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"Personally, messages from someone with a cock avatar gets deleted: I'm not alone!" Oddly enough, you smirk, so do I. Shows lack of imagination where that assumption might be wrong. | |||
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 try different pictures, torso and body shots!
Your a small fish in a big sea where there is loads of other fish! | |||
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"Keep trying Go to clubs and socials... You have many cock pictures and one of them looks like your taking a pee try different pictures, torso and body shots!
Your a small fish in a big sea where there is loads of other fish!"Had to check his photos after that and he does kinda look like gets taking a pee in his sink or a very skinny tall toilet bowl | |||
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"So who's the lady holding your cock if you've not had any meets ???" The picture doesnt have to be from a meet on Fab | |||
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"So who's the lady holding your cock if you've not had any meets ???" It's from a previous relationship x | |||
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"Personally, messages from someone with a cock avatar gets deleted: I'm not alone!" Perhaps your right, I took the mindset "this is what ya getting" but if it's coming across as crude it's a easy fix | |||
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"Keep trying Go to clubs and socials... You have many cock pictures and one of them looks like your taking a pee try different pictures, torso and body shots!
Your a small fish in a big sea where there is loads of other fish!"Kinda feel like nemo... But nobody looking for me :p | |||
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"So who's the lady holding your cock if you've not had any meets ??? It's from a previous relationship x" Hope she dosnt mind lol agree about the photo where it looks like your having a Pee | |||
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"Keep trying Go to clubs and socials... You have many cock pictures and one of them looks like your taking a pee try different pictures, torso and body shots!
Your a small fish in a big sea where there is loads of other fish!"This pic was to show of the tight buns... I was washing sand out of my bits after a trip to Blackpool :p I shall remove it post haste haha | |||
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"Keep trying Go to clubs and socials... You have many cock pictures and one of them looks like your taking a pee try different pictures, torso and body shots!
Your a small fish in a big sea where there is loads of other fish!
This pic was to show of the tight buns... I was washing sand out of my bits after a trip to Blackpool :p I shall remove it post haste haha"And very tight arse you have but need to retake it | |||
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"Why so many cock pics? Just why??" because his cock is a thing of beauty, and yes, we are on a sex site ! | |||
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"Why so many cock pics? Just why??" Perhaps I over compensating for lack of face pics? I didn't really see it as a issue :/ nor have I given it any thought... I enjoy taking them tbh, closet naturist perhaps :D | |||
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"Why so many cock pics? Just why?? because his cock is a thing of beauty, and yes, we are on a sex site !" Well said :D (and thank you, even tho it was really just a general statement and not specifically about my cock ha) | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance? "I think the line in your profile stating that you are friendly, polite and intelligent is a bit off putting for many women, they are not looking for love, a husband or relationship, many already have that, and it doesn't fulfill them sexually, but looks good to family and friends. they are looking to get fucked, and you don't need to be, friendly, polite or intelligent to do that, just have a hard cock and very few morals.... | |||
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"Cut down to two cock pics maxi. Add face and body shots. Can be a mix of clothed and naked. Then pic a fave for profile pic. You don't give much away about your interests in the blurb so I'd improve that. " This was my original blurb: (brace yaself) I was born with a cheeky charm and devilish smile to accompany it. By very deffinition: a scouser. I am BY NO means a north face wearing hoody/ street urchin who is out to "bang birds" "slam sluts". I am a lively, intelligent and confident young single male who is down to earth and can talk with pretty much anyone. Even those before mentioned scallys if situation calls for it. I tell myself am adaptable I am clean presentable and fully shaven I have wisdom beyond my years, but too look at me you wouldn't believe my age. Now @ 28 yrs old I made the concious decision to experience life to its Fulist and explore my sexuality. I spent 3 yrs as a "entertainer" in Spain before I ventured into swinging. As a result i have experienced quite a large variety of partners: young / old. Tall / small. Skinny/ large. Even managed to squeeze in a few cheeky guys in. Each unique in there own special way and most of which I am still in contact with. I have no real preference when chooising a partner, aslong as we can talk, laugh and above all enjoy ourselves. Yes swinging is about getting down and dirty and releasing those inner urges. Am all for it, but really I want to meet like minded people. I want to learn more about myself and how to be the best I can be sexually. I am looking for one night stands, a regular FB, new experiences! Party's! Pretty much anything to immerse