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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

coz when a man has shot his load he has no interest in anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because of this,

man cums = sleepy time zzzzzzz

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

What's up? Did he get his check list out and tick off each action he performed on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

coz when a man has shot his load he has no interest in anything else

When I cum all I want to do is sleep too but I don't, as I'm not that selfish.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I think it's because of this,

man cums = sleepy time zzzzzzz

Same for us ladies.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

What's up? Did he get his check list out and tick off each action he performed on you?

Luckily, I don't meet men like that; I was referring to the generalisation I see here and talking to people I know.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your pics, and demeanour, you'd have to be pretty quick to beat me, if ever we should meet.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can't we just get naked and have fun?

Ha. Chance'd be a fine thing!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Oh I like ladies first and second and third then he can when I'm satisfied and we we ca then ZZzzzz together. Then wake up and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed!

It takes a while for me to orgasm, so when a guy decides that I have to cum first (or repeatedly) and then watching him get frustrated that even though I'm enjoying myself I'm not orgasming, puts so much pressure on to me that I stop enjoying myself and therefore, don't orgasm most of the time.

Giant humph!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Judging by your pics, and demeanour, you'd have to be pretty quick to beat me, if ever we should meet.

*Giggling*

Make sure you're wearing black trousers then, otherwise as you leave Starbucks, the stains will show.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I couldn't care less as long as where both having fun

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Agreed!

Giant humph!

There you go, exactly what I was talking about.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Can't we just get naked and have fun?

Ha. Chance'd be a fine thing!

Ooo you saucy minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your pics, and demeanour, you'd have to be pretty quick to beat me, if ever we should meet.

*Giggling*

Make sure you're wearing black trousers then, otherwise as you leave Starbucks, the stains will show. "

On a bad day they may be showing as i enter Starbucks. Ahh, the joys of being single and miles from my mum.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties. "

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I couldn't care less as long as where both having fun

Lots and lots of naked fun with no race to the finish. Perfect.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can't we just get naked and have fun?

Ha. Chance'd be a fine thing!

Ooo you saucy minx!"

Moi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i think all this stuff about a Female orgasm is an urban Myth..ive never seen it so it cant happen

hairtrigger Harry

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe because cumming too soon is something that's happened to a good number of guys in their lives, and it can be bloody emabarassing?

Plus many women Ive been with will happily cum multiple times in a session; I can prob manage 2 at my age

I appreciate it must be frustrating if you're not one of those women. But if you want the guy to orgasm why not look him in the eye and tell him you want his cum? Works for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is a perfect recipe for a weekend of pure filth.

..it's been a while. I'm starting my hunt now lol

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect. "

Lucky enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

Man alive, what next, the vote??

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough? "

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect. "

It's Valentines Night shortly. I'll have a good chuckle with yer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it surprising people seeking one cum FFS!-I want multiple shags on a meet..even if it is just with one person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find it surprising people seeking one cum FFS!-I want multiple shags on a meet..even if it is just with one person"

THIS^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough?

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't. "

yes it IS...just depends how slack u wanna be with ur preferences lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough?

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't. "

Typical teasing woman, making it much harder than it should be.

Any other guys experience the symptom when it's too "hard" to cum?

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

"Personally i think all this stuff about a Female orgasm is an urban Myth..ive never seen it so it cant happen

hairtrigger Harry

I second this

Quick draw Magraw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe because cumming too soon is something that's happened to a good number of guys in their lives, and it can be bloody emabarassing?

Plus many women Ive been with will happily cum multiple times in a session; I can prob manage 2 at my age

I appreciate it must be frustrating if you're not one of those women. But if you want the guy to orgasm why not look him in the eye and tell him you want his cum? Works for me..."

How many guys you been with?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough?

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't. "

Ahhh, the organising, not the volunteers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

coz when a man has shot his load he has no interest in anything else

to a Tee

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bugger 40 years of being over considerate, i suppose its wrong to try and give a women more than one climax.

depressed of preston

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

I've loved your posts and attitude since I came to the forums.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if i cum ... just be patient ... im sure theres another one in the barrel eventually

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"bugger 40 years of being over considerate, i suppose its wrong to try and give a women more than one climax.

depressed of preston

Too much porn for you me laddio. Not all women cum and some only manage one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

Easier to just have multiple wanks.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough?

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't.

Ahhh, the organising, not the volunteers. "

Of course it is. SOME people may be satisfied with an "any hole's a goal" attitude but others prefer quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it Spunk Out Guilt In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i have been lucky or skillful then as I believe all my partners have faked at least one climax lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

I've loved your posts and attitude since I came to the forums."

u just made me spill spunk all over myself!..OOPS, I meant coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because once he's cum he's done.... So he cums first = me not cumming... And he's also a gentleman and lets me cum first!

