FabSwingers.com forum: handling rejection

By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago

Meath

So why do guys have to get nasty and insulting when to tell them you are not interested???? You try to be nice and give then some feed back when they ask why and when the don't like the answer they insult you - WDF????

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"So why do guys have to get nasty and insulting when to tell them you are not interested???? You try to be nice and give then some feed back when they ask why and when the don't like the answer they insult you - WDF????

Plenty of women handle being turned down really badly too. It's not just a man thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same reason women get funny when you spurn their advances

yes some of us do turn women down onhere

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I have to say in the three plus years I have been on here, I have only had one person get abusive when I've said thanks but no thanks. Occasionally one will come back asking why then saying I don't know what I'm missing, but other than that, it's mostly been a thank you for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them to grow up, its a site for adults, not silly immature little boys!! That calms them down haha

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By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago

Meath

Well thankfully any woman I've declined had been very grownup and respectfull of my decision. Just don't get why a small group of men have to get nasty about it. At the end of the day it's my decision and if I am mannerly about it why can't they? Doesn't cost anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken egos.

I once had a man, 20+ years older than me spam

Me with insults on my phone, including 'greek tragedy' and 'do you ever get attention away from fab?' Purely because I pointed out that I don't have time to text back immediately. I let him get it all out his system then called Orange to block his number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i bet the ops had hundreds of guys take it well but it only takes 1 guy getting shitty to warrant a thread like that for some folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy....don't give feedback don't waste your time trying to be nice,say no thanks and then thats the end of it,either block or ignore any further messages,seems there are too many adults that act like kids having tantrums on here so don't allow their immaturity to affect you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've had more abuse on other sites I belong to than on here, to be honest.

When it's obviously just sour grapes I couldn't care less. It just confirms I was right to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an adult site and single guys need to grow up. I suspect there is an element of continual rejection from women for many guys. A reality check is the women can be VERY choosy as there are so many to choose from. Accept if it's a no and move on. I find clubs best place to meet and invites to play follow. Get real guys.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This has been done to death.

Report if needed and block.

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