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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did the person who found out react ?

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

I'd keep it shut. I don't believe anyone has the right to out/mention/discuss anyone's private life without there knowledge ......I'm sure you guys will be the victors rise above these people.

All the best to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did the person who found out react ?"

We just denied all knowledge and deleted all proof and has kept away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did."

We don't care what people think, as to outing people. Neither myself or Paula would out anyone.

I can understand people being worried about being found by family etc, but we just don't care.

Either they like it or at the minimum keep their mouths shut and their opinions to themselves or quite simply they can fuck off , and when they get there , they can fuck of from there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think. "

We think that your so called "friends" must be timewasters anyway , anyone that is actually on the scene for real would never OUT anyone surely ? As a previous post read, Rise above it as they are probably envious anyway. Good Luck xx

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did.

We don't care what people think, as to outing people. Neither myself or Paula would out anyone.

I can understand people being worried about being found by family etc, but we just don't care.

Either they like it or at the minimum keep their mouths shut and their opinions to themselves or quite simply they can fuck off , and when they get there , they can fuck of from there as well "

Respect to the double "fuck off"

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs


"We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think. "

Yes discretion is the Number 1 rule (well in our book anyway) but never assume that all people are like that on here. we've heard /kmow of some real horror stories along the way . I think the worst was a really nice couple we got talking to at a club, they seemed nervous. They explained that someone /or more had lifted most of their photographs off the site made up a leaflet saying they were dirty disgusting wife swappers with the pics on it and posted them all down their street. like you they had an idea who it may be , but as one of the previous posters said they just kept their head up and got on with life , as you can imagine they went through a terrible time but they came through, There are some real shits out there unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did."
exactly this ^ and my grown up children are the only family I have and they took it exceptionaly well when I pointed out that after being divorced for over 15 years, my occasional discreet visit to swingers club to fulfil my needs was much better than having a string of partners paraded through their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did.exactly this ^ and my grown up children are the only family I have and they took it exceptionaly well when I pointed out that after being divorced for over 15 years, my occasional discreet visit to swingers club to fulfil my needs was much better than having a string of partners paraded through their lives "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think. "

There are always risks. We won't play with anyone within so many miles radius, for that very reason. Always very cagey about giving too many details to anyone..

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By *FlackoxCouple
over a year ago

London


"My ex outed me to a lot of people, pissed at first, now I couldn't give a flying fuck... If they don't like fuck em.

That might not work with family, but I just told them before anyone else did.exactly this ^ and my grown up children are the only family I have and they took it exceptionaly well when I pointed out that after being divorced for over 15 years, my occasional discreet visit to swingers club to fulfil my needs was much better than having a string of partners paraded through their lives "

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think. "

That is disgusting, it is totally outrageous and the only reason for doing it in my opinion, was to do you real harm.

I can honestly say that if someone I know did that to me by the time I was finished with them they would never open their mouth ever again!

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

Pretty much most people know anyhoot, not about this site persay, just I swing a lot, and go clubs ect, me brother even asked me to take him to a club!! That should be a written rule 'no taking family members to clubs' (I haven't taken him)

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


"We recently had our profile "outed" to someone we knew. We are yet to confirm the couple that did this as we wanted to let the situation die down first. Surley everyone knows to keep their mouth shut, or so you would think.

There are always risks. We won't play with anyone within so many miles radius, for that very reason. Always very cagey about giving too many details to anyone.."

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