FabSwingers.com forum: just been turned down for meet as not slim.. I have a 30inch waist

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah I get turned down all the time for being a fat bastard, you'll get over it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

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I'm a 32!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well thts us buggered then lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah I get turned down all the time for being a fat bastard, you'll get over it

You look good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a excuse because they dont wanna meet you. Just move on and dont take it personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

Fatty.lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah I get turned down all the time for being a fat bastard, you'll get over it

Awh I thought I was the special one who got that excuse

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Being turned down is not being rude. If they said "no way you fat fuck!!!"...yep, that's downright rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

you better start coning to the gym with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted to a guy for a while on here, exchanged numbers, text and spoke on the phone. Arranged a meet, social at first and randomly, out of the blue, he asked my dress size. When I said 18 he said he would never consider anyone over a 14 and I never heard from him again. Nowt queer as folk!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysus ! I must be really fat! I've a 32 inch waist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain

show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 30" nappy xxlee

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Preferences are everyone's perogative.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain

show off

Actually, I just noticed a protruding lump. Think it is a peanut I ate earlier

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Gosh, there's some fat men on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "
Were they abusive? Otherwise I don't see how it was rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "

to be honest I don't think telling you they don't see you as slim is rude, we all have our own ideas of what is and isn't slim, curvy, big after all, your idea of slim just may not be theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i had a 30in waist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'm the opposite. I get told every bloody day how skinny I am . put some weight on lanky all the time. Getting sick of it now it's getting me down....

Then I wake up and open a new packet of jaffa cakes like the fat bastardo I am and normal service was resumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol"

so physical looks do not matter to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like different things . As long as people are not rude and nasty if not for them its fine .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep I'm the opposite. I get told every bloody day how skinny I am . put some weight on lanky all the time. Getting sick of it now it's getting me down....

Then I wake up and open a new packet of jaffa cakes like the fat bastardo I am and normal service was resumed. "

Looking good to me.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "

I'm far from slim but i get this for being to fat as i have a 50"chest & a 36-38" waist & at 6'3" i am in proportion but big, if i was 5'8 & the same build i would be average by comparison.

Let it go over your head mate lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "

Maybe you should post a pic with a tape measure for clarification - it's hard to tell 'size' simply from looking at a pic with nothing to compare!

Do you have sky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Not the size of their waste..."

ewwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude.

Maybe you should post a pic with a tape measure for clarification - it's hard to tell 'size' simply from looking at a pic with nothing to compare!

Do you have sky?

ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why sky? Or am I being dumb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they turned you down for some other reason mate

thats a funny one tho

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"I'm a 32!

Fatty.lol"

Clearly!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"Jaysus ! I must be really fat! I've a 32 inch waist!

Good, another for my '32w' fat club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "

Fuck me - my thighs are 27".

Stand next to me - you'll look thin then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can just about fit into my 32 inch ones still but it's a close thing and not comfortable. I'm still recovering from Christmas excess.

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By *enny the lip lickerMan
over a year ago

bath bristol

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "

Guessing a 36 wouldn't get a look in either ,,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience?

Fuck me - my thighs are 27".

Stand next to me - you'll look thin then.

If we can drift aside from the topic slightly for a post or two - that's a damn good stormtrooper outfit! I want one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 is slim. 28 is skinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

Me too!

...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.

(Sighs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint it relative to how tall you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

29' inch waist is the smallest I ever managed to diet down to, 30 is very lean for an average sized male, but I think chest/waist ratio is more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a excuse because they dont wanna meet you. Just move on and dont take it personally"

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could all take a couple of inches off our waists and put them somewhere else we would be golden, eh? LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a shortarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol

so physical looks do not matter to you?"
if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I chatted to a guy for a while on here, exchanged numbers, text and spoke on the phone. Arranged a meet, social at first and randomly, out of the blue, he asked my dress size. When I said 18 he said he would never consider anyone over a 14 and I never heard from him again. Nowt queer as folk!!!"

I met a playmate on another site who had been on his profile "under size 16". He contacted me to say I sounded arrogant and up my own arse because I had 6ft plus only (he's 5ft 6). I pointed out he had his preferences I had mine.

Long story short we ended up meeting for a drink. He's un educated, writes in text speak, short, not a sub...everything I don't like and he ended up a brilliant shag!

Nowt as queer as folk!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"I'm a 32!

Me too!

...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.

(Sighs)

Cake problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

Me too!

...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.

(Sighs)

Cake problem?

It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

Me too!

...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.

(Sighs)

Cake problem?

It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol

If you're spending £4 on a single cake each time then soon you won't have enough money to eat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this rate everyone will be sticking their fingers down their throat after each meal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol

so physical looks do not matter to you?

if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts.

I suppose we are all different, personally I couldn't get turned on by someone I was not physically attracted to no matter how much of a nice person they are

I alway's find it very odd when people will say they will literally shag anything so long as they get along, good for them but personally I couldn't

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

A minute on the lips, a lifetime on the hips....not strictly true I suppose but it's a definite cake warning for ya, Popeye!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"At this rate everyone will be sticking their fingers down their throat after each meal.

