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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love not live!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?"
yes I have and loved it! 3-4 times. Of course family and friends worry but you are only a phone all away... Go for it! You only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I do not do anything on my own, then I do not do anything at all!

However, sun/beach holidays do nothing for me.

City breaks on my own or camping with the dog, yes, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip: Don't tell the family or those who may worry until after the event.

Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. Sometimes you just need some 'me' time

It's wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistically you will be safe if you holiday on your own. If you want a hedonistic type of holiday I would recommend Gran Canaria specifically Maspolomas or Melonares Both these resorts have up market hotels and access to naturist beaches and I have found them to be friendly and safe,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holidays are for Lazy people, we should all be working hard to revive the Economy not frittering our money abroad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I think I am going to look at this more. Anyone recommend a nudist area?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Statistically you will be safe if you holiday on your own. If you want a hedonistic type of holiday I would recommend Gran Canaria specifically Maspolomas or Melonares Both these resorts have up market hotels and access to naturist beaches and I have found them to be friendly and safe,"

Thank you, I am not worried about not safe as there is good and bad folk wherever you go and I am not one of these people that leave their common sense at passport control!!

I shall check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?"

I've done it three times. It was a package holiday to the same hotel in Rhodes each time but I luvd it. You can come and go as you please, make friends or not as the mood takes you. It certainly boosted my confidence. Wish I could afford to do it again this year, might be just what I need.

Book it first then tell family and friends, that's what I did. Thie will avoid the 'Oh don't go on your own' comments or even worse the 'I'll come with you' offers

Go for it Op and enjoy yourself!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

An elderly female relative goes off on her own, so Id never let others worries or scorn stop me, only inform me. If there is unusual danger or something to know, then cool. Otherwise, Im changing fab location for a while. Enjoy yourself as much as you can.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Went to Ibiza for a holiday on my own, more sand, sea, sex and sun than you could shake a stick at, had a great time.

Plenty of nudist beaches there, and i checked a few of them out.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?"

Been to Corfu, France, Germany, Southern Spain, Gibraltar, Singapore, Poland and Australia alone. I love it. Especially if I can drive around on my own.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Best thing I ever did in Summer 2012.

So good, I did it again the following Summer.

Highly recommend it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't do hot or beach holidays as such but I really wouldn't go anywhere if I had to go with someone else.

I spent seven weeks driving around New Zealand on my own and people were worried about me going on my own at first. They soon forget and got on with their lives though.

Last year I did need a week away on my own and I took myself off. I told people where I would be though and they turned up half way through.

If you tell them make sure you tell them you really want to be alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?"

The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own.

No apologies, no excuses,

No one lean on, rely on, or blame.

The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.

This is the day your life really begins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to marakesh a few times before years ago but I was with a male partner, but this year I want to go there but I will be alone, so worried about the safety aspect a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?

The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own.

No apologies, no excuses,

No one lean on, rely on, or blame.

The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.

This is the day your life really begins.

"

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Used to do this regularly - once packed a rucksack on the Friday night, went to Piccadilly station in Manchester & bought an interrail ticket & buggered off round Europe on my tod for a few weeks. Met some interesting people and had a good time. Taught me how to be self sufficient and to be aware of my surroundings.

Also went to Egypt & Jordan on my own, but that was an organised trip so rather different. Its great, forces you to be open to meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your encouragement! I deffo going to give it some serious contemplation xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have thought of a problem who will put the sun cream on my back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a sun screen that comes in a spray, problem solved.

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By *een_VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Lanark / Surrounding

some specific holiday companies out there too catering for single holidays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to Ibiza for a holiday on my own, more sand, sea, sex and sun than you could shake a stick at, had a great time.

Plenty of nudist beaches there, and i checked a few of them out. "

i was left in Ibiza on my own by a freind...i too had a great time. Didnt find any nudist beaches....just have to go back now mmmm

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

On my to do list......son getting to that age he doesn't want to go on holiday with his mum...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a sun screen that comes in a spray, problem solved.

"

Sorted!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Looks like foxy needs a good holiday destination! So suggestions welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On my to do list......son getting to that age he doesn't want to go on holiday with his mum... "

My two go to their dads for a lot of the school holidays so considering some time out in October booking flights and accommodation seperatly. Or even a long weekend just some warmth, relaxation and I really want to try a naturist beach/ hotel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to take a holiday on my own but feel sure my family would worry and friends/work mates think I am odd.

I would just live a few days in a hot climate pref naked just completely chilling out with my iPod and kindle.

Has any lady dared to do so?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to in my younger days before family. Definitely would again. It's a whole different experience. You get to chat to lots more people than you would if you were with others.

Last time I did this I only went to Nice but ended up joining in a wedding reception at the hotel I was staying at. The family sent a bottle of champagne over to the table I was sat at. I was being entertained by four English guys - shop fitters.... Dancing chatting laughing and a bit of fun with a couple of them . That was about 8 years ago.

