FabSwingers.com forum: Woman wants kidney back

By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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A woman who saved her dying husband's life by giving him one of her kidneys now wants the organ back after he dumped her for another woman

Would you want it back if it was you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! If it saved his life asking for it back is just like wishing him dead....in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No! If it saved his life asking for it back is just like wishing him dead....in my opinion!

I think that's the general idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

though i might curse, cry n feel hurt overall by the situation

i certainly not want it back.. id secretly enjoy the fact that every day he wakes up without dialysis he has to be grateful to me for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow she really must need some ORGANising in her life lol

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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Boom boom

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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I suppose she could think to herself that the new woman will never get away from her as she will always be a part of the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a guess.

american, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

Is it only 1 in 3? Thought it was higher nowadays!

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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No. Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

Arent the Marriage vows an agreement to stay together forever, for better or worse, in sickness and in Kidney Transplant ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would be well pissed off but just the knowledge he would always have me in his life would make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she is just kidneying herself lol

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

Arent the Marriage vows an agreement to stay together forever, for better or worse, in sickness and in Kidney Transplant ?

But what if you fall out of love?

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

She shooda had a pre-op pre-nup ...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

my mum used to say 'i want does'nt get'..

think she can want all she likes, the ex wont give it up lightly i supppose..

thought..?

would she have had to sign a consent form before surgery..?

then again not sure in the small print it would have, 'in the light of the recipient doing the wild thing with the donors friend, return of said organ is required'..

bet if she did get it back she would just fry it with some onions..

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"She shooda had a pre-op pre-nup ...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think she is just kidneying herself lol

that is offal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

Arent the Marriage vows an agreement to stay together forever, for better or worse, in sickness and in Kidney Transplant ?

But what if you fall out of love? "

Tuff Titty a Contracts a Contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be well pissed off but just the knowledge he would always have me in his life would make me smile

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

Arent the Marriage vows an agreement to stay together forever, for better or worse, in sickness and in Kidney Transplant ?

But what if you fall out of love?

Tuff Titty a Contracts a Contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think she is just kidneying herself lol

that is offal.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

marriage has very little to do with love, in most cases.

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"marriage has very little to do with love, in most cases."

lol I thought I was one cynical bitch but you beat me hands down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"marriage has very little to do with love, in most cases."

Whats love got to do with it

Whats love but a Secondhand emoshun...

...ooo i feel a Tina coming on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be well pissed off but just the knowledge he would always have me in his life would make me smile

ruby

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That is terrible. What would she do with it? Risk another transplant surgery and have it reattached? Which surgeon would put them both at risk like that?

Donating is supposed to be altruistic.

I hope she finds some peace at the loss of her relationship but I fear the ex and his new woman will be constantly checking the locks and looking over their shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Devon

wow, that suprises me.

i thought it was only americans that made such stupid requests.

well, i guess we are truly lost as a humanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Devon

wow, that suprises me.

i thought it was only americans that made such stupid requests.

well, i guess we are truly lost as a humanity"

lol give her a pasty n cream tea and im sure she'll be fine

*tongue in cheek*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"marriage has very little to do with love, in most cases.

Whats love got to do with it

Whats love but a Secondhand emoshun...

...ooo i feel a Tina coming on

i always thought the lyric was emulsion, and that it was a song about falling in love with a cheap assed decorator

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I'd cut him open with a steak knife, scoop it out with a spoon, declare "I think you'll find this is mine!" and leave him bleeding out on the floor.

or I'd move on and forget all about it.................or would I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is terrible. What would she do with it? Risk another transplant surgery and have it reattached? Which surgeon would put them both at risk like that?

Donating is supposed to be altruistic.

I hope she finds some peace at the loss of her relationship but I fear the ex and his new woman will be constantly checking the locks and looking over their shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd cut him open with a steak knife, scoop it out with a spoon, declare "I think you'll find this is mine!" and leave him bleeding out on the floor.

or I'd move on and forget all about it.................or would I!"

She could wash it down with a nice bottle of Cianti

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"I'd cut him open with a steak knife, scoop it out with a spoon, declare "I think you'll find this is mine!" and leave him bleeding out on the floor.

or I'd move on and forget all about it.................or would I!

