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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You discover your significant other has been meeting a couple for some balls-deep action whilst you thought they were out at work. Do you:

a) Congratulate them on not coming home with jizz on their work clothes.

b) Check the dates on their condom stash to see how many they have used.

c) Do nothing because you're scared of losing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a

and ask why wasnt i invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

d) go and kick their guide dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you asking for a 'mate'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D: Smear a cut up Scotch Bonnet chilli on their genitals while they sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

end the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"D: Smear a cut up Scotch Bonnet chilli on their genitals while they sleep."

This

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Chop his balls off. Our relationship is built on trust and if can't tell me he's having a meet I'd be less than pleased

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Polo! Where ya been?

My answer is, if we weren't in an agreed open relationship I'd kick them in the genitals and dump them.

If we were in an open relationship, I'd kick them in the genitals for lying to me and seriously consider dumping them.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"[Removed by poster at 03/02/14 14:48:36]"

I thought twice was a bit excessive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get my bag ready and fly of to the sun for 2 weeks with a friend. Can both have fun that way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if its vanilla or swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E

Why wasn't I invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chop his balls off. Our relationship is built on trust and if can't tell me he's having a meet I'd be less than pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kick him into touch, immediately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing.....what he imagines I'd do would be far worse than anything I would do. He'll spend forever wondering when and how......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?"

really? why would it matter?

sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."

if the question was aimed at me, any significant other would be male as im straight

you'd answer the question as if it was a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?

really? why would it matter?

sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless"

doesnt mention cheating chick!

never assume x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."

I was going to ask that too but decided it was because it was women answering the "your partner" bit of the question and they don't have or consider having female partners.

My response is d) talk to them about it before deciding on any action.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details

I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?

really? why would it matter?

sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless

doesnt mention cheating chick!

never assume x"

if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)

id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."
because she said balls deep, don't know many women with those kind of balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?

really? why would it matter?

sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless

doesnt mention cheating chick!

never assume x

if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)

id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying "

I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details

I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar"

Good way of putting it.

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ? Friedrich Nietzsche

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?

really? why would it matter?

sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless

doesnt mention cheating chick!

never assume x

if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)

id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying

I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?"

It would to me. In an open relationship there should be no reason to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?

"

absolutely.. its so open that a significant other couldnt tell me he was meeting someone else..

id be pissed off for sure, so in my eyes its cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

open relationship can meet when they wish to

that's how i have always saw it

but what do i know ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"open relationship can meet when they wish to

that's how i have always saw it

but what do i know ha

"

well if that works for you

but if i were to have an open relationship there would still be communication between myself and my partner and id not do anything without telling him first, and id expect the same in return.

If your in a relationship when you play ignorant to each others sexual ventures and it works fair play..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hence why im single

and happily being single and having fun

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"depends if its vanilla or swinging?"

Doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"D: Smear a cut up Scotch Bonnet chilli on their genitals while they sleep."

That is a bit harsh and to easy to get caught out rub it on toothbrush instead lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

D) take a Dettol wipe and clean the orifice, fold her up and put back in the box.

cheeky little bitch she is playing away.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It is what it is....Id just think Fuck it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D - I'd end the relationship. Whether it was an open relationship or not, the fact sneaking around is a no no imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."

assuming the ladies that commented are straight I would assume their other half was male. Am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple..because she said balls deep, don't know many women with those kind of balls

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"open relationship can meet when they wish to

that's how i have always saw it

but what do i know ha

well if that works for you

but if i were to have an open relationship there would still be communication between myself and my partner and id not do anything without telling him first, and id expect the same in return.

If your in a relationship when you play ignorant to each others sexual ventures and it works fair play.. "

I'd go with that too. An open relationship is still a relationship. I would expect my partner to tell me when and where he was meeting and I would do the same for him. An open relationship doesn't mean you carry on as if you are single. You'd just be fuck buddies if that was the case.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"D: Smear a cut up Scotch Bonnet chilli on their genitals while they sleep."

Jodie... I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get on line and arrange my own private meets without him. What's good for one, is good for another...

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" An open relationship doesn't mean you carry on as if you are single. "

To some it does.

But anyway... shall I put you down as an a, b or c?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an a

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Would anyone admit to c?

Not sure what I would do but I don't think a,b,c would be applicable.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" An open relationship doesn't mean you carry on as if you are single.

To some it does.

But anyway... shall I put you down as an a, b or c?"

Can I say a but add a revenge clause?

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"You discover your significant other has been meeting a couple for some balls-deep action whilst you thought they were out at work. Do you:

a) Congratulate them on not coming home with jizz on their work clothes.

b) Check the dates on their condom stash to see how many they have used.

c) Do nothing because you're scared of losing them."

I had this very same thing. However he didn'tuse our couples profile but used a seperate single profile. We are now split because of it. Lying and cheating is the same no matter how you split it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D like most people would if they are honest. Takes a lot to walk away just like that and most cant so they pretend its not true.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details

I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar

Good way of putting it.

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ? Friedrich Nietzsche"

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

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