FabSwingers.com forum: Sex site.....

By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Just a general question....Do you see this site as a sex site, because I don't but the amount of abusive messages I receive says I am in the minority, would be good to know others _iews I like to _iew it as a social site with opportunity.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well .. predominantly it is but I don't use it as such

Its a social thing for me

Ive had abusive messages because I wasn't openly saying ' come fuck me Im open to anything' on my profile - but bollocks to them .. Ill use this as I wish to

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm with you on this, I like to get to know folk before I shag

And I like the social side

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's whatever you want it to be. Some people are on here just for the social side, as we're all such great peeps and not just the chosen ones. Some are here to try and shag everything. A lot are somewhere inbetween. Where I sit depends on how hot the person is who wants to meet me

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I have to agree with you all..each to their own but I prefer the social side first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a social site where some yummy benefits can sometimes be found, although seem to have more friends socially on here, than feck book.

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By *oudnproudWoman
over a year ago

penrith

I like the social side more than anything.. the talking and the making of friends and i have made many in the 4 yrs ive been on n off here

the sex is an added enjoyable bonus.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Its a sex site, which has progressed socially . Doesnt mean you cant be fussy , choosy, or what standards you choose to have or not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When I'm not having sex, I see it as a social site for people with mutual interests with possibilities for sex. When I'm having sex I don't think about the site at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site.. A lifestyle choice with like-minded people...

Some of us openly have thoughts towards sexual subjects... The ultimate "friends" with benefits...

Make of us what you will...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether I am right or wrong to say this to people... I say fab swingers/sex site.. Iv only just got into the social side if it so I'm happy to use it for both, as and when I want to.

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, I am sick and tired of all the abuse I receive because I wont just spread my legs for anyone, I just wish the site made it clearer! Hey ho, seems I'll just have to put up with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I value the social aspect of the site, but have no particular desire to use it for that specifically. To me, you're supposed to chat to people, exchange mails, participate in discussions on here etc in order to better establish those you like and have things in common with, personally once I've found someone like that, I'd much rather socialise with them face to face rather than simply online, ideally with an eye to full swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have chatted to more people than we have included in our sex life, so guess its more of a naughty social site for us.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There's no right answer - as it is at the end of the day simply a website. It's a means of contact and 'advertising' your interests and preferences.

To some it's a sex site, nothing more. To others (us included) it's a swingers site - and that involves a heavy element of social activity. And as last nights event at Xtasia showed - we don't seem to be the only ones sharing that _iewpoint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use this site to look for like minded souls and to interact with them. We use the forums to talk shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as a sex site, I come on here to find sex, if I make friends along the way all well and good but its no big deal if I never meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit, I am sick and tired of all the abuse I receive because I wont just spread my legs for anyone, I just wish the site made it clearer! Hey ho, seems I'll just have to put up with it

I get messages that tell me crap along the lines of ,'people like you spoil the site'.. All because I said a v polite no thanks I dont want to give you my postcode....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a few on here that think , sex is a given. I do however have a tendency to clear that matter up with any guy that suggests that to me!

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

To me, I use the site as hoping to meet people I want to have sexual activities with, but as soon as they show any disrespect for me, they can bugger off! It's the one's that think it is instashag.com that piss me off and send the abusive messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit, I am sick and tired of all the abuse I receive because I wont just spread my legs for anyone, I just wish the site made it clearer! Hey ho, seems I'll just have to put up with it

I get messages that tell me crap along the lines of ,'people like you spoil the site'.. All because I said a v polite no thanks I dont want to give you my postcode....

I like all single woman on here gets messages along those lines at some point, that's why a lot just block but then people moan about that

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I will admit, I am sick and tired of all the abuse I receive because I wont just spread my legs for anyone, I just wish the site made it clearer! Hey ho, seems I'll just have to put up with it

I get messages that tell me crap along the lines of ,'people like you spoil the site'.. All because I said a v polite no thanks I dont want to give you my postcode....