Doing things like that make me feel very alive - I'm sure some of you appreciate what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can assure you it won't be the first week in April, looking more like October so think I will need the canaries But thanks all the same for the offer x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Used to in my younger days before family. Definitely would again. It's a whole different experience. You get to chat to lots more people than you would if you were with others.

Last time I did this I only went to Nice but ended up joining in a wedding reception at the hotel I was staying at. The family sent a bottle of champagne over to the table I was sat at. I was being entertained by four English guys - shop fitters.... Dancing chatting laughing and a bit of fun with a couple of them . That was about 8 years ago.

Doing things like that make me feel very alive - I'm sure some of you appreciate what I mean "

Sounds more and more appealing! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read the whole thread, but all I'd suggest is to stick to countries you have some safety with / similar laws and customs to our own country, where you will be respected as a female , as an equal. Our immediate European neighbours have a lot to offer me thinks. One life live it

If it wasn't for the fact I love being with mrnotts so much I'd probably be doing the same

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Went to Ibiza for a holiday on my own, more sand, sea, sex and sun than you could shake a stick at, had a great time.

Plenty of nudist beaches there, and i checked a few of them out.

i was left in Ibiza on my own by a freind...i too had a great time. Didnt find any nudist beaches....just have to go back now mmmm"

Yes the 3 i went to were called....

1.Cala Conta beach, the nudist area is over on the left side with steep rocky area behind. The middle and right side of the beach are normal swimwear.

2. Ez Cavalett beach, left side of beach is normal swimwear, the centre area of the beach is nudist and said to be swingers area, you do see some couples going off into the sand dunes behind from time to time, and at the right end of the beach is a gay/lesbian nudist beach. I stayed in the centre bit, lol.

3. Las Salinas beach has a small nudist area somwhere in the middle.

There are others but i did'nt visit them, wanted to visit Playa den Bossa beach but never got round to it, maybe next time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't read the whole thread, but all I'd suggest is to stick to countries you have some safety with / similar laws and customs to our own country, where you will be respected as a female , as an equal. Our immediate European neighbours have a lot to offer me thinks. One life live it

If it wasn't for the fact I love being with mrnotts so much I'd probably be doing the same "

Mr Notts is a lucky man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been to Greece,Turkey,France,Switzeland and Italy on my own and the one beach holiday i would say was brilliant was greece,. No nudist beaches but very welcoming people and i met a whole bunch of new mates , great time.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

only prob i have its the price they charge

for single room supp .last year went to

spain on a shearings hol long way to go by coach for some i know but i got talking to lots of folk that way x

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

I have been away a few times on my own in this country. Loved it; doing exactly what I wanted when I wanted was great. But never been brave enough to go abroad on my own wish I was. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been away a few times on my own in this country. Loved it; doing exactly what I wanted when I wanted was great. But never been brave enough to go abroad on my own wish I was. xx"

It's really no different. If I can do it anyone can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only prob i have its the price they charge

for single room supp .last year went to

spain on a shearings hol long way to go by coach for some i know but i got talking to lots of folk that way x"

Ive been lucky re the single room supplement, I never paid it re turkey or greece , just need to shop around a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been away a few times on my own in this country. Loved it; doing exactly what I wanted when I wanted was great. But never been brave enough to go abroad on my own wish I was. xx

It's really no different. If I can do it anyone can "

The first time i went to greece, i got to my apartment and thought "wtf have i done" ? then it was "sod this" got myself showered and changed and went out to explore. Met people about an hour later and spent the week partying with them. fabulous

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

As i stood on the ferry pulling out of Harwich that Saturday evening, with no plan & nowhere to stay i thought "WTF have i done?" but it was fine. Spent a day bumming round Paris before catching a train to Marseille & the South Coast. Managed to meet 3 Irish lads with cheap French wine, so spent the night partying before finding a campsite on the beach

There's nothing to be afraid of except your own ability to hold yourself back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without sounding rude and or anti social its more for me to go and unwind completely than to get chatting to lots of folk. I have had beach holidays with friends which have just involved baking by the pool all day and I am quite happy with my own company although a bit of male/ couple company in the evening wouldn't go amiss!!

I couldn't do a coach journey to Spain I would think that Brendan from coach trip would appear at any moment or I would land up sitting next to the smelliest person on earth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been lucky re the single room supplement, I never paid it re turkey or greece , just need to shop around a bit. "

Did you book the hotels direct online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been lucky re the single room supplement, I never paid it re turkey or greece , just need to shop around a bit.

Did you book the hotels direct online? "

Both, at the local co-op travel shop , they will hunt through for the best deals, and ive booked online to and got some cracking deals over the years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been lucky re the single room supplement, I never paid it re turkey or greece , just need to shop around a bit.

Did you book the hotels direct online?

Both, at the local co-op travel shop , they will hunt through for the best deals, and ive booked online to and got some cracking deals over the years. "

Thanks, I think I am going to plump for a few days in the Oct half term book the flights for a Monday and return on a Friday as they are a bit cheaper. Then source a room!! Excited now!!

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