Don't! There's a fetish niche for that!

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

S Yorks

Haha I'm 5'10 and a 34 waist so thought i was pretty much in proportion, guess I was wrong and I'm really a fat bastard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this rate everyone will be sticking their fingers down their throat after each meal.

Don't! There's a fetish niche for that!

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that's a new one for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tip toes out of this thread quietly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 32!

Me too!

...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.

(Sighs)

Cake problem?

It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol

If you're spending £4 on a single cake each time then soon you won't have enough money to eat!"

It's been a while since i've got back on the cake. And have you seen the size of the cake? It would alone last me a month lol

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

36/38 here and I don't care. The misses loves me and that's all that matters

trying to lose a few pounds mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im about 48"

it wasn't your waist that was the problem, they just wanted an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down many times to, cos I got a 6pack lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28 maybe I will have a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think im about 48"

it wasn't your waist that was the problem, they just wanted an excuse."

I totally agree. 30" is slim, its only 4" bigger than my thigh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm buggerd aswell then, think ill just give up as I'm a 34

haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far no one has ever turned me down because I am too fat, usually they see my pic, message me and want sex, I have never been asked the size of my waist, or cock come to that.

Then again, I have never messaged someone and asked if they want to meet me.

If anyone was petty enough to let age or size determine who they will meet I certainly wouldn't want to meet them.

Life is wonderous, colours, shapes, ages, everyone is unique and special, by restricting your choices you will miss out on soo much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience?

Fuck me - my thighs are 27".

Stand next to me - you'll look thin then.

I was thinking the same lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get turned down many times to, cos I got a 6pack lol."

Me too - because I have a 'party 7'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey I have a 8 inch cock, so they can complain about my waist. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up."

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

Do you eat the biscuity sides and chocolate only to be left with the orange on your finger?

...or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey I have a 8 inch cock, so they can complain about my waist. Lol

Loads of guys on here have 8 inch cocks, at least, they say they do.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think I'm 26" or 28". I'm in the need a good meal category

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

indian lonely meal for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

indian lonely meal for one."

Ah can't scab some of yours then. I suppose I will have to go and forage for my own dinner. Gutted.... Plus side I can grab some more jaffa cakes for the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

Do you eat the biscuity sides and chocolate only to be left with the orange on your finger?

...or is it just me?

No that's just you! They fit in my mahoosive mouth in a oner. No messing here.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

This is why I have a totally unglamorous and honest body pic on public. Anyone who wants to see how big I am can take a look and decide for themselves.

PS I have the body of a 20year old cheerleader.

PPS It's buried in my back garden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.

What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.

indian lonely meal for one.

I would bring you a pack of Jaffa cakes and have a idea when I could put them and you could eat them off me? can you guess where?

Ah can't scab some of yours then. I suppose I will have to go and forage for my own dinner. Gutted.... Plus side I can grab some more jaffa cakes for the morning. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I have a totally unglamorous and honest body pic on public. Anyone who wants to see how big I am can take a look and decide for themselves.

PS I have the body of a 20year old cheerleader.

PPS It's buried in my back garden.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Are you pissed off because they turned down or because they said you weren't slim?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "

To be fair, and I mean this constructively and not as an insult, your body pictures make it difficult to tell. Perhaps it's the angle but you look like you have a bit of a pot belly in them. Maybe that was the problem.

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By *ornybobBuilderMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

No hope for me then I'm a 34" lol

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By *ornybobBuilderMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because your one of these sad blokes that hang around every week hoping someone will shag him or ask him to join in. Screams of desperation to me

I got this two days ago

Oh well I no I'm no tom cruise just Bob the builder I still sleep well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey I have a 8 inch cock, so they can complain about my waist. Lol

"
is that man inches

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain

show off

Actually, I just noticed a protruding lump. Think it is a peanut I ate earlier

I had to read all the thread and can't believe no-one's said it...Are you sure it's a peanut? Could it possibly be that you've got an erection?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol

so physical looks do not matter to you?

if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts.

I suppose we are all different, personally I couldn't get turned on by someone I was not physically attracted to no matter how much of a nice person they are

I alway's find it very odd when people will say they will literally shag anything so long as they get along, good for them but personally I couldn't "

To be fair it's usually blokes you see saying it's all about the personality, hoping to increase their chances by appearing to be nice, non-judgemental and not at all fussy.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

"yeah I get turned down all the time for being a fat bastard, you'll get over it

Love it

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain

show off

Actually, I just noticed a protruding lump. Think it is a peanut I ate earlier

I had to read all the thread and can't believe no-one's said it...Are you sure it's a peanut? Could it possibly be that you've got an erection?

You know what? I think you may be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "

Fuck them. They're obviously not worth it, if they're that fussy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

Oh, the luxury of a single guy being given not just a 'no thanks' but also a reason, instead of just being blocked! Some people may be slightly flabby at 30w, others ultra lean. They should have gone by topless photos, as it would be a clear indication of how you look. That said, they were honest, even if they could have said it a little differently.

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