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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before you all say... "this is not a dating site" I know

I just wanted to know what important things you look for in a guy/girl on the 1st date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dressed nice, smelling fresh, good smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punctuality and good manners is a good start

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Her smile

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I can't stand bad teeth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we've already met and the aesthetic attraction boxes have been ticked, probably having a witty sense of humour and similarities in taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They need to make me feel comfortable and take me as they find me, smell nice and have an attraction... Oh and like swinging too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, confidence, sense of humour, can take a bit of banter, and if she at least offers to buy a drink (not that I'd let her) then she'll get another lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Compatability, no awkward silences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have a sense of humour and be well turned out, ie no tracksuits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good flowing conversation, however it's refreshing when on other occasions you don't need it to be constant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dress sense, good shoes, clean appearence, smells good (either just shower gel or aftershave), smile, politeness.

good laughs and banter, that chemistry where you just bounce off each other with comments and jokes, no awkward silences, intelligence

im not one to sit around and have a guy say shit loads of compliments (makes me feel uncomfortable) but one or two is nice.. i dont like to talk about myself so tend to lead conversations.

sparkle in the eye and like a guy to be respectful by not going OTT on the touchy feely thing..

think im pretty impossible to date actually haha

oh and i hate guys buying me drinks..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dress sense, good shoes, clean appearence, smells good (either just shower gel or aftershave), smile, politeness.

good laughs and banter, that chemistry where you just bounce off each other with comments and jokes, no awkward silences, intelligence

im not one to sit around and have a guy say shit loads of compliments (makes me feel uncomfortable) but one or two is nice.. i dont like to talk about myself so tend to lead conversations.

sparkle in the eye and like a guy to be respectful by not going OTT on the touchy feely thing..

think im pretty impossible to date actually haha

oh and i hate guys buying me drinks.. "
I don't mind them buying them in a date but, not in a night out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"dress sense, good shoes, clean appearence, smells good (either just shower gel or aftershave), smile, politeness.

good laughs and banter, that chemistry where you just bounce off each other with comments and jokes, no awkward silences, intelligence

im not one to sit around and have a guy say shit loads of compliments (makes me feel uncomfortable) but one or two is nice.. i dont like to talk about myself so tend to lead conversations.

sparkle in the eye and like a guy to be respectful by not going OTT on the touchy feely thing..

think im pretty impossible to date actually haha

oh and i hate guys buying me drinks.. I don't mind them buying them in a date but, not in a night out! "
*on not in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good conversation flow.

If it is like pulling teeth without anaesthetics, then it is not going to work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good, decent shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice smile and teeth that don't look like sugar puffs xx

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

When it comes to swinging/sexual meets I am very confident but when it comes to a "date" I become rather shy so I like guys to be confident, able to ask questions to get me talking, patient, polite and as I work in a shop that sells fragrance smelling fresh is a must!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *R_Supports_FunMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Looks, confidence, sense of humour, can take a bit of banter, and if she at least offers to buy a drink (not that I'd let her) then she'll get another lol "
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good laugh, very attractive is a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and confidence are key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive bank account (that she's willing to share), crackin' tits and a tight arse, possibly owns a brewery or racing team....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good laugh, very attractive is a good laugh "
a dirty one

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