me into the swinging world and push my boundaries I have a large number of friends but they far to prudish and /or immature to understand. Let alone talk about it with. Discretion is very important to me!! I have face pics and am verified. Swinging is my lil secret. Am sure it's yours too. So lets keep it that way! I have job I enjoy, and a lifestyle that most young males have. I have no children. Nor do I wish to ever have any. I am by my own definition a free spirit - always happy and smiling. Always first to say yes to a party and usually the one in the middle of it all. I am fond of the usual suspects: Oral -giving and reciving - am quite good Anal Hand play. Foreplay for me is never to be rushed... And it starts b4 you meet! I like to fuck hard! but that's my own pref. I have said already I am adaptable. I am looking for new experiences so if that means I have to change my game then I will be all the better for it. I do however have some experiences I would like to either try or enjoy again: # the cougars - oooo how I love you! I think it stems from fanaticising about my teachers at school ( we all did it!!) But I also know from my experience the older lady is by far the most insatiable creature on earth. Knowing what they what! How they want it. More importantly how to get it! they more often than not have little inhibitions, like myself. #dogging - I think it's really sexy to watch a couple fuck, get called over and join in. I love dirty, naughty sex! # Cuckhold / humiliation- term I have just learned, not sure I still get it. This fascinates me! I don't know why but the thought of pleasuring someone's wife to orgasm after orgasm while they watch really excites me. #party/group mixed - I wanna watch/ join as 2 lady's get ravished by 3 or 4 men. Or 1 lady if she is that Keen. #bukkue - don't know If I spelt that right, the Inner cave man in me would love to be part of a group showering a lady in our man milk! Watching as she laps It up, blowing bubbles and swallowing.mmmm # role play - I love dressing up, acting, performing in general, add sex to that and am smiling all week. #3somes -mmf and ffm - like most men bi-fem's are a life long passion. I also love listening to a lady i am fucking try to scream with pleasure as she is gagging on another mans cock or vice versa #DP - I have a dark urge to discover the feeling of another mans cock rubbing mine while inside a woman. #outdoor action- I love it out doors! The closer to the public the better. Recently had sex in a local park with a friend of mine, up a tree as people walked dogs. (it was late evening so no kids... I like danger am not perverted!) Am sure this list will grow as I delve deeper into my sexuality.. I don't mind videos or cameras but Unless we are regular "meets" I may wear a mask. ( discretion remember!) Nearly the end I work a lot so I won't always be able to make last min invites. Just ask ile let you know. I will try my upmost I ain't here sniffing I am committing myself to this so there will always be another time Wow that was pretty epic and if you got this far I salute you! I suppose If your still reading your either thinking he can't half waffle or your interested, perhaps both. Hope it's the latter x swing safe... It's been emotional! | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance?
I think the line in your profile stating that you are friendly, polite and intelligent is a bit off putting for many women, they are not looking for love, a husband or relationship, many already have that, and it doesn't fulfill them sexually, but looks good to family and friends. they are looking to get fucked, and you don't need to be, friendly, polite or intelligent to do that, just have a hard cock and very few morals...."This is a question of preference - some like / want it that way others are more "direct". it not just my cock I am advertising here (despite the what' the pics suggest :p) it's me and although I enjoy the occasional "in & out " I would prefer to have a rapport with people, the social side... | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance?
I think the line in your profile stating that you are friendly, polite and intelligent is a bit off putting for many women, they are not looking for love, a husband or relationship, many already have that, and it doesn't fulfill them sexually, but looks good to family and friends. they are looking to get fucked, and you don't need to be, friendly, polite or intelligent to do that, just have a hard cock and very few morals...."Rubbish!!! | |||
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"You say you are straight yet you say you have been with guys.very odd" I think every man secretly has that "wonder" well I faced mine and now know I am decidedly straight!  | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance?
I think the line in your profile stating that you are friendly, polite and intelligent is a bit off putting for many women, they are not looking for love, a husband or relationship, many already have that, and it doesn't fulfill them sexually, but looks good to family and friends. they are looking to get fucked, and you don't need to be, friendly, polite or intelligent to do that, just have a hard cock and very few morals....
Rubbish!!! "
Speaking as a woman who knows exactly what she wants I DO expect the men I meet to be friendly, polite and intelligent enough to be able to converse with as I like to have a rapport with them before deciding whether I want to get my hands on their cocks. I have never yet met a man based on his cock (however hard it is!) nor am I ever likely to..
I am sure there are many women who do just want sex irrespective of the personality of the man they fuck but to some of us personality plays a big part in attraction.
