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Standing out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This message is aimed more towards women because they get bombarded with messages ,what makes a guy stand out in a message? Is it his pics? or his actual message?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"This message is aimed more towards women because they get bombarded with messages ,what makes a guy stand out in a message? Is it his pics? or his actual message? "

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is managing your cheese!

You want plenty of cheesy, witty lines in your message, but no cheese in your picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both...

also, don't send copypasta messages...!

Take the time to read a profile and actually think whether or not you're what they're looking for too

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Also be genuine in your message. Don't give false compliments, women can spot them a mile off, and if you can't find something genuinely nice to say maybe they aren't really for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess I'm just finding it hard to sell my self in a message ,I think my next step has to be the clubs and try an find contacts there ,there's just too many single guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the Key, dont send messages theres no need, us blokes know that the women on here are gagging for we have so they will come to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you don't appear to be having too much of a problem if your verifications are right.... haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think in all the 3 years I have been on here not one woman has messaged me first lol

Yeh there veris are right lol but I guess when you have such a high sex drive ha it can be a bit of a problem ,to be honest I'm just looking for a fuck/club buddy who I can see on a regular basis ,but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack on here lol

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Like others have already mentioned OP, you have done well to get some meets lately so you must have messaged with something that has caught their attention!

I recommend you try to paraphrase something from their profile into your message to demonstrate you have read their profile.

In my opinion it's a combination of a well written message combined with whether the female likes your pic that leads to success, so both the pics and message are important.

Hope this helps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice took well and truly on bored ,thanks kidda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like others have already mentioned OP, you have done well to get some meets lately so you must have messaged with something that has caught their attention!

I recommend you try to paraphrase something from their profile into your message to demonstrate you have read their profile.

In my opinion it's a combination of a well written message combined with whether the female likes your pic that leads to success, so both the pics and message are important.

Hope this helps! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

Don't copy and paste, don't give bs compliments, and please take a minute to send a real genuine message.

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