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Areas you won't meet

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

This is more about not meeting people from certain areas. I never meet people from the area around near where I work. Anyone else got certain areas they won't meet?

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By *nn and PeterCouple
over a year ago

Stratford Upon Avon

We won't meet people near were we live Ann prefers to meet at chameleons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet people in the same town as me, I don't mind meeting people that live near where I work, it's quite handy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer not to meet people from where we live and work

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I won't meet people in the same town as me, I don't mind meeting people that live near where I work, it's quite handy! "

I work with the public so best for me to avoid it. It could prove embarrassing.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No-one near where I live.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better "

It's not really about where people come from.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better "

This...

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better

This..."

Like I said, it's not really about where people come from. I avoid where I work as I work with the public there. In my job I need discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind to be honest. I'm always a little careful when first contacting pele from my home town. Particularly those that don't have any pics

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

What I meant was they can come from near where I work or near where I live, it matters little to me

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"What I meant was they can come from near where I work or near where I live, it matters little to me "

Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There arent that many local to me anyway but I tend to make a decision once they get chatting. Ive blocked those who I feel are fishing for too much information or who I feel aren't discrete. I did meet someone who lived in the next street to me a few times but he was only in the area for 12 months.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. "

Well I work on building sites and usually tell the lads in the canteen I'm on here anyway

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What I meant was they can come from near where I work or near where I live, it matters little to me

Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. "

And some people don't. It looks like Superramfan is one of them.

I am certainly more careful about meeting people where I work, but I have done so and its gone fine. I think the only time I'll turn people down is when they are obviously too far away for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a gay man, back in the 50's, 60's practising homosexuality was illegal, men met in secret, never with local people, in case they were recognised, people who worked in public jobs, or " sensitive "jobs, lived in fear, loss of job, prison, ridicule.

Homosexual men decided enough was enough and they had a right to meet and live their life as they wanted to, it took a riot in USA, The Stonewall riots, to spark change around the world, about 1973 I got involved with CHE, campaign for homosexual equality, and spent most weekends marching in one university town or another, sleeping on floors, getting Glammed up and becoming part of the visible face of being gay,

Slowly laws were changed, some people were killed, some lost their family, jobs and friends, by coming out.

Now being gay is more widely accepted, the age of consent is 16, some people will never come out, that's their choice, if every gay person had green hair, it would surprise many, just who is gay !

Swinging isn't illegal, it isn't something to hide, unless you think it is wrong, by keeping it behind closed doors that will never change, maybe people think it is just about sexual gratification, and is selfish, unlike being gay, which isn't a choice, it is genetic.

If every swinger had yellow hair, We would be surprised by the numbers, Unless you stand up for your right to freedom of choice, you will never find out what goes on behind closed doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

France....

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I don't meet on my doorstep. I also won't go into certain areas of sheffield, nottingham or Birmingham.

But i need tires on my car to get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious.

Well I work on building sites and usually tell the lads in the canteen I'm on here anyway "

Which is precisely why some people have to be more cautious.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I can fully understand why some folks have to practice caution, luckily I don't have to

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I don't have a vehicle. I'm usually happy to meet within an hour's public transport journey away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I meet home or away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only meeting socially...

And not by home or work

Not rushing into stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, now it make sense as to why i can never get a local meet. I get it now lol three years too late haha

That's it. I won't be complaining about that anymore.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Home town or near work. No one would recognise me from my look, but if my car is seen then that can create problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to meet anyone local to me though I have done but I like to see a face picture first to make sure I don't know them. I don't go to the Lodge as its a little too close for comfort given the only time I went my son's mate was there and a few from the estate where I live; one of whom who whilst has a couple's profile with his wife is also cheating on her so whilst I accept people want and expect discretion, I would rather not go there again

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We won't meet anyone from the same town as us. Hubby has a sensitive job so we don't go to the Newcastle social either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love local funx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Home town or near work. No one would recognise me from my look, but if my car is seen then that can create problems "

Buy a Tina car with big headlights

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Home town or near work. No one would recognise me from my look, but if my car is seen then that can create problems

Buy a Tina car with big headlights "

That has crossed my mind

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I won't meet local married men at home as it's a small town and whilst I have no problems if neighbours were to gossip over the yard wall about how many different men visit my house or how many different blokes I've been out with in the local, i wouldn't want them noticing Mary Smith's husband visiting me...other than that, not bothered overmuch about where they're from and have met a few from my workplace (mind you, there are about 10k people at my workplace so it'd reduce my victim pool significantly if I were to exclude them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with a little distance between where people live and play we like it. We really wouldn't want to be seeing meets in the local tesco's etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't mind to be honest. But we're always a little careful when first contacting people from our home town. Particularly those that don't have any pics on their profiles "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is vital in my opinion due to the very sensitive nature of my job.

In terms of meeting people locally, I tend to let that be a judgement call, but again I take my time with it and have a red flag system I use.

I am a bit of a petrol head and my car tends to stand out so again have to be careful when I take that out on the town.

Also I will not meet people from certain areas that I know we will have nothing in common in.

Raz xxx

P.s. DB9 Queen - My FAV Model of Aston Martin!

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Being a gay man, back in the 50's, 60's practising homosexuality was illegal, men met in secret, never with local people, in case they were recognised, people who worked in public jobs, or " sensitive "jobs, lived in fear, loss of job, prison, ridicule.

Homosexual men decided enough was enough and they had a right to meet and live their life as they wanted to, it took a riot in USA, The Stonewall riots, to spark change around the world, about 1973 I got involved with CHE, campaign for homosexual equality, and spent most weekends marching in one university town or another, sleeping on floors, getting Glammed up and becoming part of the visible face of being gay,

Slowly laws were changed, some people were killed, some lost their family, jobs and friends, by coming out.

Now being gay is more widely accepted, the age of consent is 16, some people will never come out, that's their choice, if every gay person had green hair, it would surprise many, just who is gay !

Swinging isn't illegal, it isn't something to hide, unless you think it is wrong, by keeping it behind closed doors that will never change, maybe people think it is just about sexual gratification, and is selfish, unlike being gay, which isn't a choice, it is genetic.

If every swinger had yellow hair, We would be surprised by the numbers, Unless you stand up for your right to freedom of choice, you will never find out what goes on behind closed doors. "

I agree with you. However, it is in my contract that, due to the sensitive nature of my job, I cannot be seen to be doing anything 'they' deem to bring the profession into disrespect. Hence my wish for discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a meet where the couple walked to our house it was that close

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We have had a meet where the couple walked to our house it was that close "

I walk to a lot of my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no choice. has to be in my area

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't mind close to my house. Just not near work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet in the middle

Fuck that

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