anyone within the Swinging World. I just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it was a weakness however from what I have experienced bi women is sexy and bi men aren't. But luckily bot everyone thinks this.

Do you think its a weakness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night? "

The bottomline...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say it was a weakness however from what I have experienced bi women is sexy and bi men aren't. But luckily bot everyone thinks this.

Do you think its a weakness?"

you do see and hear quite a lot people saying they don't like bi men as they like real men, I seem to remember reading a thread on here no so long ago asking if bi men were real men, maybe that's what he means as seen as a weakness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just yet to meet a women who's embraced that side of me. normal reaction has been to freak to tell you the truth. How do you broach the subject of enjoying the occasional cock in you mouth. . Not first date conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

The bottomline...

"

its wrong, bi night should be just that, if bi men cant play together on 'normal' nights in open rooms then nor should women, I see no difference in two men and two women getting it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

it takes a real man to suck a cock

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

The bottomline...

its wrong, bi night should be just that, if bi men cant play together on 'normal' nights in open rooms then nor should women, I see no difference in two men and two women getting it on"

it is the owners choice and accepted by the masses who attend or it would be different.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

The bottomline...

its wrong, bi night should be just that, if bi men cant play together on 'normal' nights in open rooms then nor should women, I see no difference in two men and two women getting it on

it is the owners choice and accepted by the masses who attend or it would be different."

may be different rather than would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dismiss watching two men having a blow job

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

The bottomline...

its wrong, bi night should be just that, if bi men cant play together on 'normal' nights in open rooms then nor should women, I see no difference in two men and two women getting it on

it is the owners choice and accepted by the masses who attend or it would be different."

I agree

I think its down to straight men, straight men make far more of a fuss about seeing two guys playing than straight women do about seeing two women together

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

The bottomline...

its wrong, bi night should be just that, if bi men cant play together on 'normal' nights in open rooms then nor should women, I see no difference in two men and two women getting it on

it is the owners choice and accepted by the masses who attend or it would be different.

I agree

I think its down to straight men, straight men make far more of a fuss about seeing two guys playing than straight women do about seeing two women together"

I think it is 6 and 2 X 3, d*unk women in clubs are usually the cause of any angst ( from my experience and won't be the expereince of all )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

Your opinion?

I feel an even stronger man now I'm being honest with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night? "

Well we played openly as Bi in all the public spaces in our favoutie club on a naked night and no-one complained. Tbh many joined in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss

it takes a real man to suck a cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss

it takes a real man to suck a cock

"

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

There are several clubs local to me that are - reputedly - anti TV & don't want us around. That's fine, as there are several others that are extremely welcoming & are happy for bi/gay play to happen.

I don't feel any less of a person for my sexuality, i also understand that there are others who aren't that comfortable with it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I don't feel any less of a person for my sexuality, i also understand that there are others who aren't that comfortable with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call it a weakness I class it as a bonus.You get to play with cock and pussy also you can fuck and be fucked.You never wince if another mans cock touches you in a mmf situation.It clears your sinuses when a cock is rammed down the back of your throat.I get as horny as hell when I see a man naked in front of me with a massive hard on because of me wanking him.If that is classed as a weakness then I must be a complete wimp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

."

the most straight man will dip his cock in shit.

female shit though, it has an Estee Lauder fragrance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night? "

I didn't know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts."

not entirely true. Licking a pussy isn't the only thing women can do to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 08/02/14 12:50:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its more frowned upon for men to be bi

why is it men can only play together in open rooms in clubs on special bi nights that are set aside for them but its totally acceptable for two women to play together in a club any night?

I didn't know that "
neither did I, I thought this was all about having an open mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts."

I wonder if these same people would find it as distasteful for a man to dip his cock in women's shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts."

Really? Interesting conclusion to jump to. I would say I'm far more promiscuous than my bi husband if you compare the numbers we've had sex with. It's comments like that that enforce the _iew that bi men are to be avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 08/02/14 12:50:13]"

pmsl I saw it - you have a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it takes a strong person no matter what gender persuasion they are to open their minds to the pleasures of sexuality of any form, be it bi, straight, gay or the myriad of other pleasures there are available to us all to explore.

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

I've had relations with girls from many nations

I've made passes at women of all classes

And just because you're gay I won't turn you away

If you stick around I'm sure that we can find some common ground

CHORUS:

Sexuality - Strong and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

A nuclear submarine sinks off the coast of Sweden

Headlines give me headaches when I read them

I had an uncle who once played for Red Star Belgrade

He said that some things are really best left unspoken

But I prefer it all to be out in the open

Sexuality - Young and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

Sexuality - Don't threaten me with misery

Sexuality - I demand equality

I'm sure that everybody knows how much my body hates me

It lets me down most every time and makes me rash and hasty

I feel a total jerk before your naked body of work

I'm getting weighed down with all this information

Safe sex doesn't mean no sex it just means use your imagination

Stop playing with yourselves in hard currency hotels

I look like Robert De Niro

I drive a Mitsubishi Zero

Sexuality - Strong and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

Sexuality - Come eat and drink and sleep with me

Sexuality - We can be what we want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

.

the most straight man will dip his cock in shit.

female shit though, it has an Estee Lauder fragrance "

absolutely.

we all know womens shit dont stink

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Oh I much prefer a bisexual man and by no means see it as a weakness. I find it more a strength to admit in the vanilla world and I hate it whe supposedly bisexual men contact me and their profile says they are straight. If you can't admit it publicly here that in my opinion makes you a weak person. Or a sly dog that assumes I will just fuck them because they claim to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

not entirely true. Licking a pussy isn't the only thing women can do to each other "

and yet, on another thread, you said soft swing 3 somes between a single woman and a couple is all about sucking tits.

funny how conclusions can be wrong all ways isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

Really? Interesting conclusion to jump to. I would say I'm far more promiscuous than my bi husband if you compare the numbers we've had sex with. It's comments like that that enforce the _iew that bi men are to be avoided."

