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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people just send them for the sake of it, just received another one (this being the 4th) from the same person who lives 100s of miles away, never chatted to or have any desire to, why send and invite to someone you've not even said hello to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're after a peek at your privates...pics that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There Window Shopping Mally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There Window Shopping Mally "

who travels 100s of miles to window shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the want a penpal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a friend invite from a guy in Australia!!!! No message, just the invite. He could accommodate to, lucky us. Can you imagine the cost in fuel to get there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be flattered you are getting invites Mally, it means your profile is appealing.... only takes a second to delete an invite mate.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be flattered you are getting invites Mally, it means your profile is appealing.... only takes a second to delete an invite mate..... "

its appealing to the wrong sort though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There Window Shopping Mally

who travels 100s of miles to window shop? "

Women would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you are giving the wrong signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've put a note on our profile that we dont have any action pics in private, and now show our mug shots in public, and it's cut down the unsolicited friend

requests instantly.

Mind you, now everyone can see what we look like, we rarely get any contacts now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people just send them for the sake of it, just received another one (this being the 4th) from the same person who lives 100s of miles away, never chatted to or have any desire to, why send and invite to someone you've not even said hello to "

We would not accept an invite or send one unless we had had contact in some shape or form. We are quite selective and would only invite people who we are planning to meet at some point, whether for playtimes or just socially, for example if we like somebody's wit on the forums. Looking at pictures is not a priority, but of course once a friend, we do look...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually accept friends invites from people we've never spoken to if they have private pics I can't see AND their public pics show a nice cute pair of boobiekins. I see no problem with having a little perv even if they do live 300 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can you believe the same person has just sent YET ANOTHER invite, thats it, I'm hitting the block button

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By *ouise_johnMan
over a year ago

alfreton

lol we get loads from single mails

no problem just ignore and delete the ones you dont want

lifes too short to stress about it

luise xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you believe the same person has just sent YET ANOTHER invite, thats it, I'm hitting the block button "

I dont have any Friends I only know People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people just send them for the sake of it, just received another one (this being the 4th) from the same person who lives 100s of miles away, never chatted to or have any desire to, why send and invite to someone you've not even said hello to "

I presume its mainly because people want to see your private pictures. I only accept them from people i have spent time talking to.

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Our profile is hidden at the minute while we take a break but we still get friend invites... how do they have an idea of who we are with no profile?? It baffles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is hidden at the minute while we take a break but we still get friend invites... how do they have an idea of who we are with no profile?? It baffles me. "

Ignorance and stupidity. If someone hides their profile its because they do not want new contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz mally i wont send another 1 lol

yea i get the same i just delete them

i dont wanty be friends with someone

who ive no even said hi 2 xxx

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

We will be back, just got a lot of stuff going on in the family right now... and if you write that in your profile people don't read it!!! Just taking a few weeks out for a breather...

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

cos they is stoooooopid

I get it every damn day

and before anyone moans about how judgemental that statement is, they have to be stooooopid if they keep sending invites that get knocked back and they don't take the hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cos they is stoooooopid

I get it every damn day

and before anyone moans about how judgemental that statement is, they have to be stooooopid if they keep sending invites that get knocked back and they don't take the hint "

Its very easy for them to send 100 friends invites a day, possibly 200. The saying goes If you throw enough mud some of it will stick so i assume that's the mentality of these people.

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