FabSwingers.com forum: Women whats in their heads..

By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Just met a lady and when I talked to her about swinging she told me that she had some experience of three and foursomes..

She then said that if we met other couples she could have fun but would get jealous and couldnt cope to see me with other ladies..

Advice please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just met a lady and when I talked to her about swinging she told me that she had some experience of three and foursomes..

She then said that if we met other couples she could have fun but would get jealous and couldnt cope to see me with other ladies..

Advice please....."
is she a fb or your girlfriend ?

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

early days at the moment so not sure yet...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you like her and you are happy being exclusive to her, go for it and be happy.

if not, be honest and it may be you part ways, do so nicely.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but, in swinging..... no room for any jealousy

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By *atchadreamWoman
over a year ago

ST NEOTS

I have had a lovely partnership for about 3 years with a man I met in fabs.... my children loved him and we enjoyed a great time together. Although it was clear we were swingers, he asked me to do soft swap and full sex with girls... I loved him so it was not a problem and we had a wonderful time going to clubs, parties and meeting couples with the same agreement.... Swinging should not dictate your life, should enhance it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What she is saying to you is she likes you far to much to see you playing with others and could not cope. She see you maybe as more then a shag her lover?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you like her and you are happy being exclusive to her, go for it and be happy.

if not, be honest and it may be you part ways, do so nicely."

I agree.

Swinging is fun but if I had to choose between the two, I'd go for being exclusive. But if you're looking for a swinging relationship then be honest about it.

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

always truthful but be nice if i could have fun too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point meeting couples and others, she should get a thrill out of it.

If it is just one to ones she is after, that's where it should stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always truthful but be nice if i could have fun too..."
maybe she has been there got the T shirt and its all boring to her and she is looking for more now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this situation with a guy a cpl of years ago,......he...decided i could only play with him but expected to go and do his own thing with who ever he wanted. It didnt work out,. I resent being told who i could and couldnt meet and we met at chams so he knew the score. If she is showing signs of jealousy at this stage then i cant see it working. Unless you both want a non swinging relationship.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It sounds like she is saying threesomes etc. are fine as long as you don't play with other women. If you enjoy watching her play with others and just playing with her it could work. It's not my idea of fun but each to their own.

At least she didn't dismiss you because of your swinging.

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Well I like swinging....

As a single Ive been able to do what I like....

Love to meet new people and not just for the sex....

Ill be truthful with her and see where it goes...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well I like swinging....

As a single Ive been able to do what I like....

Love to meet new people and not just for the sex....

Ill be truthful with her and see where it goes... "
Good plan.

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

hi claire hope your ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I like swinging....

As a single Ive been able to do what I like....

Love to meet new people and not just for the sex....

Ill be truthful with her and see where it goes... "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"hi claire hope your ok xx"
I am good, looking very tanned there....nice to see you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women whats in their heads.."

Who knows man, who knows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just met a lady and when I talked to her about swinging she told me that she had some experience of three and foursomes..

She then said that if we met other couples she could have fun but would get jealous and couldnt cope to see me with other ladies..

Advice please....."

depends what your after, I wouldn't be in a relationship where my partner was free to play with who they like but I wasn't allowed, sounds very one sided to me, but if your ok with that that all that matters, personally I think she may as well just meet couples alone, if she don't want you to join in why does she want to meet them with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but, in swinging..... no room for any jealousy"

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"hi claire hope your ok xxI am good, looking very tanned there....nice to see you x

overcast today tan is fading lol...

nice to see you to x...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just met a lady and when I talked to her about swinging she told me that she had some experience of three and foursomes..

She then said that if we met other couples she could have fun but would get jealous and couldnt cope to see me with other ladies..

Advice please....."

Looks like the cb6000 for you in the future

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By *uro anchor OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"Just met a lady and when I talked to her about swinging she told me that she had some experience of three and foursomes..

She then said that if we met other couples she could have fun but would get jealous and couldnt cope to see me with other ladies..

Advice please.....

had to google that lol...

Looks like the cb6000 for you in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women whats in their heads..

Who knows man, who knows..."

if I knew the answer to that I'd be a very rich man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women whats in their heads..

Who knows man, who knows...

if I knew the answer to that I'd be a very rich man

No you wouldn't everyone knows they will change their mind it's in their nature lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Women whats in their heads..

Who knows man, who knows...

if I knew the answer to that I'd be a very rich man

My head is very simple...

When's payday

Are the cats fed

When's my next shag

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

"Women whats in their heads..

Who knows man, who knows...

if I knew the answer to that I'd be a very rich man

My head is very simple...

When's payday

Are the cats fed

When's my next shag

As for your problem... Just be honest with her and about what you want.

Relationships are about give and take but you only have to give what you are willing to.

And +1 to no room for jealousy in swinging

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