FabSwingers.com forum: Another woman in a a single's man profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok all you sexy ladies. I had positive comments and negative comments about pics of me on action. Is that attractive or off putting in a man's profile? Just curious what's the majority's perseption about it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like action shots...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its an excellent way to get viewers to your profile..... Very good... Oh nice pics as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I stopped at your ass pic and there I still am

Its your profile , your pictures and you arent on here to please every single person surely???

We all differ some will like them others wont but its your profile , have whatever pics you want on aslong as your happy with it.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Totally offputing.just an ego trip for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm no female but I don't really see what having a single person profile in an action shot really adds to the profile. That you've had sex before? Don't mind being photo'd in the act?

The profile is about you.

From the same vein though, it is your profile so do as you wish or whatever you like with it. As with most of the questions on the forum, some will like it and some won't.

Maybe the question is do the women I want to attract like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of your pictures are of you and the one featuring someone else is still primarily you. Don't see anything wrong with that.

As mistress says it's whem the pictures are primarily of women that I fail to see the point. Each to their own but why anyone would sell themselves with pictures of previous conquests is beyond me.

I really like your pictures. A good mix and well taken with an original choice of shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I'm no female but I don't really see what having a single person profile in an action shot really adds to the profile. That you've had sex before? Don't mind being photo'd in the act?

The profile is about you.

From the same vein though, it is your profile so do as you wish or whatever you like with it. As with most of the questions on the forum, some will like it and some won't.

Maybe the question is do the women I want to attract like it?"

Yes its my profile and I chose to do my best with it to make appealing not off putting thats why I ask. I had a couple other pics being spoiled by 2 sexy ladies but I chose after a thought about it and after a cpl females who messaged me to tell me thats off putting to see me having action with other women while am trying to seduce them. Hense this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to see the action pics but keep going back to pic number two!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of your pictures are of you and the one featuring someone else is still primarily you. Don't see anything wrong with that.

As mistress says it's whem the pictures are primarily of women that I fail to see the point. Each to their own but why anyone would sell themselves with pictures of previous conquests is beyond me.

I really like your pictures. A good mix and well taken with an original choice of shots."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

Yep I hate this too but the pics on OP profile are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of your pictures are of you and the one featuring someone else is still primarily you. Don't see anything wrong with that.

As mistress says it's whem the pictures are primarily of women that I fail to see the point. Each to their own but why anyone would sell themselves with pictures of previous conquests is beyond me.

I really like your pictures. A good mix and well taken with an original choice of shots.

Thats a lovely feedback thank you

. Sometimes pictures of you swinging can support the verifications. Also it can tell more about you. Seeing a tiger is interesting. A tiger on action is exciting. Not always the case but just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a guy local to me who's profile has numerous (20 plus at least) pics and every one is an action shot with a woman, many bareback. These are very off putting, people are potentially meeting that person and don't necessarily want to see pics of that nature. As a woman, I'd rather see a nice body/torso shot and a face pic if happy to put one on public display. Action shots do nothing for me, apart from make me click on the next profile but everyone is different and its your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like action shots so I just move on. Plenty of profiles with bum and torso shots to research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur photos are great

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It puts me off ( mrs ) especially when they mail them with a first mail.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ok all you sexy ladies. I had positive comments and negative comments about pics of me on action. Is that attractive or off putting in a man's profile? Just curious what's the majority's perseption about it.

Totally offputting, though the ones up now are OK because they don't show much female. I'd still rather none.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People have different reasons for posting the pictures they do and the primary reason isn't always to attract other people. Some just like the idea of others looking at them and I wonder if that is the motive behind some action shots on single profiles, same with cock shots I now understand that for some guys it's showing it off that's the point for them.

So although I really don't like to see a single male profile with pictures of him with women and usually pass them by I sort of understand why they have them there.

Also I know it's irrational but if a married but playing alone man has them I feel it's rubbing his wifes nose in it. Yes I know it doesn't make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off putting to me too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Totally off putting when there's more of the woman than the man! A full body shot and face (bar a thin black strip over the eyes) of the woman and his cock...right!

Yep I hate this too but the pics on OP profile are

Agreed!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't like them but use that as a way of filtering when I get a message.

I really don't understand how they get through. How do you prove that you have permission to use that person's image and why is a bit of cock enough to be deemed that man? I have had pictures rejected when it is just me but not enough of me (the standard text that the picture must feature you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your pics and don't see what the problem is the action shot is fine it is not of the woman with your cock in her mouth so it is a winner in my book. Keep up the good work I may have to put you on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally offputing.just an ego trip for you."

