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Getting a no message with pic but she dont got one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't got a pic...

No wonder they say no if you communicate like that

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?."

If a man contacts me with a pic and i dont fancy him then i dont send one in reply. It would just be a waste of both our time. Thought it was obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called preference, they just don't fancy the look of you perhaps. Save keep sending msgs back and forth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't got a pic...

No wonder they say no if you communicate like that "
I dont chat like that lol jsut abit of a rant u know lol.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course someone can decide if they like the look of you before you've seen their photo. That's not judging you. It's just about attraction.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

They are judging you on your appearance and you are judging them on their lack of response. They decided they didn't like the look of you, and you could decide 'I don't want to shag a rude I'll mannered couple' if that's what you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont send pics to people ive just said no thanks too,what would be the point of that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are judging you on your appearance and you are judging them on their lack of response. They decided they didn't like the look of you, and you could decide 'I don't want to shag a rude I'll mannered couple' if that's what you think."
lol I like ur reply there,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's called preference, they just don't fancy the look of you perhaps. Save keep sending msgs back and forth "
And yes good point there as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?."

Maybe they have then as private and send them to the people that they are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?.

Maybe they have then as private and send them to the people that they are interested in. "
Yes, and I didnt see any pics as set to private either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about the replies you don't get. Concentrate on the ones you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?.

Maybe they have then as private and send them to the people that they are interested in. Yes, and I didnt see any pics as set to private either ."

You wouldn't see any pics that they had set as private. You would only see the number of pics that they had set as friends only if they had any. Private pics aren't shown at all to anyone except the profile owner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?.

Maybe they have then as private and send them to the people that they are interested in. Yes, and I didnt see any pics as set to private either .

You wouldn't see any pics that they had set as private. You would only see the number of pics that they had set as friends only if they had any. Private pics aren't shown at all to anyone except the profile owner. "
Yes ur right there and I meant as well, there wasnt any numbers beside the private gallery. I also guess not all would be "into" the one who msg them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry about the replies you don't get. Concentrate on the ones you do?"
YEs I will concentrate of the ones I get more than those I wont .

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I send a face pic if I message someone first. I send a face pic to someone who messages me if I am interested.

Now I have to send one even if I say no?

By that logic I may as well just have them on public display!!!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The numbers on the private gallery pertain only to those pictures able to be seen by friends. Actual private pics are not shown as numbered and are only able to be seen as an attachment to a message should the member wish to send them.

My face pics are entirely private - none of my friends can see them unless I want them to, and they do not show up in the total number of private pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont you find this odd? When you attach a pic of urself after reading their profile and you mostly get a no as a reply lol, but whats strange is that they dont got a pic, how can they be judgemental if we dont know how they look?.

Maybe they have then as private and send them to the people that they are interested in. Yes, and I didnt see any pics as set to private either .

You wouldn't see any pics that they had set as private. You would only see the number of pics that they had set as friends only if they had any. Private pics aren't shown at all to anyone except the profile owner. Yes ur right there and I meant as well, there wasnt any numbers beside the private gallery. I also guess not all would be "into" the one who msg them "

When you look at someone's profile you will have

Public pics (number of pics)

Friend only (number of pics)

Also private pics that you won't see anything about.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think this thread should win an award or something.

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