FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing - Question for guys?

By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

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I guess 'kissing chemistry' between two people comes down to personal taste. Someone I find a really sexy kisser paid me a great compliment on mine recently, and it made me think.

Guys I find are either good kissers or, um, not. And if not, there's not a lot I can do 'on the fly' to change their technique!

I wondered if men find the same - do women respond more to what you are doing and change much, or do they mostly stay how they are when they walked through the door??

What 'kissing qualities' thrill you most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good kissing is pretty hard to pin down I think as it's like a work of art that you build as you go along and both parties should probably be responding to each other rather one trying to match up with the other?

A good kiss can be amazing, but if you are not in sync or can't respond to each others subtle queues then yes it's usually hard to pull things back.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.

Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Sorry I just saw this was a q for guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the same can go for women.

In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves.

God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting my lip sucked and nibbled on does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pair of warm soft lips gets me every time when I kiss a woman.Ive had some in the past where they come at you with a wide open mouth immediately followed by a tongue being rammed down you throat YUK it puts me off straight away.A good woman kisser is when you kiss the sensation goes right down to your cock with a nice feeling of wanting to wrap your arms around her and protect her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easy answer, i dont know lol

dont think kissing, the same good sex, si something that can be worked out with a pencil, as it were.

see, with some meets, soft sweet tender kisses have been the order, others, hard passionate ones, and its the same between us.

its just kind of what the time calls for.

i tend to change technique dependant on who is kissing me and how they are doing it, ie, hard closed mouth, then i do the same, little pecks, similarly, tongues and dancing in the mouth hall, then so be it.

have been told im a good kisser, but who knows.

obviously those that compliment you on something at the time are after something.

all i know is its kissing that really gets my motor runnin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the dance thing is a good analogy. You need to have the chemistry and both be able to adapt to each other. I think everyone changes how they kiss, depending on who they are kissing. Which is no bad thing.

I don't think I kiss everyone the same way. The same way that everyone has to adapt to different people when it comes to sex.

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Sorry I just saw this was a q for guys...."

No worry, it's such a lovely subject....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pair of warm soft lips gets me every time when I kiss a woman.Ive had some in the past where they come at you with a wide open mouth immediately followed by a tongue being rammed down you throat YUK it puts me off straight away.A good woman kisser is when you kiss the sensation goes right down to your cock with a nice feeling of wanting to wrap your arms around her and protect her. "

Its normally guys who come at ya with an open mouth and try and remove any makeup off you maybe wearing ..then dive in with a very wet tongue....yuck yuck

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think the same can go for women.

God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing

Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the same can go for women.

God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing

Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!)."

That has been my experience. I also think there is then a close correlation to how much they let go during foreplay and sex and allow the dance to move to other parts of the body

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I think the same can go for women.

God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing

Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!)."

,.... kissing is a private silent conversation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like to see a big manly man go weak at the knees. But I do kiss people differently

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" kissing is a private silent conversation.

I like that.

I'm terrible at kissing.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Nothing worse than a hungry goldfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to practice with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.

Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically...."

I totally agree with you. A good kiss can change my mood instantly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff

Ah, but then someone would have to post and 'verify' them ....oh, wait a minute......

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff

I don't kiss and tell (well, not about the kissing anyway).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we need a "good kisser" or "bad kisser" tick on the profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm

Kissing

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe we need a "good kisser" or "bad kisser" tick on the profiles

You've given me an idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is true for me. It may be quite bad on my part (maybe) but sometimes that first kiss dictates the whole meet.

I'm a bit weird maybe. But the way someone's kiss me i think shows if they're interested in me and have that 'lust'.

Kissing is what turns me on. So, that would be the make it or break it element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess 'kissing chemistry' between two people comes down to personal taste. Someone I find a really sexy kisser paid me a great compliment on mine recently, and it made me think.

Guys I find are either good kissers or, um, not. And if not, there's not a lot I can do 'on the fly' to change their technique!