Bit harsh. Don't be so judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

when I had my single guys profile I had over 100 photos the majority were action shots

and I found that there was always more interest in my profile when I put up new photos and more new meets.

I put this down to the fact that ladies like to see that you can deliver what you promise in your profile.

some ladies might not like action shots but a lot do,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personaly your pics of you in action are better than your other ones of just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand them ,especially ones with a cock stuck down a throat. I assume that as you are on here you actually have sex that involves your penis in a vagina. I don't wish to see the vagina with your cock half way in, or an arse come to that. I don't like cum shots either, I'm not much of a pic peruser

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't like them but use that as a way of filtering when I get a message.

Admin has a trick to identify every single guy from just his cock

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its your prifile if your happy with it why change it ? ...if others dont like it thats their problem .

Be yourself not who others want you to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares who you have fucked in the past?

a still photo doesnt show you are a good fuck

its meant to be about you not your conquests, but as has been said, its your profile

it represents you how you want to be seen by others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally offputing.just an ego trip for you."

An ego trip for me?! What are you on about?!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The only time I would find it off putting, is if all the profile pics, were to show more of meets than the actual profile owner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Action shots are personally not for me .........However i like the decorating shots! Men should have more of them: putting up some shelves shots, unblocking the sink shots and my personal favourite - flagging your garden (double entendre or not -you decide)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Action shots are personally not for me .........However i like the decorating shots! Men should have more of them: putting up some shelves shots, unblocking the sink shots and my personal favourite - flagging your garden (double entendre or not -you decide)

Haha that was for a DIY avatar challenge cheeky

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a lot of single male profiles which are festooned with M/F action shots. Why should I believe that the male in every one of them is actually the male who supposedly owns the profile? Why should I believe that they are genuine?

I don't trust anyone.........only myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've seen a lot of single male profiles which are festooned with M/F action shots. Why should I believe that the male in every one of them is actually the male who supposedly owns the profile? Why should I believe that they are genuine?

I don't trust anyone.........only myself."

I thought you were straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha - sprung!!!

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

at least you have the balls to put some pics up in the first place which puts you ahead of lots of others who seem to be growing in number, who have no pics, no veris and a one line lazy profile that isn't funny and certainly isn't attractive. Any of those contact us its an automatic block, so well done to you , good pics and profile. hope you get the success your time effort deserve .

Maybe fabs should becharging a niminal fee of £5 to put a profile on here to stop the sightseers

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

There is more than one bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im personally not a fan of action shots or very sexually explicit pics like cum shots etc.

I do advocate having what you want on your profile. Its my view that the pics should give an insight into the profile owner. If someone enjoys parties and group sex and enjoys looking at reminders of good times, then I see no problem with it. I know that my own pics are not to everyone's taste but I feel they show I have a quirky side to my personality.

In the OPs case the pics are primarily of him showing off a great body. The action pic on display is mainly of him. The mix of his pics will be attractive to many so if he's happy with it then don't change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

There is more than one bird

Geez, dude, - where was the shoot, at an Avery??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

There is more than one bird

Geez, dude, - where was the shoot, at an Avery??

Lol no. they did fly to mine and spoiled me. Not shoing them cause some would think am a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about the action shot I didn't get past the biceps '

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

There is more than one bird

Geez, dude, - where was the shoot, at an Avery??

Lol no. they did fly to mine and spoiled me. Not shoing them cause some would think am a tart

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somone has been blocked in the other thread for typing dose instead of does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at least you have the balls to put some pics up in the first place which puts you ahead of lots of others who seem to be growing in number, who have no pics, no veris and a one line lazy profile that isn't funny and certainly isn't attractive. Any of those contact us its an automatic block, so well done to you , good pics and profile. hope you get the success your time effort deserve .

Maybe fabs should becharging a niminal fee of £5 to put a profile on here to stop the sightseers

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont mind seeing sum action shots but if theres more than of that guy himself its quite off putting. On a couples profile fair enough but not on a single persons profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op.... Nice butt.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"stick on another couple of pics of the bird,

she looks hot.

There is more than one bird

Geez, dude, - where was the shoot, at an Avery??

Lol no. they did fly to mine and spoiled me. Not shoing them cause some would think am a tart

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I can see why,

nobody wants a dose,

(especially on a swingers site)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been a fan of action shots or sexually explicit photos, much prefer pictures which show that the poster has imagination and which ignite my imagination too - yours work on both counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile you display it how you like....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the nice feedback

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