She could wash it down with a nice bottle of Cianti

That did cross my mind but I don't like the texture of kidney...I'd probably feed it to the cats

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"A woman who saved her dying husband's life by giving him one of her kidneys now wants the organ back after he dumped her for another woman

Would you want it back if it was you? "

What a vile creature. From carrying out one of the most noble acts a person can possibly do, saving another persons life, to wanting condemn that same person to a life of suffering or even death just because they had a falling out. What a heartless bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As part of the divorce settlement, cant she ask for half of it back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my mum used to say 'i want does'nt get'..

think she can want all she likes, the ex wont give it up lightly i supppose..

thought..?

would she have had to sign a consent form before surgery..?

then again not sure in the small print it would have, 'in the light of the recipient doing the wild thing with the donors friend, return of said organ is required'..

bet if she did get it back she would just fry it with some onions..

Yuk that would mean she is eating herself yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Devon

Well if she's from around here, it could be her husband and brother she wants it back from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With one in three marriages ending in divorce, she should of made him sign an agreement to stay with her for ever, or give it back and die

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lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've never asked for more than then keys back after a split.

Emotionally, I drain them asking them "why?" until I understand. Some might have preferred giving me a kidney after that.

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"No. Devon

Well if she's from around here, it could be her husband and brother she wants it back from!

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"A woman who saved her dying husband's life by giving him one of her kidneys now wants the organ back after he dumped her for another woman

Would you want it back if it was you?

Yes I know. being left for another woman can't be the nicest of things to happen to someone....but I think it is either raw for the woman who has been left and she is seeking revenge or she is just a bitter woman altogether.

Whats wrong with asking for the car instead? She would get more out of it

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By *ugby 123 OP Couple
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over a year ago

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"I'd cut him open with a steak knife, scoop it out with a spoon, declare "I think you'll find this is mine!" and leave him bleeding out on the floor.

or I'd move on and forget all about it.................or would I!"

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

with steak in a pie nom nom

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Sounds like The Merchant of Venice. Proper Shylock behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell him I'm studying surgery coming for it one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"though i might curse, cry n feel hurt overall by the situation

i certainly not want it back.. id secretly enjoy the fact that every day he wakes up without dialysis he has to be grateful to me for that.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd cut him open with a steak knife, scoop it out with a spoon, declare "I think you'll find this is mine!" and leave him bleeding out on the floor.

or I'd move on and forget all about it.................or would I!"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think it's ridiculous and should be laughed out of court if it ever gets there.

You can't hold someone to ransom like this. 'if you leave me I'll take back my life saving kidney!!'

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It would never get to court.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think it's ridiculous and should be laughed out of court if it ever gets there.

You can't hold someone to ransom like this. 'if you leave me I'll take back my life saving kidney!!'"

She has no case. It was a gift. You don't get gifts back if a relationship ends. Any armchair lawyer could tell her that.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"It would never get to court. "

rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeez no no no if I took the decision to do that for somebody in the first place under no circumstances would I expect anything in return and certainly not want it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewwwwwwwe.. No way would I want it back, after it's been inside someone like him...

*Presupposing that he was the only guilty party in the divorce proceedings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy accepts one of his wife's kidneys in order to stay alive, and then dumped her for another woman???

That took some guts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i certainly not want it back.. id secretly enjoy the fact that every day he wakes up without dialysis he has to be grateful to me for that.."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think she is trying to take the piss .. literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"marriage has very little to do with love, in most cases.

Whats love got to do with it

Whats love but a Secondhand emoshun...

...ooo i feel a Tina coming on

Our Tina must be busy, I cannot believe she does not have a witticism to share regarding the OP .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she has a nice chianti waiting

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I think it's ridiculous and should be laughed out of court if it ever gets there.

You can't hold someone to ransom like this. 'if you leave me I'll take back my life saving kidney!!'

She has no case. It was a gift. You don't get gifts back if a relationship ends. Any armchair lawyer could tell her that. "

Even if it were a gift no court would find in her favour as that would be judicial murder. Hence the reason it would never get to court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't read the story properly. I just thought she was bitching to the papers. She's actually trying to take him to court?!?!?!?!!!

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