OP I did not see your original written profile or pics but as it is now your personality definitely shines thro!! | |||
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"Personally, messages from someone with a cock avatar gets deleted: I'm not alone! Perhaps your right, I took the mindset "this is what ya getting" but if it's coming across as crude it's a easy fix " Keep the cock pics until they respond and ask for them. The one with the rule against your cock I suggest you bin. The profile is too long for a single man. I don't know who you contact but if it is Kelly Brook and Jessica Alba look alikes then you are one in a billion and a response is going to be very unlikely. Bon chance! | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance? "There are lots of single guys on here and some sell themselves better than others. Its a combination of all things including being confident and not appearing desperate. | |||
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"There are lots of single guys on here and some sell themselves better than others. Its a combination of all things including being confident and not appearing desperate. " so how am I doing? Not a "ego trip" question, I have made a few alterations based on advice I thought to be good... You didn't see the previous version so fresh eyes= unbiased opinion | |||
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"What they said, plus I don't like seeing pics of the guy and a woman he's met. keep that private. profile is very long, I gave up " Chuck in some jokes to keep their interest.  | |||
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"Aviator changed! Blurb is now much more in depth! Cock picks reduced! (new pics will have to wait) Any other advice?? " much better and good to see a single man listening to advice and acting on it. Good luck and enjoy OP | |||
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 e ! FAQ may be of help ! Lol x
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"I dont like seeing action shots and close ups of another woman and I think you can see from my profile im far from being intimidated ! Lol x just a personal preference. It wouldnt stop me replying if everything else was spot on though - it just grates. I read your long profile and found it interesting. I would mention the caveat that you have experienced guys as curious but no longer curious - this defo straight. Im the same - done it didnt like it ! X Not sure about the ref to " entertainer " I first thought escort , then stripper ?? Maybe just say v experienced etc Ive got a lot of info in my even longer than yours p e ! FAQ may be of help ! Lol x
Good luck "Hotel entertainer /rep... It was quite similar to a escort tbh. But. Without the pay :p I've cleared that up now and been more specific about my guy experiences - and how I am now - sound advice xx Thank you x | |||
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"Okay so I getting conflicting views now - we are all different after all so it's understandable. The ruler pic... Why is this a issue ? It shows clearly my girth and gives a good indication of actual length - I not trying to trick anyone here? As for the pic with another lady, if your intimidated by other women your on the wrong site I think ( no offence intended x ) I have privatising cock pics.. Add a bit of allure??" That's what happens when you lack imagination and confidence and ask for advice: it WILL be conflicting and you CAN'T please everyone. It's YOUR profile, you know what you want from the site and what you can offer: we haven't a clue. If you want 101 pics of your knob with Sky remotes, Lynx cans, tape measures et al: knock yourself out! | |||
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"Okay so I getting conflicting views now - we are all different after all so it's understandable. The ruler pic... Why is this a issue ? It shows clearly my girth and gives a good indication of actual length - I not trying to trick anyone here? As for the pic with another lady, if your intimidated by other women your on the wrong site I think ( no offence intended x ) I have privatising cock pics.. Add a bit of allure?? That's what happens when you lack imagination and confidence and ask for advice: it WILL be conflicting and you CAN'T please everyone. It's YOUR profile, you know what you want from the site and what you can offer: we haven't a clue. If you want 101 pics of your knob with Sky remotes, Lynx cans, tape measures et al: knock yourself out! " If your going to get ratty kindly take your pent up frustration elsewhere! Maybe a electronic supplier for some rechargeable batteries!! ?? | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance? "Hello OP(original poster)welcome, its is frustrating I would imagine, stick around the forums, its fun, enlightening and can be quite entertaining in a dark humour kinda way....lots have people have made contact with prospective meets through here, although its not guaranteed, its a tad better than getting too down or frustrated. | |||
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"Okay so I getting conflicting views now - we are all different after all so it's understandable. The ruler pic... Why is this a issue ? It shows clearly my girth and gives a good indication of actual length - I not trying to trick anyone here? As for the pic with another lady, if your intimidated by other women your on the wrong site I think ( no offence intended x ) I have privatising cock pics.. Add a bit of allure?? That's what happens when you lack imagination and confidence and ask for advice: it WILL be conflicting and you CAN'T please everyone. It's YOUR profile, you know what you want from the site and what you can offer: we haven't a clue. If you want 101 pics of your knob with Sky remotes, Lynx cans, tape measures et al: knock yourself out! " To be fair we all know people get frustrated with not getting what they want out of the site you yourself have said on more than one occasion you struggle to find submissive black guys although that surprises me as there many about. Being aggressive with someone wanting pointers is less than helpful and you seem to relish doing so when they come on. Wouldn't it be more positive and helpful giving pointers in a positive direction rather than alienating people or if its not possible give this sort of thread a wide birth. | |||
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"Okay so I getting conflicting views now - we are all different after all so it's understandable. The ruler pic... Why is this a issue ? It shows clearly my girth and gives a good indication of actual length - I not trying to trick anyone here? As for the pic with another lady, if your intimidated by other women your on the wrong site I think ( no offence intended x ) I have privatising cock pics.. Add a bit of allure?? That's what happens when you lack imagination and confidence and ask for advice: it WILL be conflicting and you CAN'T please everyone. It's YOUR profile, you know what you want from the site and what you can offer: we haven't a clue. If you want 101 pics of your knob with Sky remotes, Lynx cans, tape measures et al: knock yourself out! If your going to get ratty kindly take your pent up frustration elsewhere! Maybe a electronic supplier for some rechargeable batteries!! ?? " I'm not intimidated by pics of other women, just don't want ant to see them. Personal choice. we are giving our opinions as requested, no need to be rude in return | |||
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" I'm not intimidated by pics of other women, just don't want ant to see them. Personal choice. we are giving our opinions as requested, no need to be rude in return " Indeed. And I did ask after all - I do apologise... Was trying to understand the logic, that is all | |||
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" Hello OP(original poster)welcome, its is frustrating I would imagine, stick around the forums, its fun, enlightening and can be quite entertaining in a dark humour kinda way....lots have people have made contact with prospective meets through here, although its not guaranteed, its a tad better than getting too down or frustrated.
