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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith

So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just so long as they are legal and alive, Id bang them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wont shag anyone my sons age or my fathers age .. i stick to those inbetween ....simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind age is just a number as long as both are happy i dont see a prob

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

13 yrs between hubby and me hes an old man now so in the long run its not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions????? "

Depends if it's for a relationship or just the physical stuff? My rules are different for each one.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

20-35 works best for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliche alert: it's just a number. You can speak to young people of 57 and old farts of 23.

Every potential candidate should marked on their own merits x

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

I don't see age as an issue

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm 48 and my beloved will be 71 on Saturday, and we have been together over 7 years and we don't give a hoot about other peoples opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue"

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely meet men older than me. One of my regular partners is just 32, we have been seeing each other for almost 4 years. He's more sensible and mature than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense. "

how often would that happen realistically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is.......when meeting someone face to face in a social setting and you both get on and feelings develop...the age thing doesnt come into it. It wouldnt with me anyways.

But on here,when your just going on the info given in a profile...then i tend to stick to a certain age group...makes things a little easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense. "

Using an extreme to make your argument fit is non-sensical.

Thank fuck we don't live in the kind of puritanical world you'd like to impose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

how often would that happen realistically? "

Ok. 40s to late 50s then and yes I have seen It several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 48 and my beloved will be 71 on Saturday, and we have been together over 7 years and we don't give a hoot about other peoples opinions.

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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith


"The thing is.......when meeting someone face to face in a social setting and you both get on and feelings develop...the age thing doesnt come into it. It wouldnt with me anyways.

But on here,when your just going on the info given in a profile...then i tend to stick to a certain age group...makes things a little easier "

i agree with you... on here i have meet people various ages but only socially.

the sex side no one 5years either side of my age.

but if i was in a situation on not knowing there age... and there was an attraction then who knows xx

its a very strange topic with many different opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If both are happy then who am I to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotions and feelings are no respecter of a particular age .......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

how often would that happen realistically?

Ok. 40s to late 50s then and yes I have seen It several times. "
what business of yours what the age gap is in someone else's relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

how often would that happen realistically?

Ok. 40s to late 50s then and yes I have seen It several times. what business of yours what the age gap is in someone else's relationship?

"

When you know them personally it doesn't feel right. Also if it's so right then why do the actual people hide what's there. Surely if they loved each other it would be shouted from the roof tops as they should feel they have nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 48 and my beloved will be 71 on Saturday, and we have been together over 7 years and we don't give a hoot about other peoples opinions.

"

This is lovely and neither should you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions????? "

I don't think it should be written in stone. Each to their own. I was recently in a waiting room with a couple who I would say had a twenty year age gap, but they looked good together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to feel a little awkward out and about with my other half when he was in his twenties, now he's in his thirties, doesn't seem as awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

how often would that happen realistically?

Ok. 40s to late 50s then and yes I have seen It several times. what business of yours what the age gap is in someone else's relationship?

When you know them personally it doesn't feel right. Also if it's so right then why do the actual people hide what's there. Surely if they loved each other it would be shouted from the roof tops as they should feel they have nothing to hide. "

They are probably not shouting it from the rooftops because of other people prejudices and the scorn some people would show them.......Having any kind of relationship is hard enough without having scorn thrown at them. so they keep quiet and hope people leave them alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

I don't think it should be written in stone. Each to their own. I was recently in a waiting room with a couple who I would say had a twenty year age gap, but they looked good together."

If they were both fully grown adults with some life experience between them. Then yes I agree with you. If one is 16 and the other one is in their late 30s or older then it's wrong in my opinion, but we are all entitled to our opinion.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

how often would that happen realistically?

Ok. 40s to late 50s then and yes I have seen It several times. what business of yours what the age gap is in someone else's relationship?

When you know them personally it doesn't feel right. Also if it's so right then why do the actual people hide what's there. Surely if they loved each other it would be shouted from the roof tops as they should feel they have nothing to hide. "
so its not about them and there relationship but whether you feel right about it and maybe they have to hide how they feel because of people like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad was 19 years older than my mum, he was 39 and she was 20 when they married in 1968. Age is just a number I guess as they were totally right for each other.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

There's 39 years between us.