No offence, but I'm glad it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect to find a Scrabble partner on here. I did get a lovely recipe for a sponge cake once which is why I like the forums. Sexually adventurous people tend to have a wide range of knowledge I have found

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"I will admit, I am sick and tired of all the abuse I receive because I wont just spread my legs for anyone, I just wish the site made it clearer! Hey ho, seems I'll just have to put up with it

Hi, firstly let me say that this is a swinging site and that means it is firstly about sex but with a social side too. However that does not mean that female members of the site have to spread their legs for anyone that contacts them. In fact the whole point of the site is that we all have a safe and secure place where we can be open about what we are looking for without being pressured into performing with people we dont want to be with. The site owners take a dim _iew of bullying and will not tolerate it. You need to block and report anyone that is in any abusive to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as a swingers site but I think alot don't. Mainly the 'fancy a fuck' brigade who complain that they can't get a meet. They see the site as a sex site, with the point of _iew that women should be grateful for their attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a general question....Do you see this site as a sex site, because I don't but the amount of abusive messages I receive says I am in the minority, would be good to know others _iews I like to _iew it as a social site with opportunity.....

I think i love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with the majority on here, I have found some brilliant people/friends on here - I just love the honesty of it.

there are so many stereotypes out there in the vanilla world about what women should and shouldn't say/do sexually - but on here its normal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst there is a social element to swinging that can ve obtained from this site I think the predominant use of this site is to find sex. Wether or not you choose to spend a long tome getting to know a meet or not the end goal is ultimately deciding wether or not you want to fuck them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side is a wonderful additional bonus to a site we use primarily for looking for strangers to have sex with that would be considered outside of the social norms...

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

"I'm with you on this, I like to get to know folk before I shag

And I like the social side

Same here

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I guess it is a sex site but that is not my reason for being here. I enjoy following the forums have met lots of people socially.

I find it a place to chat and laugh. I like meeting and chatting with new people.

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think i love you

In what way and why? x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I'm with you on this, I like to get to know folk before I shag

And I like the social side

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm with you on this, I like to get to know folk before I shag

And I like the social side

This is what I do, and I can't understand why the men don't get it... I thought it was just me, and whilst I do report some messages others aren't just worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site over recent months has become a social site with benefits..as I have become more aware of what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't _iew it as a sex site more of a site to find like minded people to have fun with in the real word and in the forums.

I don't have sex with just anyone which my profile makes clear & luckily enough I've never had any abusive messages about it.

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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Thank you to all who have aired their _iews x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, I use the site as hoping to meet people I want to have sexual activities with, but as soon as they show any disrespect for me, they can bugger off! It's the one's that think it is instashag.com that piss me off and send the abusive messages!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst there is a social element to swinging that can ve obtained from this site I think the predominant use of this site is to find sex. Wether or not you choose to spend a long tome getting to know a meet or not the end goal is ultimately deciding wether or not you want to fuck them lol"

Exactly! So why do people get so irate and complain when people say it's a sex site?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

everyone who joins has a sexual act at the core of their membership, be that 121, group, cam, sperate room, wanking to pics, filthy chat and a multitude of other sexual kinks......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be. Some people are on here just for the social side, as we're all such great peeps and not just the chosen ones. Some are here to try and shag everything. A lot are somewhere inbetween. Where I sit depends on how hot the person is who wants to meet me

I couldn't agree more.

To be perfectly honest, when I first joined fab just over a year ago, I was under the assumption that it was predominately a sex contacts site - but that was entirely due to my inexperience and lack of knowledge at the time with regard to the world of swinging.

I have found fab to be much, much more.

I have made new friends here - some of whom I may never meet, let alone shag, but nevertheless, it's nice to communicate with people.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

We see it very much as a swinging site and use it to meet people that are into the same life style as we are.