"I have noticed this to be true - I have spoken far more in the forum than I have in the months I have had the profile | |||
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" Hello OP(original poster)welcome, its is frustrating I would imagine, stick around the forums, its fun, enlightening and can be quite entertaining in a dark humour kinda way....lots have people have made contact with prospective meets through here, although its not guaranteed, its a tad better than getting too down or frustrated.
I have noticed this to be true - I have spoken far more in the forum than I have in the months I have had the profile "There ya go! Stay smiley | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance? "Ok Dude a lot of negativity and that's not what you want. Reality wise there is no secret code magic wand etc its all down to being the right product (Guy) in the right place at the right time. Profile wise spend time over it trim it tune it re-trim it expand it till you get it as you want and keep the spelling and grammar correct. Let people know about you about your positivity, your interests to an extent and how amenable you can be. your profile sets the scene as a newer member. Be polite with messages expect rejection don't hassle don't expect a reply and thank people when they do let them know you appreciate their time even if its a no thanks. (6 months later it may be a yes) pic your pictures send with a message people want there and then not a link back to your profile and target your message to them make at least 50% of it personal to them. Don't push accept no complement when you can and be polite even if they are not its not your loss just one of those things. The aim is to be amenable non pushy guy who will go that extra yard to make sure they have a good time. This is no guarantee but will help a little. Good luck Dude. | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance? "Another guy who thinks this site is called shagsrus or weshaganybody.com | |||
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"Its your cock that is wanted, the social side can follow, just answering your post, as you say your approach isn't getting you very far......." Unless you're after a bloke, (and you're clear that you aren't), ignore this pearl of "wisdom" completely. Manrider doesn't want to appeal to women and has no idea how to. | |||
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"The fitter u are like me, even less chance you get lol x." We've told you before, your fitness and your body are not the problem. | |||
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" I'm not intimidated by pics of other women, just don't want ant to see them. Personal choice. we are giving our opinions as requested, no need to be rude in return Indeed. And I did ask after all - I do apologise... Was trying to understand the logic, that is all "There isn't always logic to understand. We each like what we like. I like your profile as it is now, save for a few minor spelling/grammar issues, (and I'm far more OCD about that than most). The pictures are good. If you were local and contacted me, I'd consider meeting. Good luck | |||
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"is there some secret code or method I am missing with this site, I seem to be ignored or turned down at every step - it's becoming quite frustrating. I am not pushy, I am polite and friendly - yet all I see is "deleted" any advice or guidance?
Another guy who thinks this site is called shagsrus or weshaganybody.com
"Take the time to look at my profile and read whole topic comments - people who make ill-informed, snap judgments are in fact very stupid people. Regardless of your spelling, grammar, vocabulary!! Your assumptions can kiss my shaven but sack! | |||
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" Ok Dude a lot of negativity and that's not what you want. Reality wise there is no secret code magic wand etc its all down to being the right product (Guy) in the right place at the right time. Profile wise spend time over it trim it tune it re-trim it expand it till you get it as you want and keep the spelling and grammar correct. Let people know about you about your positivity, your interests to an extent and how amenable you can be. your profile sets the scene as a newer member. Be polite with messages expect rejection don't hassle don't expect a reply and thank people when they do let them know you appreciate their time even if its a no thanks. (6 months later it may be a yes) pic your pictures send with a message people want there and then not a link back to your profile and target your message to them make at least 50% of it personal to them. Don't push accept no complement when you can and be polite even if they are not its not your loss just one of those things. The aim is to be amenable non pushy guy who will go that extra yard to make sure they have a good time. This is no guarantee but will help a little. Good luck Dude. "Excellent advice!! Thank you x | |||
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"The fitter u are like me, even less chance you get lol x. We've told you before, your fitness and your body are not the problem. " lol thanks | |||
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