We connect on a multitude of different levels. The standing joke is he is an 11yrs old with a hard on mentally. Me? I'm too old to be 21 lol I always have been.

I've been too independent and had too many management positions to really get on with people my own age. I find my generation a nightmare. They can't speak or write properly and they expect everything handed to them on a plate.

I can totally understand why people have a problem with age gaps. But for me yeah we may only have 20 years or so together but I know they'll be the happiest 20 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew "

Seriously wish we could find a couple like you two close to us as mrs likes males around our age & I like women of most ages but have a little kink for a older fem + you two look hot!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"There's 39 years between us.

We connect on a multitude of different levels. The standing joke is he is an 11yrs old with a hard on mentally. Me? I'm too old to be 21 lol I always have been.

I've been too independent and had too many management positions to really get on with people my own age. I find my generation a nightmare. They can't speak or write properly and they expect everything handed to them on a plate.

I can totally understand why people have a problem with age gaps. But for me yeah we may only have 20 years or so together but I know they'll be the happiest 20 years. "
and I wish you all the bestxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ? "

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

I don't think it should be written in stone. Each to their own. I was recently in a waiting room with a couple who I would say had a twenty year age gap, but they looked good together.

If they were both fully grown adults with some life experience between them. Then yes I agree with you. If one is 16 and the other one is in their late 30s or older then it's wrong in my opinion, but we are all entitled to our opinion. "

So we've gone from 85 to late 30s.

Exactly where are you upset the most?

Have you suffered rejection in some way and just ranting on here?

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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith

So no one would turn heads if you were 50 with an 85 yr old partner

But it would cause the turn of heads if you were 18 with a 53yr old.

but its the same age difference !!!

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow


"There's 39 years between us.

We connect on a multitude of different levels. The standing joke is he is an 11yrs old with a hard on mentally. Me? I'm too old to be 21 lol I always have been.

I've been too independent and had too many management positions to really get on with people my own age. I find my generation a nightmare. They can't speak or write properly and they expect everything handed to them on a plate.

I can totally understand why people have a problem with age gaps. But for me yeah we may only have 20 years or so together but I know they'll be the happiest 20 years.

and I wish you all the bestxx

"

Thank you! That's means a lot!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react? "
my sister moved in with a guy of 48 when she was 16 my mum wasn't happy but came round when she saw he treated her like a queen they spent 7 great years together until sadly he died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react? "

Its the same with teenagers, the more you say no.........the more they say yes. People should be allowed to make their own choices and if it turns out to be the wrong one....then be there to hold them when they need you. Life is about taking chances, and at 16..i knew what i wanted and didnt even live at home. When affairs of the heart are concerned, age doesnt come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no one would turn heads if you were 50 with an 85 yr old partner

But it would cause the turn of heads if you were 18 with a 53yr old.

but its the same age difference !!! "

That's my point. With the 18 year old I would say its wrong, but 85 year old with 50 year old its ok.

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react?

my sister moved in with a guy of 48 when she was 16 my mum wasn't happy but came round when she saw he treated her like a queen they spent 7 great years together until sadly he died

"

Exactly this. Phil is older than my mum but she's know I'm loved unconditionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react? my sister moved in with a guy of 48 when she was 16 my mum wasn't happy but came round when she saw he treated her like a queen they spent 7 great years together until sadly he died

"

That's so sad . Plus it shows it's normal to have these negative feelings as your mother had them and I bet others did too. So even though he turned out to be a good bloke. It doesn't mean that the people thinking bad of the situation at the time were wronguns as I bet many people do this.

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By *oudnproud OP   Woman
over a year ago

penrith


"So no one would turn heads if you were 50 with an 85 yr old partner

But it would cause the turn of heads if you were 18 with a 53yr old.

but its the same age difference !!!

That's my point. With the 18 year old I would say its wrong, but 85 year old with 50 year old its ok. "

it shouldnt be wrong and isnt wrong.

its only peoples opinions that make it wrong.

i live in a whole family with various age gaps between them and there partners.

I dont see it as wrong what so ever

i just have my own choice in age groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no one would turn heads if you were 50 with an 85 yr old partner

But it would cause the turn of heads if you were 18 with a 53yr old.

but its the same age difference !!!

