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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hard to find just a fem to join us for fun. How does everyone else get on? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i wont meet a couple unless with my partner just feel more at ease that way x

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We're still looking but some profiles are so fake. Lol so enjoying what fun we get at the minute with the thought that one day they will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples find it hard to find a single fem, you're not alone. Search the forum for similar topics. Lots of tips in old threads. Good luck.

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By *ilyflo1Woman
over a year ago

Horsham

My experience when being contacted by a couple is

- there is often no decent photo (face) of the male half

- either one or the other individual wants to watch you with their partner rather than have a proper 3-some.

- if there are decent pics, I'm only attracted to one individual, but I need to be attracted yo both for a meet.

As well as the more usual put-offs such as poor spelling/grammar, text-speak, no face pics, distance, kinky stuff, requests for anal etc., any of the points above will have me deleting a message from a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience when being contacted by a couple is

- there is often no decent photo (face) of the male half

- either one or the other individual wants to watch you with their partner rather than have a proper 3-some.

- if there are decent pics, I'm only attracted to one individual, but I need to be attracted yo both for a meet.

As well as the more usual put-offs such as poor spelling/grammar, text-speak, no face pics, distance, kinky stuff, requests for anal etc., any of the points above will have me deleting a message from a couple."

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We have a few sexy pics for sending(biassed of coarse lol) and yes distance is always a problem too lol

It's nice to watch 2 sexy lady's play but it's also very hot and honouring to be able to play with both too. I need to wake up ha ha. Sexy dreams again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like couples just want Fem as a play thing

An that's just not gonna happen

Best bet I would say is go to clubs that's where I meet with couples

Had a bad experience where the mrs ended up getting jealous it put me off so badly so now will only meet in clubs get to know couples that way

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

I think it is a case of keep looking but you will find it very difficult to be honest. We have been lucky enough on a couple of occasions and loved every minute. I love playing alone with the lady and then inviting hubby to join us if he is lucky lol

Good luck on your search, it will be worth it x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You mean a single bi female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many couples say they'd be happy with the fems playing and the guy just watching. I've offered lots of times then suddenly the guy gets all huffy and irate saying it wouldn't be fair if he didn't play too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's amazing how many couples say they'd be happy with the fems playing and the guy just watching. I've offered lots of times then suddenly the guy gets all huffy and irate saying it wouldn't be fair if he didn't play too. "

It all just seems too fraught with problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have to say that I find it just as difficult to find a nice couple to play with as a single bi fem, as we do as a couple ( we have a couples profile too ) , there are usually no face pics of the hubby when I ask , or they want a show put on for him, which is not my thing at all. So I guess it's just difficult to find local people that share the same interests whether you're a single bi fem or a couple... What a shame eh ? ( sigh ) .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hard to find just a fem to join us for fun. How does everyone else get on? X "
I think a lots of bi woman meeting alone like to get to know the people they meet well as could end up nasty and put them at risk being alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well atm me and the hubby are also looking for a single bi fem with no luck which is a shame but also looking for a couple having better luck with them tho my couples account is dory69nemo if any interest x gd luck to everyone with there searches xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience when being contacted by a couple is

- there is often no decent photo (face) of the male half

- either one or the other individual wants to watch you with their partner rather than have a proper 3-some.

- if there are decent pics, I'm only attracted to one individual, but I need to be attracted yo both for a meet.

As well as the more usual put-offs such as poor spelling/grammar, text-speak, no face pics, distance, kinky stuff, requests for anal etc., any of the points above will have me deleting a message from a couple.

"

Hear hear

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I dont think theyre all that exclusive Ive met a few and been offered more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few sexy pics for sending(biassed of coarse lol) and yes distance is always a problem too lol

It's nice to watch 2 sexy lady's play but it's also very hot and honouring to be able to play with both too. I need to wake up ha ha. Sexy dreams again lol "

I prefer to play with both but all the couples I've met wanted fem to fem fun and the male wasn't allowed to play with me only the wife

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

We're looking for all 3 versions with minimal luck (FM, FF and FFM)

I think maybe we're too honest and also in this instance I think the age gap really goes against us.

But we look at it like all other things. What we've got is perfect already anything else is a bonus and if it happens to be what we're looking for then

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Meeting couples is fraught with problems.

Never any pics of the male.

I decline instantly when approached by a 'single female profile' because that's annoying & too often on here.

Its usually just not worth the hassle especially when i can meet couples in clubs and enjoy mff with other singles, putting us all on an even footing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many couples say they'd be happy with the fems playing and the guy just watching. I've offered lots of times then suddenly the guy gets all huffy and irate saying it wouldn't be fair if he didn't play too. "

well, seeings as im quite happy to serve drinks, fetch towels and generally keep out the way, i can assure you, there would be no crying in anguish about not being able to join in on my part lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking you never know one day !

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow


"It's amazing how many couples say they'd be happy with the fems playing and the guy just watching. I've offered lots of times then suddenly the guy gets all huffy and irate saying it wouldn't be fair if he didn't play too. "

We had a couple/couple meet here and they wanted to know a bit about dom. So p spent all day texting to make sure they were both comfortable and yes they were.

When they turned up we had the usual chat and then p got to work on her. Well unknown to us she'd never squirter. P got her there in minutes the husband got the hump the wife wanted more he dragged her out and blocked us before they even reached the car. .....

So its not just fems that get it unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only single straight females so far, maybe I will get my dream;-)

Nette

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Zey seek her here,

zey seek her there,

Zey seek that elusive single fem

Everywhere

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My best mate its a single bi female..... Just thought I'd share that with you

(And no, we don't play together, before you lot ask )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem meeting single bo females. Mind you we certainly don't rely on this site to find them.

An earlier poster hit the nail on the head when they said so many couples are seeking a single bi female as a plaything for their entertainment and don't stop to consider what is in it for them.

Meeting people in real life is so much easier as it gives them the chance to see a couple's true dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to meet a couple id look ....

When I used to get mails from couples it was usually very obvious the woman was doing it just to please .....

Now I look ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no problem meeting single bo females. Mind you we certainly don't rely on this site to find them.

An earlier poster hit the nail on the head when they said so many couples are seeking a single bi female as a plaything for their entertainment and don't stop to consider what is in it for them.

Meeting people in real life is so much easier as it gives them the chance to see a couple's true dynamic. "

Same as the above, we have never had any problems meeting single bi or straight females, but we don't actively seek them out on this site... If it happens then it's a really nice bonus!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We don't really search so much for single women as most are not interested in couples who can't accomodate. As we can't due to kids in and out we settle for couples with bi fems and the odd single guys for little self indulgence for Leslie but I'm sure eventually we will get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually search out what I'm looking for but occasionally a message from a couple strikes the right note...and then it's great. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few that we meet regularly but have always met and hooked up with them through socials and parties not through looking for them on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh hello. I am a BI single lady , and from Essex too...

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

My partner - can't believe I'm calling her that!! - She finds all the young free and single bi females that we will ever need usually her friends, most under 20, all very sexy, when our couples profile is created we probably won't look on here for the single females, we've met a a couple couples from here and been to the clubs.

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