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"Heard two people chatting about this in a coffee shop earlier, one said "Oh yes I must be, I have so many friends on FB" " Sad. I wonder how many they see. | |||
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"I don't have fb....im clearly a social retard " Thats what I thought. | |||
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"I've never wished to be popular really. I get on with people really well, but I have never considered myself to be popular. " ^^^^This! | |||
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"define popular..." Whatever you perceive it to be | |||
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"I'm not too sure to be honest! Does having lots of friends on book face count as being popular? " For that women it obviously did. | |||
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"I've never wished to be popular really. I get on with people really well, but I have never considered myself to be popular. ^^^^This!" | |||
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"I'm not too sure to be honest! Does having lots of friends on book face count as being popular? For that women it obviously did. " Well Luke doesn't do book face... So he's Billy no mates I have 402 friends on that site! So I must be miss popularity | |||
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"Popularity doesn't interest me. Nor does acceptance. Respect does though. I fear that for many that do crave popularity it could be a very superficial existence. " I wanted to say something along these lines.. But you say it much better! | |||
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"Popularity doesn't interest me. Nor does acceptance. Respect does though. I fear that for many that do crave popularity it could be a very superficial existence. " Someone's been reading their Machiavelli! | |||
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"is being popular such a bad thing? " Not at all. But neither is it necessary. | |||
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"No. I'm the last person anyone invites to a party. None of my old classmates friend requested me on Facebook. My phone never rings for a chat. Maybe I'm just unsociable " This is so me! Starting to think I should play along with the government scheme phone calls just so I get to chat on the phone But to answer the question no I'm not popular. | |||
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"Popularity doesn't interest me. Nor does acceptance. Respect does though. I fear that for many that do crave popularity it could be a very superficial existence. Someone's been reading their Machiavelli! " It did sound quite deep didn't it! | |||
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"No. I'm the last person anyone invites to a party. None of my old classmates friend requested me on Facebook. My phone never rings for a chat. Maybe I'm just unsociable This is so me! Starting to think I should play along with the government scheme phone calls just so I get to chat on the phone But to answer the question no I'm not popular. " people who know me like me, I'm very nice I just prefer my own company, I don't gossip or want to be centre of attention in any situation not involving naked men | |||
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"Popularity doesn't interest me. Nor does acceptance. Respect does though. I fear that for many that do crave popularity it could be a very superficial existence. " I totally agree! | |||
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"I am not 'popular' on here as I am true to myself and I notice that if someone steps out too far in one direction on the forum threads, in a way that makes them unique...different. .confident. ...the response on here seems to be.. to censor. ..to squash them. Even if they themselves were not the instigator and the person was simply standing up for their beliefs. " It's already been suggested in a second thread this evening that you let it drop hun, you are not doing yourself any favours by labouring the point. *******************8 I don't consider myself to be popular but my arse seems to be since I joined Fab! | |||
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"Heard two people chatting about this in a coffee shop earlier, one said "Oh yes I must be, I have so many friends on FB" " I don't feel popular, but Sandra is very popular and likeable. Think I just come across as far too serious and maybe stuffy, which really isn't true. I am just a quiet and fairly shy person. | |||
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"Being popular does not equate to feeling secure and confident necessarily. My experience is that the people who court popularity are rarely the popular people. The people I and others gravitate to don't actively seek or realise their popularity. They are just jolly nice and interesting people to be around. " Yes...thats been my experience too | |||
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"To be honest I haven't a clue, I suspect not! I'm very pass remarkable, sarcastic, and often engage the gob before thinking, pretty much a straight talker, dont suffer fools and have a pretty shit hot bullshit radar...but hell that's me. I'm afraid, am very much the same in the real world! But am pretty much harmless, guess I'm a marmite kinda gal " Lol...yep! Me too! I get on ok in real life though! | |||
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"Well , thats me buggered then cuz i only have 20 on there " 20... I only have one! mind you it's not under my name and those that have found it and sent friend requests have been rejected | |||
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"The idea of popularity is not something I have cared much about since being a teen. I know that my outspoken nature has, amongst some, made me quite the reverse. However, as long as family and friends like me that is all I really care about." Same here I really dont mind if people think im an arse, i get on great with my mates and family and that suits me fine | |||
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"I like me... Nuff said... . Someone has to! " Mwwaaahhhh...!!!! | |||