That's my point. With the 18 year old I would say its wrong, but 85 year old with 50 year old its ok. "

are you saying the 16/18 yr old wouldn't know how they really felt and were being taken advantage of by someone older who should know better? Not all 16 year olds are immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest lad took some convincing. He was just worried about a young lad, I suppose hurting his mum. There's four years between him and my partner, 8 yrs on he,s now realised, my other half loves me unconditionally. They are pretty good mates...... But as the original poster I think was wondering play wise, I'm unsure I like them younger, other half obviously likes older.... I would prob say 30-50 he would say 30-60 double standards on my part perhaps since he was a young! 20 something when we met! But I trained him well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew

Seriously wish we could find a couple like you two close to us as mrs likes males around our age & I like women of most ages but have a little kink for a older fem + you two look hot!! "

Why thankyou your a pair of ditties yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew

Seriously wish we could find a couple like you two close to us as mrs likes males around our age & I like women of most ages but have a little kink for a older fem + you two look hot!!

Why thankyou your a pair of ditties yourselves! "

Haha fitties even!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, age is not an issue for me.

...the person i meet regularly is 15 years older than me. We have become like soul mates and there's never a dull moment. And the sex..OMG!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you met and fell in love with someone and then sometime after found out she was 55/60 ish....you would then walk away because of the age ?

I meant if a girl was 16 and the guy was 40. That's really bad in my opinion, but if the girl was 30 and the guy was 54 it's ok. Same age gap. Anything under 18 is a child to me and a child shouldn't be getting with someone that age. The question is if a child of yours at that age introduced her boyfriend who was your age or even in their 30s. How would you react? my sister moved in with a guy of 48 when she was 16 my mum wasn't happy but came round when she saw he treated her like a queen they spent 7 great years together until sadly he died

That's so sad . Plus it shows it's normal to have these negative feelings as your mother had them and I bet others did too. So even though he turned out to be a good bloke. It doesn't mean that the people thinking bad of the situation at the time were wronguns

as I bet many people do this. "

No. It doesn't. You're just fuelling this thread the whole time with what you think and making things fit!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Dont knock it if it works. We are all so different, as the posts here show. Like others, my shag and dating guides are somewhat different. But theyre just that, based on my experience and intuition. Ive met some lovely people at extremes, and glad I have. Sexually I prefer younger, but dont know if I will still be good with 18 year olds when Im 60 - Im guessing I will, and sure theyll want some loving still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely stories here. Good luck to all, big age differences, small ones...

Do what feels good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some lovely stories here. Good luck to all, big age differences, small ones...

Do what feels good. "

Amen to that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what ever works for yourself

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do what ever works for yourself

"

And leave others to enjoy what works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew

Seriously wish we could find a couple like you two close to us as mrs likes males around our age & I like women of most ages but have a little kink for a older fem + you two look hot!!

Why thankyou your a pair of ditties yourselves!

Haha fitties even!!!!!"

Thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what ever works for yourself

And leave others to enjoy what works for them.

"

I hope that this thread ends right here on that note!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what ever works for yourself

And leave others to enjoy what works for them.

I hope that this thread ends right here on that note!!"

Nah, where's the fun in that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 10 years between us. Not that you would know it though. His kids have just started to realise the age difference, but they see how happy we are.

So long as we are happy and even more importantly, his children are happy with the situation and relationship then that's what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No "any holes a goal" comment yet

I'm surprised

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When I was 28 I spent 5 yrs with a 41 yr old. Best sex of my life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I first got together with jay, none of my family or friends said much about the age gap, well they didn't say anything at all not even my son. The only time I talk about the age gap is on here when a relevant thread comes up, but outside of her its not even thought about and jay is 18 months older than my mum

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wont shag anyone my sons age or my fathers age .. i stick to those inbetween ....simples "