We never expect sex but always expect a good laugh when both come together just right then it leads to what this site should be about a great time with good friends xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see it very much as a swinging site and use it to meet people that are into the same life style as we are.

We never expect sex but always expect a good laugh when both come together just right then it leads to what this site should be about a great time with good friends xxxxx"

Damn right

That's why I've remained largely cool on here. Having a good time is what I look for. Anything else is a bonus. An exclamation mark, if you will.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I use it primarily for sexual encounters. How others use it is up to them. Does it matter? Not to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree op and I don't see it as a sex site, its just a forum site, mind you the forum is fun and chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see it as a site where we can indulge our fantasies of sexy with other people but not a sex site as such. There's a much wider social aspect to it all too which is what keeps us hooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it solely depends what you're looking to get from it personally. .i like to meet people from different walks of life which otherwise i wouldn't have the chance to. .The sex side is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially we saw this as a sex site, and we still do, but we no longer use it as such. I have found that I don't seem to gel with people via messages and pictures. We prefer chams. But I like the social side of this place, when people are being nice that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see it as a swingers site but I think alot don't. Mainly the 'fancy a fuck' brigade who complain that they can't get a meet. They see the site as a sex site, with the point of _iew that women should be grateful for their attention. "

How ironic that this post should resurface after 30 weeks. I still see it as a swingers site however I think that of late the attitude of some on here is that it's a sex site. The vile opinions of some members on this site like women who go to clubs are whores or if you take part in gangbangs you are something strange really make me wonder what some people think swinging is really about.

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By *igsy8Man
over a year ago

Accrington

I have never and would never send a abusive message because someone knocked me back,different horses 4 courses an all that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do forget, sometimes, the 'kind of site' it's supposed to be. Usually when i start rabbiting random crap, yes 90% of the time.

and then a quick, bare back, or fuck my own arse with my cock... Thread.. Brings me back down to earth

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By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

For us it is a sex site where we can meet people for sexual fun but it does cater to the social side as well. Suppose the way we see it is with limited free time we want to play in preference to socialising but each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to agree with you all..each to their own but I prefer the social side first!

Definitely or I wouldn't have made such good friends as I have

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Im not a one dimensional person with just one need, so fab suits a variety of my interests. It has a sex theme but it is primarily about interaction that is deeper than just flesh on flesh. Most of us I think prefer the right personality, alongside looks, to physically engage with - imo - and forum users like to engage socially in various ways. Many of us could have more meets and sex than we do but have some balance from the social side instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as getting to know friends before the sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it is a site to meet others with a _iew to having sex, ala sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know its basically a site to meet people for sex - but to get to that stage we like the social side too - its all good fun - oh and the forums arent bad too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems certain folk on this site get their kicks from sending abusive messages,its pathetic and cowardly,they should be named n shamed in public

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By *oomar1Man
over a year ago

Stalybridge

Definately a sex site

If people enjoy social sides of a lifestyle you would join a club or group

Make friends or not it is about meeting people for sex

If you didn't want sex I'm sure there would be other sites to just make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to have sex with friends - if you like to just shag and go thats fine - some here for the sexy banter or to watch cams - doesnt really matter to us

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I use the site mainly to meet women for sex, but i do enjoy meeting up for a drink or a night out on the town or going to the forum socials and group meets at clubs aswel so i enjoy the social side of it in that way aswel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a sex site it's that simple......BUT women being the way women are "not a bad thing" it is also a social chat site. The thing is which av seen alot of is women saying they've spoken to guys who seemed very nice then they met he was completely different & it turns out he just wanted to fuck! That's what guys are here for no matter how nice we seem or how much we chat the only thing going through our minds is when can a stick ma dick in you. We're bastards.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

It is predominantly and originally a swingers site, it still is a swingers site, but it now gets used for a whole host of different things ie, 1 on 1 singles meets, cheats, etc, because its free and easy to join people will use it for what they like, but that doesnt change the name or description of what the site is.

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