I wondered if men find the same - do women respond more to what you are doing and change much, or do they mostly stay how they are when they walked through the door??

What 'kissing qualities' thrill you most?

We remember kissing as a route to what we really wanted when were young, then forgot about it when we had our daily portion on a plate...as it were. It took me a while to realise and re-discover the sheer intimacy of it...as the perfect preamble and accompaniment to 'the joy of sex'!

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By *etsgetdownMan
over a year ago

Belfast

lips that are moist

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I lurve kissing,Ive had women say you take my breath away. Last year I met this girl outside a nightclub and we chatted and had a snog. We didnt meet up that night I was gutted. I told my friend on here about what happened. She said to me couldnt she tell by how you kissed her that youd be amazing in bed. I thort that was a nice compliment

Two days later I found the girl again and we fell in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.

Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a passionate kiss and someone who can take me on a sensual journey with their mouths..

Once had a guy who's idea of kissing was to open his mouth, limpet it to my face, wiggle his tongue as far down my throat as possible and dribble large amounts of saliva.......most unpleasant it felt like I was drowning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah kissing a great love of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.

Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically...."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.

Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong."

I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there.

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.

Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong.

I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there."

It works the other way round for me too though - a fabulous kiss can 'transport' me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the same can go for women.

God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.

Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong.

I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there.

It works the other way round for me too though - a fabulous kiss can 'transport' me."

That's true. I did meet someone and all we did for the first three meets was kiss. And kiss for hours. My legs would be jelly. The sex was bloody awful though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.

Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong."

it took one of my regular men 2 years to kiss me. When he did it made everything feel different and I wanted him more. Now he kisses me passionately, sucks on my tongue and tells me to put my tongue deep in his mouth. I still don't know what prompted him to kiss me the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not fussie who I kiss and like using toungues deep down their mouth, it so sexual that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always go really shy after someone's kissed me for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love kissing and also want it with people we meet

However we do not kiss our meets the way we kiss each other.

Meets are hot n horny , where as when we kiss its more about a sensual and deep connection we have with each other

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i kiss in many different ways .. i quite like the teasing non kisses right up to the full on ones ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do prefer guys with full lips if im honest, i...reckon they give better kisses on the whole.........thats whole and not hole

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I love kissing and think it is one of the most erotic things two people can do together, for me it is the start of play and the end of play. I find it so exciting when you meet someone and all you can think about his how good their lips will feel on yours and how much I want to taste them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's not a good kisser then it's a turn off. Overuse of tongue is also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I tingle and go lightheaded......THATS a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good kiss is when you both tease with

Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy can't kiss it's game over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy can't kiss it's game over!"
True . I think . Forget socials . Meet . Kiss . If its good stay . Not good . Go home

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By *enny the lip lickerMan
over a year ago

bath bristol

Kissing is sexy and you get a sense what a woman wants from kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy can't kiss it's game over! True . I think . Forget socials . Meet . Kiss . If its good stay . Not good . Go home "

Get you're coat, you're a crap kisser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good kiss is when you both tease with

Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue

Slurrrrp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a fair few brilliant kissers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Kiss my sugar lips...caress my hips..'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy can't kiss it's game over!"

True as kissing is a bug turn on for me they have to match my style

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"A good kiss is when you both tease with

Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue

Take note - easy on the tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good kiss is when you both tease with

Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue

Take note - easy on the tongue

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good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good kiss is when you both tease with

Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue

Take note - easy on the tongue

I've always had an admiration for your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kisses are very important to me. Some I have met like to really go for it and stick their tongues down your throat, but I don't like this.

For me I like just enough tongue to flick theirs, now and then brush across the top of their teeth, flick their lip little, gently tug their bottom lip, always have my hand on there cheek, stroking their ear, on their neck circling either side just behind their ear or gently running my hand through the back of their hair. I get a few compliments which is nice to hear

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