Basically the same parameters I use as it's what I'm comfortable with. Could care less about the choices of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hubby and I are 12 years apart. it really just depends on the person and the chemistry when we are talking about adults. To have a relationship I do believe people should be in a similar stage of life so I do think it would be difficult for relationships with super extreme age gaps to work. Especially in the case where one is still a teenager. For example a friend of mine met her husband when she was 17 and he was 30 but she lived on her own and took care of herself. I would say they were in a similar stage of life. I would not think it was right if she was still under her parents roof, in school and no experience of independence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was 13 years older than me. We were together for 12 years and still friends. He was on the phone earlier checking to see if I was ok and saying we must go for a meal soon. However, my age range for meeting on Fab is always younger, as I think I get on better with younger men. My lower age range has increased over my time on here for various readons. If I eas to meet someone in real life then it would all depend on the person, and not the age gap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a 20% age gap is OK, above or below your age. I think as you get older, the age gap in years is not quite as important. Hopefully toy will be in a similar place in your lives.

Also men mature slower and later than women - if at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is all about the person, I would not date a teenager as I have a nephew who is 17 and would not date a person my dads age. I tend to go for younger men as I feel more connected to them, my own age group are too mature for me

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

We have a 25 year age gap between us have been together nearly 6 years was difficult at first as I wrestled with wether we should be together . So glad I went with my heart and did not listen to all the neysayers these have been 6 of the happiest years of my life and look forward to more

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i cant help my age .. if the woman im with whatever her age cant keep up thats her problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions????? "

so im to old for you so what age is your mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions????? "

For a man, the ideal age for a woman for sex or an affair is always..

Half his age plus 7.

This calculation that is ideal and always works.

For me, I am not fussy, age is not important , as long as the man can get an erection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 years is good for me

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

One advantage of having a partner significantly younger than you is you've got a carer-in-waiting for if/when the age related ailments start affecting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

For a man, the ideal age for a woman for sex or an affair is always..

Half his age plus 7.

This calculation that is ideal and always works.

For me, I am not fussy, age is not important , as long as the man can get an erection."

perfect calculation !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One advantage of having a partner significantly younger than you is you've got a carer-in-waiting for if/when the age related ailments start affecting you."

Can't Argue With That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No "any holes a goal" comment yet

I'm surprised "

Except yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is 21 years between me and my wife and we love each other more than anything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a 25 year age gap between us have been together nearly 6 years was difficult at first as I wrestled with wether we should be together . So glad I went with my heart and did not listen to all the neysayers these have been 6 of the happiest years of my life and look forward to more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of long term relationship stories here

Personally, im not comfortable with big age differences above 15 years.

If you find happiness good look to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sixteen years between us. Can't think of anytime this has been a problem. We make a good match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can put a number on it as it's all down to attraction (in all it's different guises).

There are some people who are mid-forties who look 10 years younger and some people who are mid-thirties who seem to have had a very hard life.

Likewise, some people have different attitudes which are often associated with age and it just depends on which suits best.

As a rule of thumb for me though as you have a gun to my head:

Sex: 20-45

Relationship: 24-35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age i dont think it really matters if it works for both then the gap is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current friend is 29 years younger. In my defence she asked me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think my age range for sex is larger than the age range id allow for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think my age range for sex is larger than the age range id allow for a relationship "

Now you mention it - I guess that would be the case for me, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its more about how people look than their age, some older men age well and get better with age, some just look old, i don't like young guys with that baby face look i find it off putting but some young guys look mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My current friend is 29 years younger. In my defence she asked me out"

your 44, that would make her 15?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions????? "

13 years between Sammi and me! Never been a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give us oldies a chance we have so much to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a relationship with a 34 year old when I was 19. I was a young looking 19 year old and we used to get some very strange looks which I did find uncomfortable. But the sex was mind blowing! I wouldn't go for such a big age gap in a relationship, but when playing, as long as everyone is having fun what does it matter?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Il go 15 each way....

Depends entirely on how they look

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"My current friend is 29 years younger. In my defence she asked me out

your 44, that would make her 15? "

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood


"16 yrs between me n my partner.. He's the younger in years... But can be such a victor meldrew "

Yea, I know what you mean and how that feels.

17 year age gap between my and guy I know, he's the elder, but can be a grump/overbearing/dad like.

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense. "

I know they say age is just a number, but when the age gap is that much, I'd say too far.

The "girl" at 16 would be old enough to be MY daughter and I'm 35. So 85 would be old enough to be the girls GREAT grandpa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

I know they say age is just a number, but when the age gap is that much, I'd say too far.