I can honestly say that every time we've had sex I've cum more than once!

Guess I'm just lucky to have such a generous partner!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Are you trying to say that the golden rule of 'ladies first doesn't apply'?

Yes Pops, I am. Knowing that a man won't cum until a woman does, puts pressure on both parties.

Have to say I've never heard a woman say that. I suggest you don't give the fella who's put you in such a bad mood a second chance

The last time I was lucky enough to have sex, was on NYE, my birthday and that particular 24 hour joy was purely perfect.

Lucky enough?

Yep. Contrary to popular belief that it's bloody easy for a single woman to arrange meets, it simply isn't.

Ahhh, the organising, not the volunteers.

Of course it is. SOME people may be satisfied with an "any hole's a goal" attitude but others prefer quality. "

In this context you mean "any cock will do", don't you?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't care of he does cum first cos I know he won't just roll over and sleep. He always makes sure I'm well satisfied

For the record I can't think of a time when he has cum first apart from blowjobs in front of the tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's because of this,

man cums = sleepy time zzzzzzz

Same for us ladies. "

Really??? I've never got that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to come last. Because, just like my man, I like to have mad passionate sex. Come, cuddle and fall asleep. But he always seems to end up doing it mainly. Its not fair!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed!

Giant humph!

There you go, exactly what I was talking about. "

Next time a guy does it I'm just going to pull faces and look annoyed when I rush his blowjob and he doesn't cum within a 2 minutes!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

There's been a few comments suggesting that once a man has cum hes is good for nothing. Really, I mean REALLY? All those men please stand up so I may avoid meeting you because if you have cum and can't be arsed to find out if I would like a bit of help cumming or if I'm happy to snooze, then jog on. After all, it's what you use women for isn't it? Make her cum then climb on board to get your rocks off even if she wants to sleep? Have I got that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's been a few comments suggesting that once a man has cum hes is good for nothing. Really, I mean REALLY? All those men please stand up so I may avoid meeting you because if you have cum and can't be arsed to find out if I would like a bit of help cumming or if I'm happy to snooze, then jog on. After all, it's what you use women for isn't it? Make her cum then climb on board to get your rocks off even if she wants to sleep? Have I got that right?"

I tend to get the rise after I've came if I get to lick

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I always find it surprising people seeking one cum FFS!-I want multiple shags on a meet..even if it is just with one person

THIS^

Ditto

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I could give u all u need and more pmsl

heehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this obsession with making sure a woman cums first? Do you guys have any idea how stressful and unnecessary that is?

Can't we just get naked and have fun?

i say lets get naked have lots of fun and cum together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

All the above, mandatory meet requirements for sure!!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Can't we just get naked and have fun?

Ha. Chance'd be a fine thing!

Ooo you saucy minx!

Moi?

You don't fool me with that innocent face and quiet demeanour, I recognise that feline guile under those lashes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality, how important is the orgasm?

Plenty of good fun can be had without such a result. In some respects, ie falling asleep (not that i ever would, oh no Zzzz) it may be said to spoil the fun.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

In reality, how important is the orgasm?

Plenty of good fun can be had without such a result. In some respects, ie falling asleep (not that i ever would, oh no Zzzz) it may be said to spoil the fun."

Good question Mr Bollocks.

Bloody wonderful as it is and I'm just as up for that quick, frantic shag that culminates in an explosive orgasm as the next horny woman but when it comes to all things naked, I prefer a long session, to-ing and fro-ing in a natural, organic way as I simply loves bodies and their reaction to what we do with them. I certainly wouldn't be offended if the man I was with came and then dozed off as I know the men I meet wouldn't feel guilty and we will start all over again after a bit of a rest.

We put so much pressure on ourselves to 'perform' I think we have forgotten the sheer pleasure of just being.

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By *razilnutsMan
over a year ago

York

IMO, if the sex was good, both partners will be satisfied and wanting a cuddle and zzzzz. Cumming is not mandatory for either. Or shouldn't be...

There's a lot more to it than cumming!

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By *razilnutsMan
over a year ago

York

In reality, how important is the orgasm?

Plenty of good fun can be had without such a result. In some respects, ie falling asleep (not that i ever would, oh no Zzzz) it may be said to spoil the fun.

Good question Mr Bollocks.

We put so much pressure on ourselves to 'perform' I think we have forgotten the sheer pleasure of just being."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I quite agree, I couldn't give a monkeys if I come first or at all, don't get me wrong its great if I do, but I just wanna enjoy it, no pressure, lots of smiles and mutual pleasure. just laying there trying to get me to come could take a while!! ha, lets do something else!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"oh I quite agree, I couldn't give a monkeys if I come first or at all, don't get me wrong its great if I do, but I just wanna enjoy it, no pressure, lots of smiles and mutual pleasure. just laying there trying to get me to come could take a while!! ha, lets do something else!"