Tend to agree with this. I, man, have never been promiscuous. Even now we swing, it's a rare thing for me to want to fuck anyone other than my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

Wrong!

I love hot bi men.

Actually, I love hot men!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I guess those that do have variety of play and push bounderies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

not entirely true. Licking a pussy isn't the only thing women can do to each other

and yet, on another thread, you said soft swing 3 somes between a single woman and a couple is all about sucking tits.

funny how conclusions can be wrong all ways isnt it"

My comment was regarding a conversation I had with a couple who wanted soft swing and said what I wrote here. You said the most bisexual thing a woman can do is give oral. Which it isn't. Or didn't you mean that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had relations with girls from many nations

I've made passes at women of all classes

And just because you're gay I won't turn you away

If you stick around I'm sure that we can find some common ground

CHORUS:

Sexuality - Strong and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

A nuclear submarine sinks off the coast of Sweden

Headlines give me headaches when I read them

I had an uncle who once played for Red Star Belgrade

He said that some things are really best left unspoken

But I prefer it all to be out in the open

Sexuality - Young and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

Sexuality - Don't threaten me with misery

Sexuality - I demand equality

I'm sure that everybody knows how much my body hates me

It lets me down most every time and makes me rash and hasty

I feel a total jerk before your naked body of work

I'm getting weighed down with all this information

Safe sex doesn't mean no sex it just means use your imagination

Stop playing with yourselves in hard currency hotels

I look like Robert De Niro

I drive a Mitsubishi Zero

Sexuality - Strong and warm and wild and free

Sexuality - Your laws do not apply to me

Sexuality - Come eat and drink and sleep with me

Sexuality - We can be what we want to be

"

Ok mate. No need to Bragg.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi and I don't see it as a weakness. I've got a high level of emotional intelligence, confidence, self awareness and see being bi as an inner strength. I don't hide it cos I'm not ashamed of it. It's me.

And the women I meet tend to be very keen indeed on seeing me with their hubby

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in and sees what sort of biscuits we're meant to be discussing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and I don't see it as a weakness. I've got a high level of emotional intelligence, confidence, self awareness and see being bi as an inner strength. I don't hide it cos I'm not ashamed of it. It's me. "

When I told my lady I was Bi she cited similar to the above. She's always said I don't think like other men and that makes me a better and stronger person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pops in and sees what sort of biscuits we're meant to be discussing. "

the ones with pink icing on of course

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Dont see any correlation between strength or weakness and ones sexual preference..

the old cliches, limp wristed, high pitched voice etc etc were hardly an accurate description across the board..

more to do with prejudice and 'fear'..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Venus honestly. . . . . . . . . Libertarian my arse. It's exactly because the likes me you exist that makes the world revolve the wrong way. And the human species evolve the wrong way. Don't wish you ill feeling but looks like your _iews a little in the minority. Unless you happen to be russian president. Have fun in that closed world me yours

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

Is bi the new bbw?!! Every day this question gets asked, haven't people found the answer yet?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to those for takin the time to advise and direct much appreciated. . Some lovely people left on this planet. Verse too. . . Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss

Is bi the new bbw?!! Every day this question gets asked, haven't people found the answer yet?!! "

would you like a fondant fancie ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts."

that sounds like a comment from the daily mail..

not all bi men practise anal, as to the numbers who do so bareback who knows..?

one can only surmise, same as with str8 men?

as for the gay tendencies of bi men, does that include soft furnishings..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

not entirely true. Licking a pussy isn't the only thing women can do to each other "

Women also go to bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

Only by some people.

Just meet the people that understand, respect and appreciate you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the most bisexual woman will only ever be licking pussy, the same as any bloke

the most bisexual man will dip his cock in shit.

maybe thats what some find distasteful, not to mention it has been found that men with gay tendancies (as thats what bisexuality is) are more promiscuous than their straight counterparts.

not entirely true. Licking a pussy isn't the only thing women can do to each other

Women also go to bingo. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont see any correlation between strength or weakness and ones sexual preference..

the old cliches, limp wristed, high pitched voice etc etc were hardly an accurate description across the board..

more to do with prejudice and 'fear'.. "

I may have agreed a few years ago. I was a confident strong guy but with a buried secret.

Now I feel empowered somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that bisexuality in a man is seen very much as a weakness and in a woman a strength. Discuss "

Yeah, it is seen as a weakness. Most likely down to the way women are _iewed in society and how any move toward homosexuality in men is seen as feminisation.

But it's all a load of bollocks. Get your jollies how you like and don't give a shit what other people think.

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By *xcumMan
over a year ago

kidderminster

I'm bi and happy with it. Given the choice a nice tv and you have the best of both xxx

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