The "girl" at 16 would be old enough to be MY daughter and I'm 35. So 85 would be old enough to be the girls GREAT grandpa."

My daughter bought home a guy who was 44, she was 18, it did bother me but i didn't say anything as i knew it would only cause us to fall out, she has left home as she has gone to uni there for there was nothing i could do about it so why make a fuss over something you cant change

sometimes you just have to accept there nothing you can do

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

I know they say age is just a number, but when the age gap is that much, I'd say too far.

The "girl" at 16 would be old enough to be MY daughter and I'm 35. So 85 would be old enough to be the girls GREAT grandpa."
realistically how many relationships do you know with a 70 year age gap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm.. I'm actually meeting someone who is only 6 days older than myself..

Is it strange that I feel intimated by someone my own age??

Use to older men, but the thought of someone my age is scary..... Don't know why...

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

I know they say age is just a number,

but when the age gap is that much, I'd say too far.

The "girl" at 16 would be old enough to be MY daughter and I'm 35. So 85 would be old enough to be the girls GREAT grandpa.realistically how many relationships do you know with a 70 year age gap "

I know it was only an example, but I can imagine a few GOLD-DIGGERS would consider it.

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I am 46 and the biggest age gap I had was 12 senior man and 28 younger man. As long as some connection between us, age is just a number to me

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't see age as an issue

85 year old man and 16 year old girl, both legal. If that girl was in your family or you were close to her in some way. Would you consider that as an issue? I would. Age isn't just a number. It's about common sense.

I know they say age is just a number, but when the age gap is that much, I'd say too far.

The "girl" at 16 would be old enough to be MY daughter and I'm 35. So 85 would be old enough to be the girls GREAT grandpa.

My daughter bought home a guy who was 44, she was 18, it did bother me but i didn't say anything as i knew it would only cause us to fall out, she has left home as she has gone to uni there for there was nothing i could do about it so why make a fuss over something you cant change

sometimes you just have to accept there nothing you can do"

I know a guy who knows a guy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It has to be around 40 to 50ish as I am 47 and it seems to be right for me, I have experimented with the younger man type meeting but it really wasn't for me, so all you cougars can have my share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what difference it makes I would love to enjoy an older women (fantasy). Lets face it younger women tend not to be interested in older blokes, (women have all the power).

Any women can have any bloke she wants but not every bloke can have any women he wants the female/male ratio on here speaks for itself.

Some people wear their age well others that had big paper rounds don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is not really about someone's age I would say more about their attitude and if we can get along etc and of course we have to be physically attracted to each other otherwise well it won't happen, my age range is more of a guide really I have met outside of it younger and older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on well with all ages but don't want to shag them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see what difference it makes I would love to enjoy an older women (fantasy). Lets face it younger women tend not to be interested in older blokes, (women have all the power).

Any women can have any bloke she wants but not every bloke can have any women he wants the female/male ratio on here speaks for itself.

Some people wear their age well others that had big paper rounds don't. "

I wouldn't go that far, as a woman on here I cant have any man I want and I doubt any other woman on here can literally have anyone she chooses, even men say no thanks sometimes, honest they really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 yrs between me and my other half. Been together 12yrs now and love each other more each day!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

For a man, the ideal age for a woman for sex or an affair is always..

Half his age plus 7.

This calculation that is ideal and always works.

For me, I am not fussy, age is not important , as long as the man can get an erection."

I have seen this used before for both sexes, is there a different one for women as for me that would mean somewhere between 32-34 and therefore 20 yrs younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats a good age gap...

a friend if mine will go 15years above her own age i just dont agree aghhh. but then my sons father is 11 years older than me.

maybe as ive grown up ive just realised i like only 5yr age gap either side of my own age.

What are your opinions?????

For a man, the ideal age for a woman for sex or an affair is always..

Half his age plus 7.

This calculation that is ideal and always works.

For me, I am not fussy, age is not important , as long as the man can get an erection.

I have seen this used before for both sexes, is there a different one for women as for me that would mean somewhere between 32-34 and therefore 20 yrs younger"

surely that would be ideal for sex, stamina, youth, and flattery all in one meet!

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