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"If someone has'nt taken the time to read your profile why are you taking the time to respond? Just ignore messages its simple and stress free ![]() Too polite for my own good and even if they haven't read my profile, I read theirs and reply politely. It's how I choose to use the site and I'm usually happy with it. Think it must be that time of the month, you know when everyone gets on your last nerve. I'm off to eat chocolate & watch chick flicks till the mood passes! | |||
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"It's easy, no need for filters at all! Just delete everything off your 'looking for' list and you won't show up on searches. People on the forum might still mail. I have no problems at all with unwanted mail. I get one now and then but that's fine. Chilled. ![]() ![]() Actually I was off doing this, hiding all my pics and stripping my profile down. As I said it doesn't usually get to me, but just over the weekend it's slightly wound me up. | |||
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"If you aren't meeting set your filters to stop people messaging you." As I said, I don't want to do that as it also prevents people replying privately to forum posts, which I don't want to stop. | |||
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"Can you not just block " I do after I've replied to say no thanks, however that doesn't stop people messaging you. | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() I'm far from hot under the collar, I'm just slightly annoyed. I know it's just a message on a website and as I've said normally it really doesn't bother me, but for some reason it's annoyed me this weekend that people just can't be bothered to read your profile. I felt the need to express my slight frustration on a forum, strangely enough I'm allowed to do that. Anyway, I've taken some advice, replied to some saying why I choose not to take it some of the other advice and as I'm not on here that much I'm already less bothered by it because I shared my frustrations. Take care everyone & happy swinging ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() If it was only a message. Often its hundreds of messages. Slight difference | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can you not just block I do after I've replied to say no thanks, however that doesn't stop people messaging you." ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() At this moment there are 145 unopened messages in our inbox, most of which will be deleted without being opened because the law of averages tell us that most of them won't be what we are looking for. 1 message or 100 - makes no odds to us - 1 click of a button and they're gone without any need to rant ... ![]() | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() ![]() And that's how you choose to use the site, I choose to use it differently and I don't use the mass delete option and I like to reply to every message I'm sent. I don't want anyone to agree with what I'm doing, I just needed to vent slight frustration I was feeling. I thank everyone for their advice, some I've taken, some I won't as it doesn't fit in with how I want to use the site. Advice is given time and again that you need to put info in your profile, yet it felt this weekend that no-one was bothering to read it or thought it didn't apply to them....hence the slight frustration. I'm over the frustration now, but it doesn't mean I'll never be frustrated at this site again and when I am, I may just post about it! | |||
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" And that's how you choose to use the site, I choose to use it differently and I don't use the mass delete option and I like to reply to every message I'm sent. " You obviously don't "like to reply to every message" that much... or you wouldn't have needed to vent. ![]() | |||
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"I did an experiment a while ago. I had just 3 dots as my profile text, only my shoe pic, and put everything back on my 'looking for' list so I showed up on all the searches. I got tons of mail, some saying what a cool profile I had. Some people will mail a shoe with no profile. It made me giggle. Hope you feel better OP. Nowt wrong with a good rant. x" But its a nice Shoe ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can you not just block I do after I've replied to say no thanks, however that doesn't stop people messaging you." If you really do block them after you've replied no thanks then they wouldn't be able to reply calling you a timewaster and that you shouldn't be on here! ![]() | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() This ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I really don't understand how people can get so hot under the collar. It's only a message on a website, it's not as though they've all been knocking on your door at home .... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I even ignore people who knock on the door. Anyone I actually want to see will always call/text first! | |||
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"I don't have this problem at all but then i never get messages ![]() ![]() All together now, awwwwwwww! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Can you not just block I do after I've replied to say no thanks, however that doesn't stop people messaging you. If you really do block them after you've replied no thanks then they wouldn't be able to reply calling you a timewaster and that you shouldn't be on here! ![]() I reply saying no thank you, I wait a short time after the no thanks message is read, then I block, some people reply, some don't, all get blocked. | |||
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