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"I like me... Nuff said... . Someone has to! " Admire, yes. Adore, definitely, worship absolutely. Like though | |||
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"I like me... Nuff said... . Someone has to! Admire, yes. Adore, definitely, worship absolutely. Like though " Shhhhhhhh...!!! We were supposed to be keeping us secret... | |||
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"This thread reads like it is a bad thing to be popular. It wasn't asking if you court popularity. Very strange on a site where people try and hook up to find those people vying to prove they are unpopular. " Lickety, I think Femme was asking a kind of rhetorical question, just to provoke the debate like. | |||
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"This thread reads like it is a bad thing to be popular. It wasn't asking if you court popularity. Very strange on a site where people try and hook up to find those people vying to prove they are unpopular. " Interesting as your perception is LS, its one of those threads where people can make their own mind up, you have chosen to think it a negative, which is interesting in itself. | |||
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"This thread reads like it is a bad thing to be popular. It wasn't asking if you court popularity. Very strange on a site where people try and hook up to find those people vying to prove they are unpopular. Lickety, I think Femme was asking a kind of rhetorical question, just to provoke the debate like. " I was trying to inject some debate by countering all the other posts. I won't be very popular for that. | |||
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"This thread reads like it is a bad thing to be popular. It wasn't asking if you court popularity. Very strange on a site where people try and hook up to find those people vying to prove they are unpopular. Lickety, I think Femme was asking a kind of rhetorical question, just to provoke the debate like. I was trying to inject some debate by countering all the other posts. I won't be very popular for that. " It's over rated anyway | |||
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"as popular as a fart in a space suit " however like the stone roses sang : i wanna be adored. | |||
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"Heard two people chatting about this in a coffee shop earlier, one said "Oh yes I must be, I have so many friends on FB" " I don't use fb just fab, so in those terms very unpopular. | |||
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"Popularity doesn't interest me. Nor does acceptance. Respect does though. I fear that for many that do crave popularity it could be a very superficial existence. I wanted to say something along these lines.. But you say it much better! " very well said and I agree | |||
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"I'm not too sure to be honest! Does having lots of friends on book face count as being popular? " No idont think so just means you are very nosey or you know a lot of nosey people ! Lol | |||
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"I'm not too sure to be honest! Does having lots of friends on book face count as being popular? No idont think so just means you are very nosey or you know a lot of nosey people ! Lol " oh btw did not mean you particularly "you" as in people on face book who have lots of friends .... | |||
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"Well, a lot of people do seem to contact me when they need something; assistance of some kind, a driver or a good laugh on a night out. Not sure if that means i'm popular though. I'm just reliable and sacrifice my time for others. " I would say that is an indication of popularity if you are someone's go to person when in need. I think a lot of people are popular and know it but are humble too which isn't a bad thing. | |||
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"Oh and 15 of the 20 are family " I've about 200 and 80% are friends of my kids they have grown up with so I do know them, the rest are a mix of people I have met and some from another site I was on plus a couple who have the same surname I was born with and a lady who has the same as my mum | |||
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"Heard two people chatting about this in a coffee shop earlier, one said "Oh yes I must be, I have so many friends on FB" " Friends i can count on 2 hands acquaintances i have a few thats how i see it friends are worth their weight in gold :P | |||
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"I do hope so, I really do. I don't know what I would do if I wasn't" Now stop making me chuckle xxx and remember to use the sarky button... | |||
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"I do hope so, I really do. I don't know what I would do if I wasn't Now stop making me chuckle xxx and remember to use the sarky button..." i love you | |||
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"I do hope so, I really do. I don't know what I would do if I wasn't Now stop making me chuckle xxx and remember to use the sarky button... i love you " I love you too, you have a bum to die for | |||
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"I do hope so, I really do. I don't know what I would do if I wasn't Now stop making me chuckle xxx and remember to use the sarky button..." sarky me...... | |||
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"I do hope so, I really do. I don't know what I would do if I wasn't" Honesty, a rare commodity x | |||
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"Not at all, but if I befriend you then ya got to be as crazy as me " I don't think your that popular at the stroke department of the hospital | |||
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"Not at all, but if I befriend you then ya got to be as crazy as me I don't think your that popular at the stroke department of the hospital " Oh you'd be surprised | |||
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"Not at all, but if I befriend you then ya got to be as crazy as me I don't think your that popular at the stroke department of the hospital Oh you'd be surprised " ...no wonder people's life expectancy is going up, up north lol | |||
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