Bloody happy to see that you and Brazilnuts gets it.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

All this talk of cumming is making me sleepy.

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By *razilnutsMan
over a year ago

York

Sensual body contact is too often neglected in favour of sexual intercourse.

I want both!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Sensual body contact is too often neglected in favour of sexual intercourse.

I want both!

Yes please, me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame womens mags.

But seriously, some guys make the woman cum first because some women moan that the guy came first and that's just bad.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I blame womens mags.

But seriously, some guys make the woman cum first because some women moan that the guy came first and that's just bad. "

If both parties are doing something to stop the other one complaining, isn't that called marriage?

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Oh, I don't read womens magazines, full of nasty crap. I make up my own mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Premature Ejaculation The Movie, coming soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame womens mags.

But seriously, some guys make the woman cum first because some women moan that the guy came first and that's just bad.

If both parties are doing something to stop the other one complaining, isn't that called marriage?"

Not quite, it's called Marriage : The Early Years.

After a while it becomes Fuck you - and doesnt lead to mutual orgasm.

So i believe, i may be biased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally i think all this stuff about a Female orgasm is an urban Myth..ive never seen it so it cant happen

hairtrigger Harry

Yer x that why I didn't have my first orgasm til we started swinging x what a waste ......no myth x just some men are clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you really control who cums first? Wouldn't that depend how turned on each one of you is?

I personally thought the lust and desire would dictate all that - or it might be just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest After reading your posts I am the one who would avoid to meet you. Do you really think all we men are going to answer your call and line up so you can chose?! You have been lucky to meet with men who are so thoughtful and not selfish to play with you for a long time and avoid coming quick so.you can enjoy yourself and have plenty of time and chances to come because once a man come he is week on the knees and needs a break. Women and men are different physically. Once you have come all you need to do is open your legs and let him do the hard work to satisfy himself. Once he's come, what are you going to do with a flppy cock?!!! Some women will moan nomatter what you do for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less as long as where both having fun

Lots and lots of naked fun with no race to the finish. Perfect. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh you charmer!

Out of interest, how do you know how a woman feels after she's come? She may feel tired too.

As for him having a floppy cock, he's still got fingers and a tongue. Why it is less reasonable to expect him to use those than to expect the woman to lay there with her legs spread, so he can finish, even if she doesn't want to?

I'm

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over a year ago

If she feels tired after she has come. It's usually we men who do most of the physical job. Fact. So if after she comes she says to him enough I am tired knowing he hasn't come yet and she did that makes her a very selfish woman and I won't stay or meet again with a woman like that. We men also have preferences and prefer quality over quantity.

About the floppy cock... I am not saying cock is everything in a sex encounter I like to build up the pleasure and avoid coming quick and thats the thoughtful more pleasurable way for both. It prolongues the play the pleasure and for me personally it makes my orgasm more intense. When I say play that involves all sorts of play. kissing, touching looking into the eyes, fingering giving and receiving oral and the list goes on. A woman can come through that before I do or just enjoy it without managing to come. Many women don't mind not to clymax but the enjoy the whole play. A man will go frustrated if after all that build he does shoot.

About the charming comment. I do.'t need to be charming to everywoman on fab. Only those I like. I don't expect a woman to be sweet with every man in here either.

I give my honest opinion regardless of what sex she is. If its negative than we men are baving that negativity all the time and not complaining.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If she feels tired after she has come. It's usually we men who do most of the physical job. Fact. So if after she comes she says to him enough I am tired knowing he hasn't come yet and she did that makes her a very selfish woman and I won't stay or meet again with a woman like that. We men also have preferences and prefer quality over quantity.

About the charming comment. I do.'t need to be charming to everywoman on fab. Only those I like. I don't expect a woman to be sweet with every man in here either.

I give my honest opinion regardless of what sex she is. If its negative than we men are baving that negativity all the time and not complaining.

You seem to have a very twisted idea of what men are entitled to and what women should do.

It's no more selfish to expect a woman to carry on once she's finished if she doesn't want to than it is to expect a man to carry on once he's shot his bolt.

As for men have to cum or they get frustrated but it's ok if women don't...

I *love* that you're bandying the word selfish about in relation to women!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I had one of my first meets from a 'dating' site a few weeks ago..she wanted me to cum,,,,basically in 3minutes of shagging...fuck sake!

On an meet..I want oral(both ways)

wanking,fingering

fucking

ONE cum?-fuck that..might as well have a fucking wank and not bother with the meet

Totally agree.

