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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like the women who are more openly sexual with remarks and forward in their approaches?

I only ask as the general feel is women tend not to prefer this type of approach from men in messages so curious if the men like it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, why not

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

hell yes ... massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw "

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it"

would rather a hello first and a bit of a chat, test the waters before you jump in lol! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood I'm in and who sends it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too forward is a bit of a turn off for me tbh.

I like a confident women who knows what she wants (sure, jump on top) but completely forward puts me off guard I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it"

So you're talking about comments on the forums? no I very rarely flirt on the forums,people take it too seriously,I stick to being forward in private with people im interested in

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I can honestly say most of my forum posts can be a little tongue in cheek, we all like a little flirt but I am a little more laid back in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it

So you're talking about comments on the forums? no I very rarely flirt on the forums,people take it too seriously,I stick to being forward in private with people im interested in"

You're flirting with me aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it

So you're talking about comments on the forums? no I very rarely flirt on the forums,people take it too seriously,I stick to being forward in private with people im interested in"

agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it

So you're talking about comments on the forums? no I very rarely flirt on the forums,people take it too seriously,I stick to being forward in private with people im interested in"

Yeah.. ive been on here roughly 3yrs and see all kinds of approaches. Was asked the other day if women like sexual messages for first contact so just curious how men feel about sexual messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like the women who are more openly sexual with remarks and forward in their approaches?

I only ask as the general feel is women tend not to prefer this type of approach from men in messages so curious if the men like it.."

Big turn on for me as I can be quite shy at start.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyone fancy a shag??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag?? "

See i get thats tongue n cheek because of the smileys.. but would you ever be serious and ask a guy outright?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag?? "
yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag?? yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol! "

Fancy a shag?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a shag??

See i get thats tongue n cheek because of the smileys.. but would you ever be serious and ask a guy outright? "

Ermm possibly but that's after a bit of a chat...x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Shyness is nice, and shyness can stop you,

From doing all the things in life you'd like to,

So, if there's something you'd like to try,

Ask me, I won't say no, how could I?"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a shag?? yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol! "

I'm sure that you will get through it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag?? yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol!

I'm sure that you will get through it lol "

haha! I laugh but I'm crying inside! xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a shag?? yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol!

I'm sure that you will get through it lol

haha! I laugh but I'm crying inside! xx"

Aww never mind lol

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Well it is a swingers site so I expect a woman to be quite direct and not pussie-foot around!

However I like to be wined and dined, possibly with a movie or a show before a woman gets too forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a shag?? yeah but seeing as you never returned my wink last week I suspect I'm out of luck lol!

I'm sure that you will get through it lol

haha! I laugh but I'm crying inside! xx

Aww never mind lol "

it's not happening is it?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Well it is a swingers site so I expect a woman to be quite direct and not pussie-foot around!

However I like to be wined and dined, possibly with a movie or a show before a woman gets too forward! "

Will I need to bring flowers and chocolates too

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Not necessarily sexual, but they need to be direct for me to catch on.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"Well it is a swingers site so I expect a woman to be quite direct and not pussie-foot around!

However I like to be wined and dined, possibly with a movie or a show before a woman gets too forward!

Will I need to bring flowers and chocolates too "

I do have a penchant for a fragrant bouquet

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Well it is a swingers site so I expect a woman to be quite direct and not pussie-foot around!

However I like to be wined and dined, possibly with a movie or a show before a woman gets too forward!

Will I need to bring flowers and chocolates too

I do have a penchant for a fragrant bouquet "

I hear you can get a nice bunch from Lidl for £3, bargain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a place were u can get a _iew of some tight cunts iam on lidal car park lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I know a place were u can get a _iew of some tight cunts iam on lidal car park lol"

You jumping the queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id b 1st in line 4 u bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I met a woman on another site long before I knew what swinging was. She was a swinger if she was any more forward and direct she would have run me over.

I thought Christmas had come early at the time 

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Id b 1st in line 4 u bbw"

ohhh

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm probably a bit too direct sometimes but it's more in a straight, "I'm interested in meeting, might you be interested or should I stop wasting your time?" way. I'm not usually direct in a sexually overt or crass way.

Although, if someone uses the fora and I've got a not really interested feeling from them, I won't bother.

People need to be direct with me or I either don't notice or think they are joking. Again though, I prefer a straight might you be interested type approach over fancy a fuck? Usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh dont scare him silly

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Less is more in my opinion. The more public and blatant would leave me wondering, was it for the person or the masses reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to connect with a women's personality first to see if we get on in general before talking filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never be so forward (or stupid) to send a "fancy a shag" message but I have been known to make the first move if someone catches my eye.

Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yo be sent s " fancy shag message " ( sighs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prefer to connect with a women's personality first to see if we get on in general before talking filth "

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

no point messing about if you want or like something say so more time playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its done with a light heart definitely! Love your photos btw

Lol thanks

Ive read a few comments and ive thought 'woahhhhh reign it in... maneater alert'..

But guess some guys would enjoy it

So you're talking about comments on the forums? no I very rarely flirt on the forums,people take it too seriously,I stick to being forward in private with people im interested in

Yeah.. ive been on here roughly 3yrs and see all kinds of approaches. Was asked the other day if women like sexual messages for first contact so just curious how men feel about sexual messages."

Sexual messages are a massive turn off for me. Any mention makes me go cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is attractive. As long as the approach is sincere and personal as opposed to public, surely any man would consider it on it's own merits.

The bottom line is I find it hard to believe a secure bloke would feel anything other than flattered by a 'forward' approach from a women he finds physically attractive.

A forward approach from an attractive women.....come on guys, at least be honest on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of telling me what to do, I find it quite sexy but when it crosses the line and I think someone is in danger of disappearing up their own arse it then becomes a major turn off

So, telling me what she likes and what she wants me to do.......definite turn on. Telling me she is a goddess and all men are put on the earth to serve her.........definite turn off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood at the time and of course the sender.

I also suppose it would make life a little easier for us singletons to know where we stood lol.

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