FabSwingers.com forum: Quick question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all

Do you lady's like dirty first contact or cheesy or nice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

polite and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is the answer cheesy mice?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"polite and respectful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and polite for me. Dirty gets deleted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and something to show they have bothered to read profile is always a good start

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

it used to depend on my mood....if i was horny and the right person messaged me in a dirty way i may have bitten.

What i dont like is someone taking to me as if they own me, telling me what i am going to do etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's great thanks for the advice suppose all are different xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree respect gets you everywhere x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheeky good x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Mirth works for me.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Polite and something to show they have bothered to read profile is always a good start "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always read profiles and take on bored xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Respect should be dripping from everything you touch, including first emails. It is important to get a sense of who you are as well as what youre interested in too. It is also good to know why someone has selected me, rather than sending spam mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mirth works for me.

I read that as girth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human and with a pulse will do.....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Polite, interesting and written in actual English please.

I'm more likely to reply to someone who gives me something to reply to, rather than just 'hi?' (er, hello), 'how are you?' (you don't really want to know so I'll go with a polite 'fine thanks'. I won't ask 'and you?' because I don't want to know!) or 'do you want to chat?' (start a conversation and I'll see).

That's assuming the person sending the message fits what I'm looking for. Messages from smokers, "curvy" men, people with no public photos (who haven't sent one), people with no profile or a profile in textspeak or really bad English are deleted without being read. Crass and crude messages are deleted without reply and the sender blocked.

Anyone messaging having been told no thanks is blocked.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

[Removed by poster at 04/02/14 03:28:19]

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh and messages from cock avatars often get deleted unread too. It's very, very rare for me to reply to a message from someone with a cock avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt post a picture of my cock as an avatar, unless i was in a fun house with a mirror that my cock looks, unbelievably large in, as zoom normally gives away the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respectful with a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice and polite for me. Dirty gets deleted!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's dirty or cheesy I ask them to go and wash it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all

Do you lady's like dirty first contact or cheesy or nice?? "

Polite or u get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite and something to show they have bothered to read profile is always a good start "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks again but I can't put a face photo on till I know the person as I don't want my family / friends knowing my buisness and before you say yes my partner dose know I'm on here so other then face what do I put?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Thanks again but I can't put a face photo on till I know the person as I don't want my family / friends knowing my buisness and before you say yes my partner dose know I'm on here so other then face what do I put? "
a nice torso shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respectful with a sense of humour."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Do you have only a face and a cock? To me this shows a lack of imagination.

And as above, a torso or bum pic is nicer than a cock as an avatar. I'm far more interested in the build and body of potential meets than their cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Super star thanks for that will change it today ............. Watch this space hahaha xx

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

Women like first contact?? That's funny they Seem to just come on here moaning that guys have sent them messages all the time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is the answer cheesy mice?

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you won't trap me with that one

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Nice polite and respectful with a little cheeky banter

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Women like first contact?? That's funny they Seem to just come on here moaning that guys have sent them messages all the time!!"

Whereas you'd never be seen moaning on here

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

My single bi fem profiles like it dirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Women like first contact?? That's funny they Seem to just come on here moaning that guys have sent them messages all the time!!"

While I am sure this was posted to ruffle some feathers. I agree that there is some truth to it, if you change it to some women moan.....

OP - Crude first messages we delete... As long as the message is not a one liner and is polite and shows our profile has been read, we will reply, even if it's only a thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all

Do you lady's like dirty first contact or cheesy or nice?? "

Personally a little manners but read someone's profile first to get a feeling for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not intending to ruffle anyone's feathers just asking a question that people have been happy to help

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

If I see Smouldering in their eyes....I'm going to melt for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried all of the above ...starting to think maybe im a loser haha

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