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Mind over matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is more important?

A fit and athletic body?

OR

A trained and active mind?

I believe the latter, but I want to know what you think!

x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

More important for what??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both would be nice!! I had a guy message me once, very fit, just my type and it read; "I want to destroy you"!! What a shame I thought and deleted it without reply. Would have responded to a polite message from someone not overly my type and see how we got on. People who are intelligent and can converse without resorting too crude sexual references are more interesting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is more important?

A fit and athletic body?

OR

A trained and active mind?

I believe the latter, but I want to know what you think!

x"

why a trained mind. Trained in what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More important for what??"

Thats what I want to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's for you decide. If you only intend to shag someone and don't really care about their personality then that's that.

But IF you (like me) like to get to know a person before anything happens, then does, for example, having a nice bum outweigh being an idiot. Does being the next Shakespeare make up for looking like a troll?

Obviously we'd all like the former of both scenarios, but beggars can't be choosers, so which is more important to you, looks or mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll settle for both please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm Mo Farah v Stephen Hawkins eh?

Possibly, VWE v VWE

Win, Win.

Other athletes/celebrities may be available, who knows.

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Most definetly the mind. If you need kink as I do and big proportion of that is in the head

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd like both. I have the second so I'm working on the first.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

Obviously we'd all like the former of both scenarios, but beggars can't be choosers, so which is more important to you, looks or mind?"

Haha, luckily no beggars here. I cannot do entirely without either - I have to like someone no matter how hot they are, and I have to be attracted no matter how much I like them.

However, a total arsehole who is hot will never win me over if I dislike him, and someone not very attractive who engages my mind can suddenly become so, so I guess the mind wins. Mind over matter. Just

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Well for me ,the mind is the biggest sex organ, you can have a drop dead gorgeous , tongue hanging out, on point man, who is totaly numb between the ears with the charisma of a tea bag

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I cant atm shag someone who is drop dead ugly but can shag drop dead gorgeous if theyre gagged, when they are not mentally matched. I find the wrong personality repulsive, so I need ve right balance. But a stunner as a fuck toy gimp could work. In terms of myself, if I lose too much physical health, I dont want to perpetuate the physical.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

That was meant to state - if I lose too much physical health, I dont want to perpetuate the mental health/life.

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