Anyone that can only go one round and is then out for the count, isn't worth bothering with!

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over a year ago

I am not quoting cause my app doesn't support long posts...

I have never ever left a woman straight away after I have come. I know women don't like the feeling of losing attention after the man has come. I am just saying that in most cases the man needs a break before he could get a hard on again. A break could be cuddling, kissing or any other sort of play. However if she is really horny after I've and I sense that ofcourse I will do everything I can to please her. I love to please. I said selfish in answer what you have suggested that she says am tired and stop the play when he basn't come yet. I don't expect the same things from a woman as she expects from me. We are equal in value values but different physically and mentally. The analogy of the same expectations is the cause of failure of most relationships nowadays. Compatibility and completing each other is the natural way instead in my book. 2 ++ wont make an electric current but a short circuit.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We are equal in value values but different physically and mentally."

You are writing as though all women are the same as each other, and all men are analogous! It's not so.

Using "physically and mentally different" to justify your expectations and attitudes is ridiculous.

As is the bit about knowing women don't like to lose attention after the man has come.

One of my friends is quite happy for the bloke to turn up, fuck her and fuck off, as long as she's left sated.

Just because a man can't get hard immediately again doesn't mean he can't carry on. The excuse that he'll be all weak and tired is bollocks. That's usually male selfishness, he's satisfied so he can't be arsed to make any more effort.

Expecting a woman to carry on once she's satisfied is different though, because she doesn't have to make the effort? Have you even considered that once they've come some women are over-sensitised and don't like being touched for a little while?

Sometimes women need a break when they've come too.

Sheesh.

Mental and physical differences, my arse.

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over a year ago

You are being very agressive and choice of words and attitude is rude. I am happy to support my point of view in healthy reslectful debate but not like this. You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine. You are putting words I haven't said in my mouth too. Your friend doesn't represent the masses and when I say men and women are different thats a biological and psychological fact. It doesn't in any way mean that women are all the same or men are all the same. When I say women don't like this or that I am speaking from my own experience. If I come across a woman like your friend I won't give her the chance to tell me fuck off because I don't do women like her in the first place and I don't do quickies. Just not for me. take care.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

You don't 'do' women like me?

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't 'do' women like me?

Wow. "

Lol. Whats so WAW about it?!! Do you think you are the standard type of every man?!!

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"You don't 'do' women like me?

Wow.

Lol. Whats so WAW about it?!! Do you think you are the standard type of every man?!!

Your determination to miss the whole point of the thread is admirable.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You are being very agressive and choice of words and attitude is rude. I am happy to support my point of view in healthy reslectful debate but not like this. You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine. You are putting words I haven't said in my mouth too. Your friend doesn't represent the masses and when I say men and women are different thats a biological and psychological fact. It doesn't in any way mean that women are all the same or men are all the same. When I say women don't like this or that I am speaking from my own experience. If I come across a woman like your friend I won't give her the chance to tell me fuck off because I don't do women like her in the first place and I don't do quickies. Just not for me. take care.

Haha! I'm being rude... class!

You may be speaking from your experience but you are also speaking as if your experience is completely representative of the world and everyone in it.

Having been told it's not, you're not listening or thinking about what's being said, you're stubbornly labouring that this is how sex is, and how it should be. According to YOU. And only you, if you read the rest of the thread.

I think my friend would be very glad not to have to tell you to fuck off, since you clearly don't understand that not everybody wants the same thing, and that some women do not want, and will not be eternally grateful for you playing with them for as long as you feel like and then expecting them to lay there and finish off and then rest because you can no longer be bothered.

You've completely missed the point of this entire thread.

This is the 21st century and women can choose to want different things when it comes to sex than what a man decides they should want.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You don't 'do' women like me?

Wow.

Lol. Whats so WAW about it?!! Do you think you are the standard type of every man?!!

You seem to think your way and your experiences are the standard, actually.

What Topsy is saying is that there are women out there who don't like sex the way you think they should.

You seem a bit set in your ways tbh.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"To be honest After reading your posts I am the one who would avoid to meet you. Do you really think all we men are going to answer your call and line up so you can chose?! "

Now, tell me, who was it that was being rude?

"You have been lucky to meet with men who are so thoughtful and not selfish to play with you for a long time and avoid coming quick so.you can enjoy yourself and have plenty of time and chances to come..."

Having said that she doesn't enjoy play this way, what the hell is lucky about meeting men who insist this is how sex should be?

You seem to think women should be grateful for this, even if it's not what they want, because you think it's what they *should* want.

How about listening to the woman and going for mutual satisfaction rather than just deciding what she wants and expecting her to be grateful???

"Some women will moan nomatter what you do for them. "

Now, what was it you were saying about being rude?

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